After A Year And 6 Months Dating I Confessed My Fantasy

[cooladrio]

We have been dating for a year and a half both mid twenties. Iv always had a fantasy about her cheating or just fucking another guy and loving it. I have never thought id tell her but it got too much. I was laying next to her and told her I had a weird dream (which i didnt) I continued to tell her of a dream about a 3some. She instantly said "with another girl?" I said "No with another guy"
She reacted straight away! "Thats soo weird" She said . then asked me if the dream was vivid. I told her it was. She then asked the question.. "did you wake up with a boner?" I said yes but I do every morning. She then said "did you cum?" I replied with a no I didnt cum. She asked if I liked it and I said "something about seeing you get fucked turned me on"
I then kinda covered myself up saying "its just cos its taboo" etc and tried to get out of the heated situation.

All she really said after that was "humans are weird"
We didnt continue to talk about it.

What does everyone think of her reaction? What is the next step? Thanks

 

[SlutwivesRock]

You have now planted the seed in her mind.

 

[cooladrio]

You have now planted the seed in her mind.

will she start thinking bout fucking other guys?...

 

[davebethforfun]

beth told me her fantasy and then we set itup

 

[SlutwivesRock]

will she start thinking bout fucking other guys?...

Almost undoubtedly.

 

[seducingyourwife]

Next step in her progression is to find a guy when you're out and tell her it's so weird because you've never seen that guy before but he really looks like the guy from your dream. See if she says she wants to fuck him.

 

[cooladrio]

Next step in her progression is to find a guy when you're out and tell her it's so weird because you've never seen that guy before but he really looks like the guy from your dream. See if she says she wants to fuck him.

such a great idea thank you

 

[Enigma632]

All she really said after that was "humans are weird"

Wow, where did you hook-up with the alien?

 

[KatieBoo]

Congratulations and good luck

 

[SquirmingSub]

Anything is possible through communication. Good Luck.

 

[landm]

my partner told me of his fantasy with me and another guy but he has to be there it has turned me on so much we talk about it all the time and one day i hope it comes true

 

[SquirmingSub]

Landm - It took a lot for him to be open with you about his fantasy although for some guys it takes an even stronger woman to make happen.

 

[GaryCaste]

You are so beautiful and I hope so very much you have the wonderful experience, and hope after you have you'll share your experience with us

my partner told me of his fantasy with me and another guy but he has to be there it has turned me on so much we talk about it all the time and one day i hope it comes true

 

[2wheel]

I opened up with mine and told her my most inner thoughts, desires hoping to get us back on track. I had never done that with anyone before. The following day the only thing she remembered was my opening sentence and my closing sentence.

To bare one's soul and be left in a pile of crap is beyond my ability to explain.

 

[SquirmingSub]

2Wheels - It is hard enough for us guys to express our deep inner thoughts and desires and it is also very difficult for some women to truly listen to then or for that matter accept them especially when many were brought up in an environments were this lifestyle go against there core beliefs and on the flip side some take to it like a fish in water.

 

[2wheel]

Damned if you do damned if you don't.

 

[SquirmingSub]

Damned if you do damned if you don't.

Indeed that can be the case although what I have found over the years, it is worth the risk. Better to risk than to regret not being yourself.

 

[cooladrio]

Update,
Havent mentioned it directly again,
however i have gotten her to confess she likes older guys, 30-40 shes early twenties.
shes even telling me when she thinks guys are hot when they walk past

 

[landm]

my partner does the same thing with my consent plus she flashes a lot of guys at work if she thinks he is hot

 

[cooladrio]

Is this progression do you think?