I actually experienced both ends of the spectrum. I told my wife if my fantasies for years and she found it difficult to relate as she was brought up conservative, Then one day she decided to try it and took to it literally like a fish to water, Before I knew it she had fucked five different men in the first yearSquirmingSub said:2Wheels - It is hard enough for us guys to express our deep inner thoughts and desires and it is also very difficult for some women to truly listen to then or for that matter accept them especially when many were brought up in an environments were this lifestyle go against there core beliefs and on the flip side some take to it like a fish in water.