Dblinsey said:
First, Thank you Janice for your wonderful comments! I can’t begin to tell you how much we both deeply appreciated them!
Regarding the stories (and other things we’ve posted); my husband and I have seen thousands of captioned pictures. Pictures that don’t say what a woman would say. Pictures that don’t convey what a lot of men and women feel. Pictures that suggest that the only goal is impregnation. But we’ve rarely seen pictures of women and men (both Black and White) seriously enjoying themselves, which is a shame.
I’ve read a lot of comments in other forums, and the common consensus is that the MAJORITY of folks engage in this activity simply for the fun of it. Not to humiliate the husband. Not to put him in a cage. Not to deny him access to his wife. But instead, to have fun for all parties involved.
They, like us, believe extreme approaches to this lifestyle (ultra humiliation of the husband, BNWO, caging him, leaving him and/or becoming intentionally impregnated by Blacks) are largely the fantasies of single white guys, some posing as married couples, and don’t reflect reality.
We try and provide a more realistic approach to the lifestyle in the only way we know how, through these contributions. We feel so strongly about this that we’ve posted over 800 captions in this and another forum. None of these captions, not one in 800, involved humiliation, caged, or leaving hubby.
Finally, as you very well know Janice, we are always open for discussions regarding this lifestyle, never turning anyone away and we always answer every note received, as you do. But if others out there in ‘cyberland’ want to discuss anything with us, with me, or with my husband, all they need do is drop us a note!
Please everyone, take care of yourselves in these trying times.
Warmest and Deepest Regards
Donna
Hi Donna. I love your honest opinion and thoughts on this. I agree that wives don't want to "humiliate" their husband, or make them feel bad. They shouldn't be married if either party truly wants to hurt the other. However, there are a lot of men that you will meet on here that truly do want to be humiliated sexually, at least for an hour or two once in a while. I think once a woman understands that about her husband, she can humiliate him in that way at those times. We are all complex people and discovering what we like is so important.
Let's say you really love the idea of a black man inside you. You love your husband, but the thought of sex with a black guy once in a while really gets you going. If your husband found this out and wanted for you to have fun - to have sex on a regular basis with a black guy because he truly loved you, wouldn't you love him for that?
If your husband really gets turned on by the thought of seeing his wife taking a black man's seed and you were okay doing that for him, wouldn't you be an amazing wife? Maybe the husband gets really turned on by you telling him how much better her black bull - by how it's not ever close. You love him, but you love black cock in the bedroom. Maybe this is true, or maybe you're embellishing a bit because the humiliation of that pleases your husband. Either way, your husband loves you for that because he knows you truly understand him. That's not really humiliation, even it means putting him in a cage (because he wants that role).
I just fun is what people's individual opinion is. What may invoke pity for most people, might be just what the husband wants. I don't know how common it is, but if you have ever looked at some of Subhub's picture collections, you know that thousands and thousands of white women have spread their legs for black with someone taking their picture. Considering the number that would be mortified with a picture of them doing that, I bet the number is in the millions of wives who have experimented with it, many if not most to please their husband.
So, what do you think husbands? Would you love for your wife to humiliate you? Tell you how she needs a real man? Make you wear a condom, but let her black bull cum inside her? Apologize to you while he's inside her for wanting him more than you in the bedroom? Wives, does you husband want you to humiliate him? Do you enjoy being mean to him, or are you mean to him because you love him and know him well enough to know that's what he truly wants?
And, by the way....have some of you been talking about this (black-in-white sex) with your spouse and can't wait for the pandemic to wane so it can really happen? I would love to hear how some people have been planning to take the plunge and are nervous, but excited. I think this summer it may be possible to do it safely!
Just some thoughts...Julie