First, Thank you Janice for your wonderful comments! I can’t begin to tell you how much we both deeply appreciated them!
Regarding the stories (and other things we’ve posted); my husband and I have seen thousands of captioned pictures. Pictures that don’t say what a woman would say. Pictures that don’t convey what a lot of men and women feel. Pictures that suggest that the only goal is impregnation. But we’ve rarely seen pictures of women and men (both Black and White) seriously enjoying themselves, which is a shame.
I’ve read a lot of comments in other forums, and the common consensus is that the MAJORITY of folks engage in this activity simply for the fun of it. Not to humiliate the husband. Not to put him in a cage. Not to deny him access to his wife. But instead, to have fun for all parties involved.
They, like us, believe extreme approaches to this lifestyle (ultra humiliation of the husband, BNWO, caging him, leaving him and/or becoming intentionally impregnated by Blacks) are largely the fantasies of single white guys, some posing as married couples, and don’t reflect reality.
We try and provide a more realistic approach to the lifestyle in the only way we know how, through these contributions. We feel so strongly about this that we’ve posted over 800 captions in this and another forum. None of these captions, not one in 800, involved humiliation, caged, or leaving hubby.
Finally, as you very well know Janice, we are always open for discussions regarding this lifestyle, never turning anyone away and we always answer every note received, as you do. But if others out there in ‘cyberland’ want to discuss anything with us, with me, or with my husband, all they need do is drop us a note!
Please everyone, take care of yourselves in these trying times.
Warmest and Deepest Regards
Donna