Still with my wife so no.
But many times I think about my ex gf...she was basically a *****, we did everything and more (also something I didn't like) but she was a piece of shxt that cheated on me and basically deviated my mind toward this lifestyle (something that anyway happened around 20...
it was a dear friend of mine for us.
Said that, given our personal experince, more than stranger vs friend, more important is...the guy should be married to avoid issues
- It was a friend's of mine idea. I slowly convinced her and he then became her regular bull.
- Yes, always him.
- Both. I like to watch them but I also like the hours before he comes home. Even buying a dress that she'll wear for him can be incredibly exciting.
It happened around 1 year ago so still very fresh in my mind.
After I convinced my wife, we invited this dear friend of mine for dinner.
It definitely wasn't like I expected as the jealousy was really too much to handle but it was our first time.
He's now her regular and only bull
No one before the marriage. Then since we started this new lifestyle around 1 year ago, she had her regular bull (he was a dear friend of mine) and just few other experiences. Now just her bull
no one else before our marriage.
After that, her regular bull and few other experiences so not really that many.
I can see really high numbers here but we are nowhere near those!