I told my second wife about cuckolding when we started dating, and how my first wife had several boyfriends while we were married, and for a couple years, she seemed interested. If fact, while on vacation in Jamaica, (before we were legally married), we purchased a souvenir drum from a local named Rasta Ralph. He seemed to like us, so he had us hold hands, and he began to speak about love and marriage, then he walked away. We looked at each other and kind of laughed how we thought we had just received a "Rasta Wedding".
That night after a toga party, we agreed she would go to bed with another guest at the resort that had been flirting with her all week long. I got to watch him consummate my marriage with my new "wife". After he left, she asked if I came. I said not yet expecting she and I would have fun. She then she just rolled over with her back to me, and went to sleep leaving me "worked up".
The next day, we talked about it. She admitted fucking him was like fucking a coke can, and that if we lived closer to where he lived, she'd do him more.
We left the next day. So as I see it, she fucked another guy on our wedding night, and it was probably a couple weeks before we had sex again.
We legally married about 2 years later. We didn't have sex on the night of our wedding. It was the next night that we consummated our legal marriage, and on our weeklong honeymoon, we had sex only once.
A couple weeks after returning, I got suspicious, and I looked on my wife's computer. My wife had been chatting with an old boyfriend. They were making plans to meet. She admitted to him that her husband (me) of 21 days had never made her cum, and that she lost count of how many times she came with him the last time they were together.
Shortly after that, she thought that the "cuckolding lifestyle" was weird, and she didn't understand it.
Recently a coworker of hers got caught having sex with another coworker...at work. My wife never said she shouldn't have had the affair. She would just go on about how stupid the girl was for getting caught, and how she would have done it different.
So I guess her attitude is, cuckolding is weird, but it appears cheating is okay, or "normal" though. I know, fortunately, someone is satisfying her these days, and he must be good, because we haven't had sex in a few years.
And that is as it should be, since I'm not man enough to do it.