thanks Mimi.i see myself as bi but i am very happy with helen and love her a great deal i just dont feel i want sex with any one at all. its not some thing thats on my mind. in alot of ways it would be a relife to me if helen had a boyfriend.
thanks Joey. as it goes i am suffering from a rear form of anemia that cuases me to be very low on energy and also very layed back. yes i get blood transfeisions but it dose not help much and i am also out of work due to it so helen has to do every thing and i belive she should be happy and...
hello all. update time. things have been up and down for a bit now but helen has now been with 2 diffrent guys but she now has a few confidance issues as shes big and if i am honest not great looking. so we are looking for advice on what type of guys to look for now for her.myself i am in...
hi every one and thanks for the help Custer.its been some time since i posted an up date on whats been going on. last week me and helen had a good long talk over things that i started. to cut a long storie short i have said that i love her lots and i want to spend the rest of my life with...
well the weekend is over and my update so far is this.helen has spent alot of the weekend going out with friends and when i have asked if she had a nice time she has said yes and that she did not want to come home alot of the time (this was directed at me i think) i have since found a phone...
thanks for the advice so far, it has been very helpful. my update now though is that i have been to my doctor and also been passed on to other doctors from her. so far they have said there is nothing wrong with me and my sex drive might be down to the way my mind works more than my body.i...
i have also talked to helen about me being celibate and she thinks its who i am anyway. i have also talked about her having a new man in her life a she has admited to thinking about it.
thanks every one for getting back to me. its given me alot to think about. just to bring a bit more light to whats happening with me and also my wife. i have tryed lots to make her happy in the bedroom but i just dont have any sex drive at all. i have thought in the past that her having some one...
thanks mac but i dont think i can turn her back on to me in that way. at the end of the day i just want her to be happy and i am willing to stand aside for that just dont want to lose her altogether
hello. thanks for reading my post here.i am looking for help friends and advice as our marrige has really broken down.we have been together for ten years now and its gotten to the stage where she still loves me but more like a friend. we dont have sex any more (despite her having a high...