My surprise

[ejhunter85]

Another suggestion is maybe go to your local video rental store that rents x-rated videos and rent a couple interracial videos. Just a thought

 

[reprobate]

He may be interested in it as just a type of porn. That's how I started my interest in it. The skin contrast alone was a turn-on to me. I didn't immediately apply what I was seeing to my wife and me.

I like old fashioned approaches to these situations like just coming out and talking about it. Is there any way you can just tell your fiance you know he visited the IR sites without offending him? If he knows you like IR too and would look at the sites or movies with him, he would probably like that a lot. It is a dream come true for most guys that their wives or girlfriends would watch porn with them. From there it will be easier to broach the subject of something more real, if that is what interests you.

 

[macestar]

Why don't you tell your fiance that you have looked at a few inter-racial sites on the internet out of curiosity, because one of your friends was talking about it. Tell him that your eyes were popping out of your head with surprise of what you saw and read.

Refer to a particular site, and ask him to look at it with you and have a few laughs together. He can only refuse - but he will probably say yes, and might show you some other websites as well.

A woman can introduce this kind of stuff, a man is scared you will dump him and tell your friends he is a sexual weirdo.

The ball is in your court, honey, so talk to your fiance after he has had two glasses of beer and is relaxing. Only good can come our of such a discussion, to bring you both emotionally closer.

Communication is the way to loosen up, is it Josetta? You give the good advice, really.