A question for you caged cucks....

[Custer Laststand]

And 88 does not qualify as old. In fact, I feel much younger than that....like 85 or so.

That's the stuff...

.... Because [my male chastity device] is metal, and has a belt chain, my wife can, and does, lock me to things (railings, chairs, etc.) in public. I become fully aware, even if someone catches [sees?] me, I'm there either 'til the key returns or bolt cutters show up. ....

Being locked by one's wife to a railing or something else immoveable by a chain (in effect, one's leash) leading from one's male chastity device sounds pretty close to ultimate public humiliation.

Does your wife lead the chain from your chastity device out through your zipper when she locks you to (e.g.) a railing, or is your chain arranged such that it passes around your waist then leads out between two of your shirt buttons to the railing...?

Speaking of which, the following forum may be of interest to your wife:

Should women keep men on leashes?
Comments: Male Leash Laws

We will be locking me up beginning this Christmas. My girlfriend has told me I've become too needy lately and have been requesting far more sex that she's willing to give me.

Oh oh. You've incurred her displeasure...

We've been discussing this for a while; now it's a done deal. I'm purchasing [a male chastity device] "for her," from me, today. I'm apprehensive but incredibly excited. I'm hoping it will help me focus on what's important: making her happy. I will love and apprreciate her that much more.

You have the right attitude Unclem; all this sounds more than reasonable vis-a-vis your girlfriend — but, how does your wife fit into this picture? Did she and you separate or get divorced...? If you've said so in a post, I must have missed it...

 

[BHCCuck]

Being locked by one's wife to a railing or something else immoveable by a chain (in effect, one's leash) leading from one's male chastity device sounds pretty close to ultimate public humiliation.

Does your wife lead the chain from your chastity device out through your zipper when she locks you to (e.g.) a railing, or is your chain arranged such that it passes around your waist then leads out between two of your shirt buttons to the railing...?

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Either through the zipper, or if wearing shorts, out the bottom of the shorts.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Either through the zipper, or if wearing shorts, out the bottom of the shorts.

Whew. That does sound pretty close to ultimate public humiliation. Does your wife lock you by your chastity-device-chain to something immoveable, in public, very often?

When your wife locks you to something in that way, is it usually briefly (say, around 10 min. or less), or is it usually for quite a while (say, 1/2-hour to an hour), or on any given occasion when she does that, is it impossible to guess how long your wife might leave you locked by your chastity-device-chain to the rail (or whatever)?

On those occasions, do you find people passing-by usually:

1) look at your lockup chain, then at you, then comment or ask you about it? Or,

2) look at your lockup chain as if with mild curiosity, but keep walking and don't comment or ask you about it? Or,

3) look straight ahead pretending they don't see your lockup chain, say nothing, and keep walking?

Among those who comment or ask you about it, do most of them tend to be women, or men, or children, or a mix?

Sorry about all these questions. But, this practice by your wife seems unusually imaginative and almost unique — at least, I haven't read of it before in this forum. So, I and perhaps others would appreciate any additional light you'd be willing to shed on your wife's practice of not only leashing you with a chastity-device-chain, but occasionally locking you to something immoveable, in public, by your chastity-device-chain.

Thanks.

 

[BHCCuck]

Whew. That does sound pretty close to ultimate public humiliation. Does your wife lock you by your chastity-device-chain to something immoveable, in public, very often? Not often, maybe an average of once every 2 months. It is usually done when she is either wanting to go to a night club to look for a guy or couple, or if shes in a hotel room playing.

When your wife locks you to something in that way, is it usually briefly (say, around 10 min. or less), or is it usually for quite a while (say, 1/2-hour to an hour), or on any given occasion when she does that, is it impossible to guess how long your wife might leave you locked by your chastity-device-chain to the rail (or whatever)? No, never a short time like 10 minutes. Probably shortest was 90 minutes, longest was 3 hours. I do have my cell phone, so I am well aware of how long shes away, but a clock does no good because its not a set time that shes gone.

On those occasions, do you find people passing-by usually:

1) look at your lockup chain, then at you, then comment or ask you about it? Or,

2) look at your lockup chain as if with mild curiosity, but keep walking and don't comment or ask you about it? Or,

3) look straight ahead pretending they don't see your lockup chain, say nothing, and keep walking? Obviously since it is in public and shes not there, I do my best to try and hide it, as I dont want it to be seen. Yes, the THOUGHT of being caught is always hot as a fantasy to most people, but the reality is a complete mix of emotions. Fear of being caught, someone not liking and trying to defend a fight with a chain holding you to something. Fear of a cop or security seeing. Humiliation of a good looking couple/woman seeing and you being turned on, but instead being laughed at. You spend most of your time trying to hide the chain, and watching people to see if they notice. In fact, if she does it when shes on a date, you pretty much forget shes on a date and you are more thinking about yourself.

Among those who comment or ask you about it, do most of them tend to be women, or men, or children, or a mix? We live next to a gambling town (easy access to hotels and visitors) so most people I see are adults. If too many kids were around, she would find a more secluded spot. Children are not allowed to "hang out" in nightclubs or in casinos. Most people are not subtle when they notice. You see the shock reaction, or them elbowing a friend, most will not say a word to you. Your mind also plays games with you, so its hard to say every time who sees and who you just think saw you. In fact, I have only had 2 times anyone spoke up. One was a couple, she walked up, said she thought my wife was hot, and thought it was a great lifestyle, then he clears his voice and snapped a pic from about 10 feet away, and they walked off, without saying anything else. The other time was just a single gal, patted me on the head ad said "good boy" and kept walking. I think most people dont know what to say, and the ones that do say anything are in some type of lifestyle relationship.

Sorry about all these questions. But, this practice by your wife seems unusually imaginative and almost unique — at least, I haven't read of it before in this forum. So, I and perhaps others would appreciate any additional light you'd be willing to shed on your wife's practice of not only leashing you with a chastity-device-chain, but occasionally locking you to something immoveable, in public, by your chastity-device-chain.

Thanks.

No problems on the questions. We have been married a LONG time, so we have experimented in many ways together, and stick with things that work, and abandon things that dont. When she plays with other people, we have found out that she can have more fun if I'm not there. She doesnt have to worry about any feelings or reactions from me, she can just have fun. Just like most guys, if I'm not there, I do get a range of feelings from good to bad. It started out that she would lock me in our room/house while she was out. Although I cant stop her physically while I'm locked up at home, I still am tormented of those feelings. By locking me up publicly, the whole time shes gone, I'm more concentrated on not getting caught or fear of humiliation that I dont have ANY thoughts of jealousy or anger, so it actually makes it easier to deal with in a crazy sort of way. Make sence?

 

[BHCCuck]

Since I do metal work, I built my cage for me and made it REAL. The cage its self is made from 3/16 stainless steel wire, welded to metal hand cuffs. I have a very strong upward curve when I'm hard, and made the cage point downward. I am rather thick, but not real long. When I am 1/2 hard, the cage gets tight, and uncomfortable, but when I'm fully hard, it varies from extremely uncomfortable to painful, as the cage is tight, plus with my upward curve and its downward curve, the "head" often hits and pushes on the 2nd bar and will pull on my nuts painfully, plus pinches the sack from the angle changing.

One thing I didnt like about CB cages are them being plastic. If you HAD to get out of the cage, you could by simply breaking the plastic, so that makes it more "roleplay" than real,to me, if bondage is done in the idea of locking to something. Its like having velcro bondage straps, you COULD get out if wanting to end it.

Because I do my own metal work, I also modified the lock. I used cheap cuffs that we all have keys to, but, I ground out the rivets, added a spot weld inside, ad taper ground the pin, the welded it all back up. So, even if you have one of the keys that comes with the cheap cuffs, it wont work. I took our key and notched it to get past the spotweld. We all know how easy it is to pick those cuffs, by taper grinding the pin, only a flat surface like a key, will unlock it, not a paperclip.

So, with a small chain, when I'm locked to something, if I need unlocked, I either need the key, or bolt cutters (or a grinder or something to cut it off). It becomes a very real situation.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Thanks for enlarging on your wife's practice of locking you up by your leash...

In fact, if [my wife locks me to something immoveable by my chastity-device-chain] while she's on a date, pretty much forget she's on a date because [I am] thinking more about [myself].

Good point...

Most people are not subtle when they notice [I've been locked up by my leash-chain]. You see the shock reaction or them elbowing a friend. Most will not say a word to [to me]. [My] mind also plays games with me, so it's hard to say every time who [has seen me] and who [I only imagine] has seen [my lock-up chain]. In fact, there have been only 2 times when someone spoke up. One was a couple. [The woman] walked up, said she thought my wife was hot, and thought it was a great lifestyle, then [her man] cleared his throat and snapped a pic from about 10 feet away. They then walked off without saying anything else.

That actually sounds sort of erotic. The implication would seem to be, the woman of the couple saw your wife earlier perhaps while she was locking you up. On the other hand, maybe the woman of the couple inferred your wife must be "hot" having also inferred it must have been your wife who had locked you up. In either case, perhaps the man of the couple soon-thereafter found himself wearing a male chastity device with a leash-chain attached...

The other time, a single gal patted me on the head, said "good boy," and kept walking.

That too sounds sort of erotic. Perhaps, soon-thereafter, her man found himself wearing a male chastity device with an attached chain-leash...

I think most people don't know what to say, and the ones who do say something suggesting they are in some sort of lifestyle relationship.

That sounds like a fair assessment...

No problems on the questions. We have been married a LONG time so we have experimented in many ways together. We stick with things that work and abandon things that don't. When my wife plays with others we have found she has more fun if I'm not there. Then, she doesn't have to worry about feelings or reactions from me; she just has fun. Like most guys, if I'm not there I get a range of feelings from good to bad. It started out that she would lock me in our room [in our] house while she was out.

Leaving you alone in your house, locked up such that you couldn't get out in the event of an emergency (e.g., a fire), doesn't sound good...

Although I can't stop her physically while I'm locked up at home, I still am tormented of those feelings. By locking me up in public while she's [playing with a lover], I'm so concentrated on not [being observed chained up by others, and my fears] of humiliation [if I am observed by others,] that I don't have ANY thoughts of jealousy or anger. So, [being chained to something immoveable, albeit by my cock cage,] actually makes it easier [for me] to deal with [my wife fucking another man], in a crazy sort of way. Make sense?

Cool... (that you didn't mind me asking questions). And, I suppose it may be safer being chained up in public than alone in your house — although maybe not, if there's a risk of (say) teenage gang members noting your situation then taking advantage of it and beating the shit out of you.

Regardless, thanks for your intriguing explanation. It does make sense.

 

[BHCCuck]

Leaving you alone in your house, locked up such that you couldn't get out in the event of an emergency (e.g., a fire), doesn't sound good...

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If there was a fire, I could always carry the chair or bed out with me.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Thanks for your interesting explanation of male chastity device mechanics.

Since I do metal work, I built my cage for me and made it REAL. The cage its self is made from 3/16 stainless steel wire, welded to metal hand cuffs. I have a very strong upward curve when I'm hard, and made the cage point downward. I am rather thick, but not real long. When I am 1/2 hard, the cage gets tight and uncomfortable, but when I'm fully hard, it varies from extremely uncomfortable to painful due to the cage being tight, plus my upward curve combined with its downward curve. The head [of my cock] often hits and pushes on the 2nd bar and will pull on my nuts painfully, plus [my ball] sack [is pinched] due to the angle changing.

I suppose there's more than a little irony in having complied with your wife's request to design and manufacture the device she uses (in effect) to torture you...

One thing I didn't like about CB cages is, they're plastic. If you HAD to get out of one you could by simply breaking the plastic. So, to me that makes it more "roleplay" than real. If bondage is done with the idea of [a woman being able to lock her man to something by his chastity device,] it's like having velcro bondage straps. He COULD get out if he wanted to end it.

Hm... I see. If a married man is not a metal worker (most aren't, of course) and his wife wants to purchase a commercially-available chastity device for him, which of the following (if any) would you suggest as likely to be most effective? Note some are made from stainless steel. Others may be available that aren't on this list.

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Because I do my own metal work, I also modified the lock. I used cheap cuffs that we all have keys to, but I ground out the rivets, added a spot weld inside, and taper-ground the pin, then welded it all back up. So, even if you have one of the keys that comes with the cheap cuffs, it won't work. I took our key and notched it to get past the spotweld. We all know how easy it is to pick those cuffs, by taper grinding the pin, only a flat surface like a key will unlock it (not a paperclip).

Actually, I didn't know any of that stuff. I'm not an aficionado of handcuffs, cheap or otherwise, nor am I a handcuff escape artist.

So, with a small chain, when I'm locked to something but I need to get unlocked, I either need the key, or bolt cutters (or a grinder or something to cut it off). It's a very real situation.

Suppose your wife had you locked up outside to a lamp post or rail somewhere, and somebody's unleashed pitt bull charged toward you obvious intending to tear you apart. I would think you would be able to pull hard enough and suddenly enough so your balls would squeeze out through the handcuff that's locked around your cock and balls (per your photo). It might be quite painful (momentarily), but with sufficient motivation, since your balls are soft tissue, I imagine you could do it.

Do I have that right?

If [my wife had me locked to something at home by my chastity-device-leash-chain and] there was a fire, I could always carry the chair or bed out with me.

OK... that sounds sort of reasonable.

 

[BHCCuck]

I suppose there's more than a little irony in having complied with your wife's request to design and manufacture the device she uses (in effect) to torture you... Well, its for a few reasons. First, since I modify EVERYTHING anyway, why spend good money buying one that I would modify for her/my tastes anyway, when I can make one? I have about 2 hours into making one, fits me the way we wanted, maybe $5 or $6 into it, ad CAN NOT be removed without a key or bolt cutters.

Hm... I see. If a married man is not a metal worker (most aren't, of course) and his wife wants to purchase a commercially-available chastity device for him, which of the following (if any) would you suggest as likely to be most effective? Note some are made from stainless steel. Others may be available that aren't on this list. Anything made from metal would be better/stronger. My only point with the plastic/acrylic ones are, you can read countless stories about them breaking over time from a simple hard on pushing them as they get older. IF one really wanted out, you could break/crack it and get out if you TRULY wanted/needed to. With mine, I would have no choice but to ask for help to get out. That becomes VERY REAL. If a cop locked you up in plastic handcuffs, many people wouldnt even try to get loose, but if someone really wanted out, they would get out. Once I'm locked up, its no longer my choice.

Actually, I didn't know any of that stuff. I'm not an aficionado of handcuffs, cheap or otherwise, nor am I a handcuff escape artist.
99% of all handcuffs use 2 different keys. Most people own/use "cheap" cuffs" and they use a common key and the lock is fairly easy to pick. These types of cuffs are often found in the $5 to $20 range depending on where you buy them. I used the cheap cuffs, but modified them so that common key wont work without being modified, and made it really hard to pick, even sitting on a work bench, let alone where/how its used. Most of the rest of the cuffs are of a Smith/Wesson design, these are what cops use and cost a considerable amount more. I simply just modified the cheaper cuffs to work better.


Suppose your wife had you locked up outside to a lamp post or rail somewhere, and somebody's unleashed pitt bull charged toward you obvious intending to tear you apart. Then my world is going to suck BADLY for that point of time.


I would think you would be able to pull hard enough and suddenly enough so your balls would squeeze out through the handcuff that's locked around your cock and balls (per your photo). It might be quite painful (momentarily), but with sufficient motivation, since your balls are soft tissue, I imagine you could do it. I dont know if you can see in the pic (cause Im a bit tubby) but there is a retainer chain that is welded to the top of the cuffs that has a separate lock to lock that chain. The reason that chain is there is 2 fold. First, it made it much more comfortable to wear in public walking around, kind of like wearing a belt on your pants, it holds the weight rather than your nuts holding it. Second, it makes it so you can not do what you described. With the chain at the top, you would have to pull upward on the cuff around your sack. As you pull upward, you DRAMATICALLY change the angle ad size of the area for your nuts to "slide" out of. When I first made it, it did not have the chain and when I was soft, yes painfully, I could do as you said and squeeze/push them through. The chain changed that entirely.

I realize most guys cant make their own, but I can, so I do. I also have made a LOT of bondage equipment for people in that lifestyle for years, from iron cuffs to stocks to human bird cages, so I can take other designs of equipment and modify any flaws I, or anyone else, finds. We all have things we can do, I just use this to our lifestyle.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Thanks for all the additional light you've shed on this intriguing subject, from your expert point of view.

Re.:

C.L. comment: Actually, I didn't know any of that stuff. I'm not an aficionado of handcuffs, cheap or otherwise, nor am I a handcuff escape artist.

BHC reply: 99% of all handcuffs use 2 different keys. Most people own/use "cheap" cuffs and they use a common key and the lock is fairly easy to pick. These types of cuffs are often found in the $5 to $20 range depending on where you buy them. ....

Maybe this renders the widely-admired ability of Harry Houdini (1874 – 1926) to escape from a wide variety of handcuffs combined with other forms of bondage at least slightly less mysterious...