old fred, current wife has no interest in the lifestyle. She had met my first wife before she passed away and actually liked her as a person. Current wife has seen the one of the videos (accidentally) of my first wife and her first 2nd husband (her boss,white guy with a fat 10 inch cock) when the 3 of us made a sex tape. Said something like no one would ever believe that she was the "star" of the show taking his big cock.
She did tell me that after divorcing her first husband that she had dated a much younger man hung like "Pete" and that every time he fucked her she would walk a little gingerly afterwards. An interesting little side note, after her daughter divorced her first husband, her mother-my wife suggested to her daughter that she should date the guy. After a few dates he and the daughter went away for get away weekend and when they returned the daughter told my wife that she was so sore and couldn't even wear panties and had to just wear dresses, no shorts or jeans.
For a while current wife seemed to have a healthy interest in sex, went with me to an adult book store, bought herself a dildo, used it a few times and then for some reason started becoming a more religious person and isn't as sexual as she had been. Don't misunderstand when she is "in the mood" the woman is one hot fuck, but it's almost too vanilla for me to really enjoy. Such is life. GTR