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Kerah said:
I have a few dildos but I keep them hidden in my closet, sadly he's not even interested in toys
I feel your pain. My 1st wife was beyond plain vanilla sex, only for reproduction AND we had no children.

On a scale her interest was 0 and I was 10. 24 very unhappy years of unfulfilled sex. Now with 2nd wife is completely different, we are both 10.

In your efforts always remember "you can't turn a sows ear into a silk purse" no matter how you may try.
 
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old fred, current wife has no interest in the lifestyle. She had met my first wife before she passed away and actually liked her as a person. Current wife has seen the one of the videos (accidentally) of my first wife and her first 2nd husband (her boss,white guy with a fat 10 inch cock) when the 3 of us made a sex tape. Said something like no one would ever believe that she was the "star" of the show taking his big cock.
She did tell me that after divorcing her first husband that she had dated a much younger man hung like "Pete" and that every time he fucked her she would walk a little gingerly afterwards. An interesting little side note, after her daughter divorced her first husband, her mother-my wife suggested to her daughter that she should date the guy. After a few dates he and the daughter went away for get away weekend and when they returned the daughter told my wife that she was so sore and couldn't even wear panties and had to just wear dresses, no shorts or jeans.

For a while current wife seemed to have a healthy interest in sex, went with me to an adult book store, bought herself a dildo, used it a few times and then for some reason started becoming a more religious person and isn't as sexual as she had been. Don't misunderstand when she is "in the mood" the woman is one hot fuck, but it's almost too vanilla for me to really enjoy. Such is life. GTR
 
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Kerah,

I wish that there were a suggestion that I could make that would help you change your situation. Unfortunately too many men never understand the sexual capacity of their wives. As you read about others on this site, some of us husbands were fortunate to have married a woman that truly enjoys fucking and being fucked. My only suggestion is to not "give up or give in" to his lack of awareness of what your needs are. Keep gently trying to open the door to you having a much more satisfying sex life. My wife's favorite thing was to whisper stuff in my ear that made my cock harder and harder until she got exactly what she wanted.

As dumb as it sounds continually search for the little buttons that turn his cock on. My wife became an expert on handling me and my totally "alpha" personality and she could get whatever she wanted from me by using my buttons that she had discovered. Keep searching Kerah. GTR
 

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