There are many alternatives to surgery...
Dirtydoc,
dirtydoc30 said:
My wife has spent the last two nights with her new lover (her boss). She called me at 4 AM to tell me she wants me to get a vasectomy.
Whew! I must say, that sounds slightly impulsive. Did your wife not appreciate that you were probably masturbating at that hour, thinking about what she and her new lover might be doing? Anyway, I'm pretty sure your doctor would not rush to his office at 4 AM just because your wife/cuckoldress has ordered you to get a vasectomy "right now." I mean, even if your doctor understands and appreciates that your wife is your boss, you have to understand that his boss is his own wife, so he would need to get her permission... and at 4 AM, your doctor's wife may not be inclined to grant her permission. Surely your wife must understand this important consideration...
dirtydoc30 said:
Supposedly, her new stud was ********** from all their fucking and she wanted to talk with me about this "pressing" problem. All of it seemed out of the blue and strangely disconnected from the fact that she is banging someone else.
No, no... it's closely related to the fact that your wife is now fucking her boss. Obviously, the two of them talked about her becoming pregnant by him and bearing his child, and she agreed she wants to do that. Ergo, she'll have to stop using her birth control. But then, there's a possibility she'll become pregnant by you, not him (if she still allows you some sex). Since her new lover is her day-job boss, it sounds like she feels she needs to "get on it" and carry out his request pronto (otherwise her performance evaluation might suffer[!]). Still and all, ordering you to get a vasectomy at 4 AM seems somewhat extreme.
dirtydoc30 said:
Ten minutes ago I got another call from my wife stating I have a preliminary [vasectomy] consultation at a clinic in 2 hours.
Sounds like your wife is determined to demonstrate to her day-job boss that she wears the pants in her marriage, and since she has ordered you to get a vasectomy "right now" you will definitely do it — no questions asked.
A rather good rule of thumb with respect to surgery of any kind, though, is that one should not have it done unless it's unavoidable. Thus, when you go to the clinic (you should, of course, obey your wife and do so), I suggest mentioning the obvious, that your wife doesn't want to have any more children (by you... no need to mention her lover), and is thus pressing you to get a vasectomy, but are there alternative ways to accomplish that...? Your doctor or other clinic person you talk to will presumably suggest you could wear a condom whenever you and your wife have sex.
Alternatively, your wife could require you to wear a chastity device, become your sole keyholder (perhaps wear it on a chain around her neck), and deny you sex. You might point out this article to her:
Male chastity advantages for women:
Making Him Your Dream Man: Male Chastity FAQ
Or, she could subject you to sexual denial without requiring you to wear a chastity device and allow you to masturbate, under her supervision (perhaps while kneeling at her feet), requiring you to cum on her shoes or boots then lick up and swallow your cum each time (if that pleases her).
Or, while denying you your wife could queen you regularly to increase her own sexual satisfaction. For this possibility, you might suggest for her consideration:
The Fine Art of Queening and:
Chin Dildos:
The Accommodator Chin Dildos, Face Dildos, Head Dildos, Facial Dildos
I'll guess the clinic person you consult will not suggest the latter 3 possibilities, but it would be worth mentioning them to your wife to avoid "involuntary" vasectomy surgery.
dirtydoc30 said:
In addition to all this, my wife and her boss/lover were going to stay at our place tonight, but she said she wants one more night alone with him.
Well, whatever works for your wife. That's up to her, of course...
dirtydoc30 said:
Now, my heart is racing with fear combined with contradictory arousal.
As well it might...
Anyway, I suggest urging your wife/cuckoldress to recognize there are many possibilities other than "involuntary" vasectomy surgery.
Good luck!
—Custer