KarenMWSlut4Blacks said:
The most obvious thing is just how happy I look — always a broad smile now, and none of the embarrassed faces I used to pull when someone was taking my photo. If I am honest, I want to be noticed now and I go out of my way to show off my charms. What is the point of hiding my cleavage and wearing long skirts if I want to be noticed? It is good to see guys looking down when they are speaking to me, and not looking me in the eye.
Absolutely, you have the right idea Ms. Karen. No doubt you remember when "Wonderbras" first came on the market...? They were advertised as the bra that will cause men to talk to your tits...
KarenMWSlut4Blacks said:
Flashing a stocking-top never did any harm.
And, if the man you're flirting with looks down at your stocking-top, then at your (perhaps-booted) feet while talking with you, hey... that's just as good.
KarenMWSlut4Blacks said:
Since my periods stopped, I have discarded all my panties and feel so much better now that I don't have to wear them at all.
Good for you. You could have given them to your cuckold and requested he wear them, to remind him of his status on a daily basis... or, better still, you could have supervised him while he bought his own panties, then thrown out his male underwear so he would have a panty drawer of his own. Perhaps it's not too late for this step...
KarenMWSlut4Blacks said:
It has been a gradual process, and it was not until 6 years ago, when we told all of our relatives and friends about my cuckolding of my husband, that I began [wearing more revealing clothing] in public.
Openly cuckolding your husband, such that all your friends and relatives know about it, is the best course for a liberated married woman (IMO). But, it can be hard to talk about that straight-out, as you say, to conventional married couples...
KarenMWSlut4Blacks said:
I think they all noticed a big change in me at the time — from frumpy wife to out-going cuckoldress — but, I think that since then none have noticed much further change, because it has been so gradual.
When you told your friends and relatives you were dating, seducing and fucking whomever you wished, they were probably blown away. Ever since, they've almost certainly viewed you in a different way and observed you much more closely than previously. But, those most likely to notice changes in your personna and manner of dressing are probably those who see you only infrequently...
KarenMWSlut4Blacks said:
Now that I am in my 50's, I don't expect to change much more — my daughter says I look like mutton dressed as lamb — but, who knows. I am more concerned about not having the energy to keep up with my young [lovers] than anything else.
I wouldn't take your daughter's comments too seriously. Daughters are likely to make comments if they think their mothers (and/or fathers) don't dress the way they're "supposed to" relative to their age. Also, the conventional wisdom is that women make more testosterone as they age into and beyond their thirties, while men make less — hence the tendency for women to attain maximum sexuality when they're in their thirties and beyond.
A further implication is that women can develop substantial physical strength and endurance if they work out regularly... say, in a gym... as they age, while men tend to find it more difficult to do so, relatively speaking. Thus, if you were to join a gym and work out regularly, while also eating a healthy diet, you might find you would have enough strength and endurance to easily keep up with your younger lovers.
Go for it, Ms. Karen...