wife said i have a small dick

[Custer Laststand]

You might consider starting along these lines...

Malisbitch,

My wife tells me every day I have a small dick and she misses being fucked by a big cock...

Good for your wife; that's very positive. It's good marriage strategy for a woman to maximize her husband's awareness of his sexual inadequacies by reminding him on a daily basis.

...but she still won't cuckold me.

Or so she says...

Anyone have any advice on getting her to do it?

I suggest beginning by asking your wife to routinely address you using her demeaning names for your penis... "Teenyweenie," "Pencilprick," "Tiny," etc.

Then, ask your wife to tell you to do housework in an assertive way — for instance, "Clean up the kitchen, Teenieweenie," "Take out the garbage, Pencilprick," etc., rather than asking you politely to do those things or phrasing her requests as leading questions such as, "Would you like to take out the garbage, honey?"

This will tend to have the effect (IMO) of enabling your wife to view it as her expectation that you will do things for her, including much (or all) of the housework, so she will have more time and energy to pursue activities of greater interest to her, such as taking lovers and spending time with them. Also, this will tend to have the effect (IMO) of your wife transitioning you to viewing it as your *duty* to do things for her, including much (or all) of the housework in support of her future activities. It should then become natural for your wife to begin thinking about fucking other men as a future activity, along with other things she might like to do such as spending more time going out with her woman friends.

If you find you are making progress... or if you don't seem to be making progress... you might consider writing back for further suggestions by forum members.

—Custer

 

[Custer Laststand]

Hm... a crusade to persuade your wife to become a hotwife may not be a great idea...

Malisbitch,

.... My wife is generally used to being fucked by guys with big cocks, as she used to sell her pussy for money. She also told me she has been with guys who were only about one inch when hard.

If your wife was a ********** for (say) on the order of 10 years or more, she may easily have fucked more than 1,000 men. That's a sample size more than large enough to have included the full range of men's cock sizes and thickness-to-length ratios. So, if your wife regularly tells you your cock is "small," you can take her word for it.

Your wife may also have had some experiences fucking a lot of different men she would rather not repeat. As you must know, being a ********** is dangerous. A lot of the men who seek sex-for-hire do so because they find it difficult or impossible to establish normal relationships with women. They are not what you would call "nice guys." A fairly large percentage of prostitutes suffer from PTSD (apparently).

If my wife wanted to fuck another man, I would not have a problem with that. My only concern is that she be happy.

Your wife may view her marriage to you as having enabled her to escape an unpleasant life she doesn't want to return to. She may also be convinced that if she were to take a lover, that would lead to taking more lovers which, in turn, would lead to destruction of her marriage, despite your insistence you "would not mind" her doing so. (Your wife, very likely, has had enough experience with men to have more than a little insight into male psychology.)

Thus, before embarking on a campaign to convince your wife to start fucking other men (again), thus making you her cuckold, you might consider the word of advice from Dr. Cherry Lee at the beginning of her article on how to persuade your wife to become a hotwife. It is:

"Some women immediately embrace the opportunity for sexual freedom. However, I also know that many more are not interested in becoming hotwives, even though they enjoy sex and may have had numerous sexual partners before marriage. Negative cultural and personal conditioning about sexual exclusivity is just too strong. In short, it will never happen. A woman should be in control of her body, and to try to push her into things that she is 100% dead set against will only cause major problems. So if this is clearly the case, forget it; move on to other things in life."

—Custer

 

[malisbitch]

Thanks Custer, that is some really good advice. She worked as a ********** for around 1 year. We are both 25 and when I met her she was still working in the bar. I have no problem with her not wanting to make me her cuck. I love her to much to try and force her into this if she really does not want to. I want it to be her choice if it happens.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Malisbitch,

Thanks Custer, that is some really good advice.

You're welcome.

My wife worked as a ********** for around 1 year. We are both 25 and when I met her she was still working in the bar.

Sounds like your wife was a bar waitress who used her job as a means of identifying "Johns," thus augmenting her income (which she badly needed to do, I'm sure).

I have no problem with her not wanting to make me her cuck. I love her too much to try and force her into this if she really does not want to do it. I want it to be her choice if it happens.

It sounds like you have good perspective and a good attitude toward your wife, her sexuality, and its possible effects on your relationship, and it sounds like you really do love her. All of that is good.

Best wishes to both of you—

Custer

 

[malisbitch]

Thanks again custer will let you know how it goes.

 

[DickBeGone]

hey all..my dick is less than 3"s hard and about the same girth..it's inverted when soft..my wife said it looks more like a little boys..she said what am i going to do with that, it's smaller than my thumb...

 

[Custer Laststand]

She sounds like a promising woman with a strong sex drive...

My wife tells me everyday I have a small dick...

Awwww....

...and she misses being fucked by a big cock.

Hm... sounds like she's had some experience with big-cock sex in the past.

But, she still won't cuck me.

WHAT!?

Anyone have any advice on getting her to do it?

It sounds like your wife has very good potential to make you her cuckold. You might try proceeding along the lines of the 7-part article that begins here:

A Wife Into A Hotwife Hot Wife Blog - hotwife and cuckold husband fetish discussion

and begin thinking of yourself as her cuckold-in-waiting (if you aren't already).

 

[Custer Laststand]

Malisbitch,

I see this is an old thread that's been resuscitated, but not by you... your last post was 15 Dec. 2010. On re-reading your entire thread, I'd say my previous (Dec. 2010) comments were better, so please disregard my post of yesterday if you're still around. Sorry about not reviewing the whole thing before commenting again.

I hope you and your wife are doing well, BTW. If you have any updates, many of us, I'm sure, would appreciate hearing more from you.

—Custer

 

[penman]

How small is my dick? That's no fake avatar up there.
That's me. I measure in the negative numbers!
Useless? Pretty much.