msbevw said:
Linda just sent Mommy Karen a text "can you keep Baby there until 6:00? Rob and I are having a fun afternoon."
How was your weekend with Karen and her husband? From your prior post it would seem that all was going in a positive direction with your baby-sitter.
As noted, it would seem that Tom may have realized to late that he had a good thing with Linda. While
@Custer Laststand has made some good points about safety and the risk that are associated with relationships that do not end on a positive way. Did Linda ever share with you what brought her relationship with Tom to an end? Then again, you may have already touched on that topic. That may give you some insight into what could come back around, risk or reward.
Moving on from Tom, with some questions associated with Ms. Linda and her future within the dating world. As not to get all hung up on labels has many do here within the forum; do you see Linda as more of the exclusive relationship seeking type of a woman as she was with Tom, or do you see Linda as more of a hotwife type that would prefer to develop and maintain multiple partners for her sexual enjoyment? I ask the questions to see what you believe Ms. Linda's desired preferences would be giving her prior adventures and your mutual communicative exchanges. As with everyone, is she simply dating to find Mr. Right, or does she prefer the variety at this point in her life?
As you realized when Ms. Linda was in a relationship with Tom, your primary Fetish/Kink/Lifestyle choices was being slowly ******* over time as happens when you have mutual friends, acquaintances, etc. This is something that could also happen with Ms. Linda dating Rob due to the nature of their relationship and how they met each other.
msbevw said:
My main concern right now is between Linda and my friend Jim. Linda tells me that she will be going out with him again soon and that I should expect my baby life secret to come out into the open with him very soon. She even joked (I hope) that maybe her little baby will get to watch them and maybe Jim will give Baby something nice to suck on. Oh my!!!
As you mention Jim more specifically today; Ms. Linda could simply be teasing and taunting you about fully ******** you to your neighbor, and friend Jim. Then again, Linda could be simply expressing facts and her desires to be much more open with Jim. You have already openly acknowledged to Jim that your wife Linda dates other men and left him with the understanding that it includes much more then simply dating and kissing those other men. You did let Jim know that you were truly okay with the relationship arrangement that you and Linda have within your marriage. At some point, with or without your knowledge, if Linda truly does develop that intimate comfort level with Jim, she is likely to share details of your respective lifestyle choices and related activities with your neighbor, your friend, Jim.
Stepping back from this for a moment, when Linda was in a relationship with Tom, the fact that your wife was dating another man did become publicly known by mutual friends, acquaintances, and that same could eventually happen with Jim also, assuming that he is an unmarried man. Jim seems to be okay with the fact that Linda is dating Rob, so maybe Jim is only into this for friends with benefits type arrangements, then again, it could become more. You mentioned your main concerns is not that fact that he could become Linda's sexual partner or even more, you more concerned about how Jim would respond to the fact that you enjoy living as an Adult Baby and that Linda may seek to have you suck on his cock as a pacifier.
Getting beyond your expressed concerns about your wife outting you to your neighbor, your golfing friend as someone different than the man that you show outwardly when your out golfing with him. How would you truly feel about the erotic humiliation of fully embracing your truest self to your neighbor and friend with Linda's supportive ******** as she outs you to Jim?
While may of us could speculate on Ms. Linda desire, preferences, and or how she would feel and respond about either of you being ******* to others in greater detail in the event Jim were to tell all on one of his drinking nights. It is possible that she is still at a place where she would prefer it kept discrete although considering what nearly happened with she and Tom, maybe she has reached that point in her life were she would be completely okay with everything being out in the open.