My wife is going to Vegas in about 3 months with a bunch of her girlfriends to celebrate her friends 50th birthday (my wife is much younger). They are talking about going to strip clubs and they are buying short skirts and slutty outfits already. It would be really cool if she would hook-up with a well-hung guy.
I have told her it is ok to do whatever she wants to have a good time and that it is ok to play with other guys. I think she is getting into it. I want her to feel uninhibited while she is there, but she may not want to be too bad because her friends will be there. What can I do to stoke the fire?
Since we have a few months what can I do to encourage her to lose control?
What about right before she leaves? Should I give her lots of sex to make her horny or no sex/lousy sex to make her horny?
I was thinking of adding a package of condoms to her suitcase and removing her panties before she goes?
I don't think you need to do anything. She will do what she wants when the mood strikes her anyway.
But if she IS cool, she might call you and let you listen. Or takes pics to show you her swollen and red pussy oozing man juice.
Might also go out and get some other wife to suck your dick and tell her about it.
She may not need any encouragement at all.
People do tend to play when they are away from home (out of town); almost like they assume an alter ego.
And going to Sin City..."What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas".
If I offer any advice, it would be to resist the temptations of encouraging her. Maintain the status quo, in other words. If fantasy talk comes up during foreplay/sex, go with it. But let her bring it up!
I worked on a little subtle pillow-talk last night. She was telling a story about an instructor at her gym (who is black) and I was caressing her inner thighs while we were talking about him.
Nothing too far. Just baby steps.
I just learned yesterday that one of the women that is going spent the weekend in Cabo this weekend without her husband and kids. I think I am going to encourage my wife to spend more time with her. Maybe share a room with her?
Suggest that they go to Olympic Gardens male strippers and lap dances. I know Vegas well and can suggest places for them to go where they will all get hit on nonstop. Where are they staying?
Make sure she knows your encouragement isn't a backdoor to you then wanting to sleep with another woman because she slept with another man. Some women fear that's the reason we want to see our women lost in the ecstasy of getting plowed by long, thick cock wielded by someone with moves she's never felt.
The male dancers at Olympic Gardens do one on one lap dances. I've been there with me wife and she was able to stroke her dancer. It was very exciting to watch.
Is she at all familiar with the cuckold culture? Maybe a visit to this site or others that may be a little more tame. She might be intrigued to see an entire population of men who are thrilled to have their wives ravaged by other men while they remain happily devoted and faithful to only her. And she may be fascinated to see how deified and worshiped those beautiful wives are within the culture!
dirtbag2272 said:
thanks doktord. I think that will be her biggest hurdle. Any suggestions to get her past that?
They are going to see thunder from down under. I am trying to encourage something a little dirtier.
suggestions?
1. I agree that you should not encourage her this far out from the trip. Pressing makes her uneasy. Don't bring it up at all. If she talks about it tell her it would be hot to get that call when she finished but she and her friends are not wild enough. Classic reverse psychology with a dare component.
2. Rather than talk about it "accidentally" leave a site open for her on a computer. Not this site. And not logged in. Again, it must be like she caught you because you did not close the browser. Even better if she thinks she caught you jacking off to it. I suggest a free porn site with IR or cuckold videos.
3. You have time to make a connection here. Crazy idea that might work is to find a guy who could be on her flight. That gives him time to chat her up. But he should be from somewhere else so she doesn't worry about her dirty deeds coming home with her. So either on her connection if she has one or he is connecting through if you live in a city with direct flights to Vegas.
4. No more sex. Period. You're limited to jacking off until she gets back. And she can't know that's your release unless she catches you.
5. Buy her and her friends dinner one night so you know when and where she will be. Have your preferred bull from this site at the same restaurant. He should buy the ladies a bottle of wine and if he has any skills he will take it from there.
6. If your wife prefers the direct approach, arrange for a bull to be in Vegas. Don't mention it to your wife. When she is on her way send her a long email with the subject "Open in Private." In the email tell her you want her to have the time of her life and you arranged for a guy to be in Vegas to take care of all her needs. Attach pics of the guy and his cock and give his name, phone number and make sure they stay in the same hotel.
Any updates? If she's going with friends, she might not want to act inappropriately around them. Unless she has a "partner in crime" on the trip. Has she ever discussed the possibility with any of her girlfriends?
not much progress.
Some girls are going, some are not and then they are.
I am encouraging her to hangout with the one that went to Cabo without her hubby.
The trip is a few weeks away.
She went to get waxed this week and she got waxed fully bald. First time for her. It is hot!
She said it is for me, but I am wondering if it is for the trip?
The trip is a few weeks away.
She went to get waxed this week and she got waxed fully bald. First time for her. It is hot!
She said it is for me, but I am wondering if it is for the trip?
Last night I was mentioning bringing XL condoms and dressing super slutty. She said she wasn't going to dress too sexy because I wasn't going to be there and she didn't want to play without me.
Any suggestions for how to turn it around?
Any ideas for games that I could suggest they play in Vegas to get them in the mood?
I was thinking things like first one to get hit-on, first one to get a phone number, first one to get a room key..
How about one hit on by the youngest guy? the oldest guy?
Any ideas for games that I could suggest they play in Vegas to get them in the mood?
I was thinking things like first one to get hit-on, first one to get a phone number, first one to get a room key..
How about one hit on by the youngest guy? the oldest guy?
My wife and I are going to Vegas on January 17th for the weekend. When is your wife going? If she's there at the same time, my wife and I could "spy" for you and report back. My wife is very into the flirting with other guys scene so it would not be an issue. We will be at The Cosmopolitan which is pretty centrally located.
