I have a similar dynamic with a particular girlfriend.
We live far apart, so we don't get to see each other often, but when we do, it's typically for 2-3 weeks, so we try to do as much as we can in that time period, of course.
She shares her pussy with other guys if/when opportunities arise, and she has one friend (that I know also) that she lets control her. Because he lives local to her, they have fucked many, many times.
We have done things like going to dinner together, to a bar one time together, and he has complete control of her during this time. That means they ride in the back seat together while I drive (often flirting and some kissing), and she sits with him at restaurants or other public places, so to a casual observer, it appears that THEY are the couple and I am the tag along.
When we have private moments with him, he ALWAYS gets her pussy and blowjob first, and if they don't want me around, I have to go make drinks or wait in another room until they want me to watch, join, or have my turn.
Another time when I was in town, we went to a get together/reunion for her high school class. He was there also, so of course, they visited for a bit. A few minutes later she came back to our table, said he wanted a blowjob, she was going to his car with him, and would be back in a few minutes. So I had to wait at our table until they were done and she came back.
In any case, we have had some fun times, and I enjoy those times and the 'role-playing' very much.
But... I don't want to lose her to him. Now, they haven't had much contact over the last year or two, so their relationship has cooled off considerably, but she will still fuck him anytime, anywhere he wants to this day. I would never want her to move in with him, go on vacation with him, or spend so much time together that the danger of losing her is present, but wouldn't care if it did happen.
We live far apart, so we don't get to see each other often, but when we do, it's typically for 2-3 weeks, so we try to do as much as we can in that time period, of course.
She shares her pussy with other guys if/when opportunities arise, and she has one friend (that I know also) that she lets control her. Because he lives local to her, they have fucked many, many times.
We have done things like going to dinner together, to a bar one time together, and he has complete control of her during this time. That means they ride in the back seat together while I drive (often flirting and some kissing), and she sits with him at restaurants or other public places, so to a casual observer, it appears that THEY are the couple and I am the tag along.
When we have private moments with him, he ALWAYS gets her pussy and blowjob first, and if they don't want me around, I have to go make drinks or wait in another room until they want me to watch, join, or have my turn.
Another time when I was in town, we went to a get together/reunion for her high school class. He was there also, so of course, they visited for a bit. A few minutes later she came back to our table, said he wanted a blowjob, she was going to his car with him, and would be back in a few minutes. So I had to wait at our table until they were done and she came back.
In any case, we have had some fun times, and I enjoy those times and the 'role-playing' very much.
But... I don't want to lose her to him. Now, they haven't had much contact over the last year or two, so their relationship has cooled off considerably, but she will still fuck him anytime, anywhere he wants to this day. I would never want her to move in with him, go on vacation with him, or spend so much time together that the danger of losing her is present, but wouldn't care if it did happen.