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Why does your wife refuse to sleep with other men?

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Just curious for those of us who encourage our wives to sleep with other men, but they refuse... why do they refuse?

My wife admits that she would like to have sex with other men. While I am fucking her I ask if she wishes some other guy was inside her. She will often whisper "yes", or "I would love that". But she refuses to act on the offer of other men because of religious beliefs. I have tried to set her up with other men, but it hasn't gone anywhere. Yet. I am always hopeful!

I'm wondering how that conversation goes with other couples.

For those who have finally succeeded getting their wives to take other lovers, what to you attribute your ultimate success to?
 
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I wonder that myself. As a hotwife I always wondered how women said no to that. Because I always felt like exhausted in a relationship, like I was trapped and couldn't be myself or express myself as I wanted, as a slut, or share what I really liked and things like that. My assumption though, based solely on reading people's experiences is that a man often just uses it as a reason for divorce. Like if he brings it up then it's shocking if the woman agrees but no one is shocked that a man would want an endless stream of young women because that's expected of male sexuality. So in court if a woman tells a lawyer that she asked her man to sleep around and pretends to be shocked that he said yes he wants fit young tight young woman, the lawyers would say so? That's what a man is supposed to do, and the reverse is not true. This is what I've read based on what men have said online. I've never been married but it lines up with my experiences. Prior to my current cuck I was in a few relationships where the guy admitted to cuck desires and of course I agreed instantly since that's my fantasy, but it was shortly after that we broke up and it was clearly related to that. I've never not be broken up for for a reason beyond my sexuality. Me being too sexual and slutty has been the reason given by every man I've been with
 
So basically I'm assuming they refuse because they want to keep the relationship. Even if the man says he wants it most men can't handle it and still break up with their women even if they were the ones who asked them to sleep with other men
 
It's better for women to say no and just cheat lol. And the would be cucks can imagine whatever they want, their woman cheating or not, regardless of what she's actually doing
 
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I imagine my wife cheating all the time. When we actually have sex, I have to fantasize that another man's cock is inside her bareback trying to breed her.
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Same here, the thought of my wife cheating or cucking me is what makes me cum as I’m inside her.
 
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I’m in the same boat. We’ve had a discussion about adding a third, her main problem is that because she’s married it’s wrong. We’ve had times where I brought it up during sex and she was fully into it. I’m just not sure how to bring it up again and in a way that won’t put her off
 
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robertxx said:
Just curious for those of us who encourage our wives to sleep with other men, but they refuse... why do they refuse?

My wife admits that she would like to have sex with other men. While I am fucking her I ask if she wishes some other guy was inside her. She will often whisper "yes", or "I would love that". But she refuses to act on the offer of other men because of religious beliefs. I have tried to set her up with other men, but it hasn't gone anywhere. Yet. I am always hopeful!

I'm wondering how that conversation goes with other couples.

For those who have finally succeeded getting their wives to take other lovers, what to you attribute your ultimate success to?
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Thats hot that she says yes or tells you she wants it.
 
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To me it makes sense that men would like "cheaters" or basically a woman who does anything to ensure the survival of her offspring. Cucking from the cuckoo bird, is a bird that pushes the eggs out of a nest so another bird will raise them. So a woman who tricks a man into raising a better man's offspring is displaying true selection, and that's survival of the fittest in evolution. To me it's abnormal that a man WOULDN'T want a woman who does whatever it takes to make sure she gets hers. But men are taught and trained to act as if they require control all the time and women just behave accordingly because to disobey that means death in most cases. I'm just lucky I'm not financially poor and don't have to pretend to be attracted to things I'm not just for money like the majority of women
 
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Thats hot that she says yes or tells you she wants it.
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Definitely. When she does that I cum so quickly. I don't think she says it to turn me on -- I think she means it at the moment, but after sex she starts feeling like it's wrong. I would love to find a guy that she could just email with for a while, form a bond, and eventually start sleeping with him.
 
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robertxx said:
Definitely. When she does that I cum so quickly. I don't think she says it to turn me on -- I think she means it at the moment, but after sex she starts feeling like it's wrong. I would love to find a guy that she could just email with for a while, form a bond, and eventually start sleeping with him.
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Or have that moment where she's saying yes she wishes it was another and tell her to call him that way she is spun up and may actually call.
 
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There are some women who will have sex with other men just to please their husbands and there are women who will have sex with any man who takes an interest in them. But, I suspect, that for most women there has to be a real connection with the man before they'll have sex with him and for most married women that connection is with their husband and most won't want to risk losing that.

That said relationships can change over time and women can feel the need for some form of sexual fulfilment that they are no longer getting in their marriage. They've listened to their husbands fantasising about becoming cuckolds and when a younger really fit co-worker (say) takes an interest they may well feel that they have permission to cheat and go for it. This is what happened in my case. Ironically I only mentioned my cuckold fantasy to her once but she remembered and used it as justification.

It's my understanding that a significant proportion of married women will, at some point, cheat on their husbands but those that will participate in an open cuckold lifestyle relationship are in a minority. Even now, living up to society's male centric expectations of how married women should behave, impacts directly on how women choose to behave.
 
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Men don't just do it to women they marry though. They think a hot way out of their league model is cucking them who's literally a complete stranger because she's acting in porn. And that's where men's expectations about what cucking is comes from. How a hot woman is socialized and behaves. If your a rich smart "ugly" man and a hot woman ""tricks"" you into marrying her in order to just get money, if she's cucking you or not, this is some level of cohersion or force that men think is like **** of men against women. Because she's lying for security. If some man rapes women in the hopes one of them will be tricked into carrying his offspring it gives his genes longevity in some capacity. So even though that is a crime and morally wrong it evolutionarily still has some percentage chance of working. But women as the ones who carry and give birth are at a much higher risk because of the physical risk, but to a natalist thinker's mind, they believe a woman who tricks a rich man into marriage to try to live a long life is nothing like a ****** because she might not "benefit" (LOL!) by being allowed to carry on her genes with someone everyone else is designating as better than her, for having that money and it's proven people think having money means you are smart. Because people are so dumb they truly believe everyone has the same opportunities and just ignore shit like slavery and trauma happening. So to a natalist ****** women is a better idea that a hot woman even considering going after rich men to live a long life if she's a natalist or a cuckoldress or not. That's how imbalanced the circumstances are. And the saddest part is how men think women are genuinely stupid and hate themselves because they don't think women will connect the dots that when their dick goes flat it's only when she displays some level of adulthood, self agency, consent, or desire, like by knowing what she wants and asks for it. And a whole huge chunk of what cuckolds are into is obviously some kind of projection cos these dudes are old and pairing their women with young dudes. I actually fuck young dudes. The only reason cuck husbands do this is cos they feel bad about wanting those young dude's young girlfriends. So they want to try to believe real hard their fellow aged woman must feel the same way instead of considering she prob just wants to be the younger hotter one in the relationship in order to feel objectified and bimbofied herself. Men demand women act like dumb children and can't even deliver even after forcing them into an infantalized degrading position, according to their own standards
 
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