We are pretty much on the same page as Susan. Though Mindi rarely goes out on dates.
As far as the original post goes, I think its too open ended a question. The real answer is the fact everyone, be it white hubs, white wives, black bulls, has different limits and kinks that fuel them. So I'd answer, Set limits early before play and grow from there. When playing communication is key.
As far as the original post goes, I think its too open ended a question. The real answer is the fact everyone, be it white hubs, white wives, black bulls, has different limits and kinks that fuel them. So I'd answer, Set limits early before play and grow from there. When playing communication is key.