I/we do the same things! Sometimes I will set my phone up to for husband to watch me fucking the other man. Many guys can't believe me when I call hubby and tell him about my new date and I will be spending the night and when I ask my date to talk with my hubby and ask his advice how how best to make me cum. Men know they are in for a fun wet night with me. I too have had a few rough times with some dates.