recently I persuaded my wife to watch some IR porn.. the girl on this website is a spitting image of my wife (which makes it so much better for me ..lol) .... anyway... she was very hesitant and embarresed at first but once I started eating her out while she watched it... she came like 9 times!!.... when I talk to her about it afterwords... she gets all embarresed again and laughs about it and says she just did it...or does it... (happened a couple of tiimes now ) justto just make me happy.. even sometimes when we have sex and I talk dirty to her about it... she cums right away... How can I get her to go further with it ? I think it's a deep dark fantasy for her .... what do you think?... I would love her to fullfill her fantasy and be comfortable with it.... any advice?
o.k... so ate her out and got her a couple of big black dildos and she put one in her mouth and the other one she used in her pussy while i licked her clit.... she seemed to love it... but after she came like 6 times.... and she was done... i took care of myself while licking her foot we talked about it afterword and said she would never want to do it for real.... ...I guess it's just a fantasy?... maybe she's content just to do that then?...
sound like she's on the right course, but needs some time to sort it out. it's a lot for many women to wrap their heads around (marriage, morals, black men, etc). i would continue to make her feel good, use the black dildo, and bring up the topic without being annoying
maybe telling her your fantasies, open up to her and be honest - it can be quite a thrill to be 100% honest with your mate.
I agree. Again go with the positives, praise her and her sexual prowess.
My husband and I have a great relationship, this is because of communication. Ease her into the idea that you think it would please her to add another sexual experience, give her something different and add that you would like to be there to watch and experience this with her. But pick your timing well.
Make sure you have pleased her and praised her, then bring it up.
I am much more receptive to any idea if I have cum one or more times. That euphoric feeling allows the mind to look at other ideas with a more positive spin.
Get a black friend to start coming over. Let him know you do not get jealous and your wife likes him. Answer his questions about how far he can get with your wife.
I did this and he started out flirting with her. After a while I would tell my wife what a big dick he had and how the women love it. Women love to compete. After about a month he would kiss her hello & goodbye. Then a touch of tit or ass. All this in front of me. Then during sex I got her so hot by talking about him I called him & gave the phone to her. They started talking dirty & then she told him to come over & fuck her. 10 minutes later I let him in & he spent the weekend fucking her. It was great!