It’s time for you to accept the fact that she is with you because you are perhaps more caring, you are gentle and affectionate, you are the type of man whom many women would like to be husbands, this is more of a good friend who will understand, forgive and will be happy for her .. .
He is probably the type of alpha that gives her the feeling of being what she cannot be with you, you should see in her the queen and mother of your (albeit not common) children, he should see in her a female, a ***** who is looking for debauchery.
If she intends to marry you, then she accepts you as the father of all her future children, and maybe you yourself after some time ask her about a new pregnancy from another male ..
According to your note, subconsciously, you have already embarked on the path of a cuckold and ready to accept the fact that your wife will have a lover, now you must understand that having tasted this fruit, neither you nor she will be able to live the same life, and it will be up to you to decide whether your family life is a lie or a prelude, whether it will change behind your back or before your eyes ...
Such a choice is faced by all husbands who find out that the wife has a love affair with another man, but who do not want to get divorced ...
Take or leave, here is the choice!
Custer Laststand said:
Good.
Should go wrong, or could go wrong? Anyway, this question brings to mind a seemingly-absurd but probably-appropriate quote: "Predictions are difficult, especially of the future." (It's sometimes attributed to Yogi Berra, who also said: "I didn't really say all the things I said.")
There's no need to be that depressed. Lots of married men are raising children birthed by their wives but sired by other men. Many of them are not aware of that; you have the advantage of awareness. To expand your knowledge and insight into the whole men, women and sex scene, I suggest reading:
Baker, Robin, Ph.D., 1996, Sperm Wars: The Science of Sex (BasicBooks, 319 pp.)
which is a fascinating science-for-the-layperson book. Baker is an evolutionary biologist — his book is not what your parents told you about sex (if they told you anything at all).
Custer Laststand said:
Good.
Should go wrong, or could go wrong? Anyway, this question brings to mind a seemingly-absurd but probably-appropriate quote: "Predictions are difficult, especially of the future." (It's sometimes attributed to Yogi Berra, who also said: "I didn't really say all the things I said.")
There's no need to be that depressed. Lots of married men are raising children birthed by their wives but sired by other men. Many of them are not aware of that; you have the advantage of awareness. To expand your knowledge and insight into the whole men, women and sex scene, I suggest reading:
Baker, Robin, Ph.D., 1996, Sperm Wars: The Science of Sex (BasicBooks, 319 pp.)
which is a fascinating science-for-the-layperson book. Baker is an evolutionary biologist — his book is not what your parents told you about sex (if they told you anything at all).
My wife may have had other men's babies but she denies it. I suspect that one or more of the babies my wife had, when she was cheating on me
and after I found out she was cheating on me and made me her cuckold, were not mine, but my wife insists that I am the father of all of her
babies. My wife has had sex with 65 other men that she has admitted to, she never lets the other men use a condom even though she did not use
birth control. So, I think the odds are that at least one man must have knocked her up. She says that I am the father of all 5 of her babies.
We very seldom fucked but when she did want me to fuck her, she always got pregnant after one or two times of me fucking her, having her baby
9 months later. I told her I was amazed that I only had to fuck her once to impregnate her. She said that I must have very potent sperm. I believed her for many years. It took me many years to realize that she was probably already pregnant by some other man. Some of our kids don't
even look much like me. So I think I might have picked up the tab for raising one to three of other men's babies. I am excited and happy by
the idea that I might have raised other men's babies. Of course, I love all of my kids regardless of who their biological father might be.
It only matters in a curious and erotic way because I have always loved them all as my own. I would have loved them just as much even if my wife admitted they were another man's baby.
