Okay, I know this might be strange discussion to have on this forum, but I've been thinking about it alot. I'm a black man who loves slutty women, especially slutty white women. But I wondering is there such as a slut? I mean is that a real put down or what? Just because a woman or girl will put out easily or gets really weak and addicted to cock, does that make her slut? So what's your definition of a slut? Post a pic of what a slut looks like? How do women on the board feel about being called sluts? Do you feel that you deserve the label? On and on.
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What does it mean to be a slut?
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Women who put out easily usually have unmet emotional needs. We have a scale: half is emotional, the other half physical. When one side is lacking, we tend to make up with the other side of the scale. Many of us have male emotional issues that stem back to our fathers.
As to calling us "sluts" - we REALLY dislike that term. We like to be talked to and treated like ladies (unless we're in the heat of the moment and the nastiness comes out of us). But 99% of the time, we want to be treated and felt to be special.
How's THAT for an answer you don't wanna hear...
- K
XO
Byron6555 said:
Women who put out easily usually have unmet emotional needs. We have a scale: half is emotional, the other half physical. When one side is lacking, we tend to make up with the other side of the scale. Many of us have male emotional issues that stem back to our fathers.
As to calling us "sluts" - we REALLY dislike that term. We like to be talked to and treated like ladies (unless we're in the heat of the moment and the nastiness comes out of us). But 99% of the time, we want to be treated and felt to be special.
How's THAT for an answer you don't wanna hear...
- K
XO
Good chance the uptight way that many women act about sex comes from men treating them like sluts and labling them as sluts. (As well as other women who want to control the "market" for female sexuality-- they might actually be worse than men, come to think of it.) Most women could really love sex, but many put their sexuality on hold because enjoying it too much makes them vulnerable to perverted men who see women who like sex as nasty, etc. And to women (usually in groups) who find it in their interests to control other women's sexuality.
Yeah, I don't see a slut as degrading. I see a slut as a woman (or a man for that matter) who doesn't mind being submissive when it comes to sex. She's easy about spreading and legs and has a certain weakness for a good cock rather there's love involved or not.
An example of a slut to me was a woman I met online. We talked for about two weeks and she ended flying from Southern Calif. to Northern Cali so we could fuck. Baby actually got on and off the plane with no panties on and was ready to get down all night long.
My wife was out of town at the time, so we got totally nasty in bed. She put out beautifully. The more I called her a slut, the more she gave in. I would say stuff like, "If you want to fuck, you must slut." And she'd be all over it. She a weakness for cock and getting her holes filled.
So I think a slut has a certain type of freedom. She may be single, a mother, or a wife, but she has a weakness for sex and will give it up because a good hard cock brings something out her and pussy constantly whines for attention.
I could be wrong here. I'm not a woman, but this has been my experience with women who act slutty.
An example of a slut to me was a woman I met online. We talked for about two weeks and she ended flying from Southern Calif. to Northern Cali so we could fuck. Baby actually got on and off the plane with no panties on and was ready to get down all night long.
My wife was out of town at the time, so we got totally nasty in bed. She put out beautifully. The more I called her a slut, the more she gave in. I would say stuff like, "If you want to fuck, you must slut." And she'd be all over it. She a weakness for cock and getting her holes filled.
So I think a slut has a certain type of freedom. She may be single, a mother, or a wife, but she has a weakness for sex and will give it up because a good hard cock brings something out her and pussy constantly whines for attention.
I could be wrong here. I'm not a woman, but this has been my experience with women who act slutty.
Now, I don't think a woman has to be submissive to be a slut. My secretary is a slut, she doesn't mind me referring to her as a slut. She sometimes refers to herself as a slut now that we have talked about my version of the slut definition. I think it is a woman who performs a lot of sex acts for HER OWN pleasure.
She agrees that is a good description of her. That is why she is a swinger and loves an occasional black cock.
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/Phil
She agrees that is a good description of her. That is why she is a swinger and loves an occasional black cock.
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/Phil
Ok, I know this is an old thread but I would like to say a couple things.
First, I think a slut is someone (male or female) who has sex for their own pleasure. Basically a sexual hedonist - someone who might even overlook consquences of his or her actions just to get off.
Second, I think whether or not someone is offended by being called a slut has more to do with how, where, and when it is used. I think most women would probably not be offended by it if it was said during the heat of the moment (I'm not). But calling a random woman on the street a slut would obviously be offensive.
I would also like to disagree with what someone said about the word ***** (or being a *****). I think someone is a ***** if they do something sexually that they wouldn't have normally done otherwise - like sex for money - but it doesn't have to be money (it could be any number of reasons).
And I totally agree with what someone said about sluts having unmet emotional issues. I use the word ***** in my nick and I have done things (sexually) in my past that I didn't necessarily want to do. Do I have any kind of emotional baggage? Absolutely! Is that responsible for things I have done in the past? Probably - but it doesn't bother me. So even if a slut (or a *****) has unmet emotional needs it isn't necessarily a bad thing - it's just part of who she is.
First, I think a slut is someone (male or female) who has sex for their own pleasure. Basically a sexual hedonist - someone who might even overlook consquences of his or her actions just to get off.
Second, I think whether or not someone is offended by being called a slut has more to do with how, where, and when it is used. I think most women would probably not be offended by it if it was said during the heat of the moment (I'm not). But calling a random woman on the street a slut would obviously be offensive.
I would also like to disagree with what someone said about the word ***** (or being a *****). I think someone is a ***** if they do something sexually that they wouldn't have normally done otherwise - like sex for money - but it doesn't have to be money (it could be any number of reasons).
And I totally agree with what someone said about sluts having unmet emotional issues. I use the word ***** in my nick and I have done things (sexually) in my past that I didn't necessarily want to do. Do I have any kind of emotional baggage? Absolutely! Is that responsible for things I have done in the past? Probably - but it doesn't bother me. So even if a slut (or a *****) has unmet emotional needs it isn't necessarily a bad thing - it's just part of who she is.
