Thanks Mary...for the great advice. I am using it!
Last night, to my delight, he asked for it twice. I took the time before hand to shave his asshole very smooth. I then got him opened up some by using my fingers and hand again, waiting for him to beg for my strap on BBC to enter his tight ass. He is lasting longer and longer...where before, he would cum very quickly after I entered his ass. This time, I was able to long dick his asshole before he shot a huge load all over his chest and stomach. After a short recovery, he asked for it again. This time, it slid right in and after a few ass spankings, he shot another load. When the time comes, he is going to be so ready for my black lover.
I also made him suck my BBC while it was strapped on. Oh my GAWD, he knows how to suck cock! There is no doubt in my mind my lover will be pleased.
Any other thoughts and ideas would be appreciated...