Wedding Rings - On or Off?

[ggfcpa]

My wife and I are headed to the casinos in Connecticut for the holiday weekend, and as a tiny step in the right direction, my wife has nervously agreed to spend some time at one of the casino bars, sitting by herself, to see what level of interest she can attract from the men in the bar. I'll be seated elsewhere in the bar watching the goings-on from a distance.

She told me that she would do this, but would not actively pursue the men, but if a man came up to her, to talk her up, ask her to dance, buy her a drink, etc. that she would participate. She's made it clear that the "etc." part does NOT include much beyond the talking, flirting, and dancing.

So, when she's seated alone at the bar, should she keep her engagement ring and wedding ring on, or should she take them off beforehand? It would be much more of a turn-on for me to watch all of this go down with the rings ON, but at the same time, I don't want to turn away any potential encounters because the guy sees the wedding rings and moves on to a more likely candidate. Or do the truly determined guys pay no attention to the rings?

Your thoughts on this?

Also, for those of you familiar with either of the CT casinos, I'd welcome your suggestions about which bars/restaurants there might be best for this.

Thanks.

 

[debra48f]

Well a lot of guys actually dont even notice or think to look for rings in my experience. Or if they do they sort of joke about it but keep flirting. I think she should keep her rings on because it could be used as an easy exit should she become uncomfortable or feel threatened.

Believe me, ring or not, guys will hit on a woman, especially if she seems friendly and approachable.

 

[AlbanySearching]

One of the best things she can do is leave it ON, but conspicuously take it off and put it in her purse as she looks at a guy she's attracted to.

 

[cuckoldax]

ggf, trust me man a wedding ring will definately not be an issue if a hot guy is trying to bang your wife! (if shes hot)

 

[jbrowning]

leave it on a woman thats flirting with her ring on will get more play. they know shes just looking for fun not a lifelong comitment

 

[SrBilong]

. I think she should keep her rings on because it could be used as an easy exit should she become uncomfortable or feel threatened.
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I agree with this. And add me to the list of guys who don't even look for wedding rings, if she's hot i'll hit on her without consideration. Even if i did notice the ring it would probably just spark my curiosity and make me even more likely to talk to her.

 

[irfreak700]

Wedding rings

Hell Man, it don't fuckin' matter.

Something about your question reminded me of a time a few years ago, when I was in West Palm Beach Florida, on business. I met this married girl, Jen - 33 yrs old, married with two kids. Went up to her room, had a few drinks and she disappeared into the bathroom for a while. When she came out, she had on lingerie bikini. I made my move and she completely rejected me. She made me stop eating her pussy, told me "this is wrong", and told me to leave.

She then removed the panties and walked out and stood on the balcony overlooking the beach. I'll never forget, this was Valentines Day, and there was a beautiful full moon hanging in the sky, with her full-moon ass in the foreground. I walked out, completely nude and slipped my cock in her from behind. I came inside her, went back in, put my cloths on and left.

Here's the point, married women are the best. They're not looking for a husband, they're not going to get pregnant and hit you up for child support, they typically don't have STDs, and they're not trying to trap you into marrying them. They just want some cock.

Married women account for at least forty percent of the women I've fucked in my adult life. They've all been great. So don't sweat the ring, man. There are plenty of guys like me who will gladly fuck a married woman.

Hope that helps.

 

[Saraha]

She could put her rings on her other hand so she can be "married and available".

Maybe you could arrange for a guy to hit on her, and give her compliments so she feels the ring of success very quickly in the evening. This will boost her self-esteem while she is feeling nervous.

Buying her a drink, talking, flirting and dancing is a great start, and will help her to feel MOST DESIRABLE in the eyes of men not her husband.

The drink will help to relax her so she can become talkative and quite flirty, so she might experience wetness between her thighs even if she does not LET THINGS GO FURTHER.

First time success will feed her mind over many months, as she looks back on what she did with your permission. This will take her to a new level from which she can springboard to "greater adventures" because she no longer wonders whether guys might find her attractive. SHE KNOWS THEY DO and it might then be possible to get her to watch a strip show or visit a swingers club out of curiosity of what couples get up to between the sheets. She can watch the first few times, then her body may want a piece of the action.

Try not to push her too fast, she needs to feel in control of each step forward or she will freak out and remember her wedding vows.

 

[cuckoldax]

keep us posted ggfca, let us know how it goes

 

[lifelong cuck]

Married women are easy lays

My wife and I are headed to the casinos in Connecticut for the holiday weekend, and as a tiny step in the right direction, my wife has nervously agreed to spend some time at one of the casino bars, sitting by herself, to see what level of interest she can attract from the men in the bar. I'll be seated elsewhere in the bar watching the goings-on from a distance.

She told me that she would do this, but would not actively pursue the men, but if a man came up to her, to talk her up, ask her to dance, buy her a drink, etc. that she would participate. She's made it clear that the "etc." part does NOT include much beyond the talking, flirting, and dancing.

So, when she's seated alone at the bar, should she keep her engagement ring and wedding ring on, or should she take them off beforehand? It would be much more of a turn-on for me to watch all of this go down with the rings ON, but at the same time, I don't want to turn away any potential encounters because the guy sees the wedding rings and moves on to a more likely candidate. Or do the truly determined guys pay no attention to the rings?

Your thoughts on this?

Also, for those of you familiar with either of the CT casinos, I'd welcome your suggestions about which bars/restaurants there might be best for this.

Thanks.

Provided they know she's up for it, the rings are an attraction. It turns some guys on to screw another man's wife and for others they've told me that it's sex without responsibility for them, if they knock her up ~ it's my problem not theirs!

 

[carina_halerose]

my wife never takes her wedding ring off.

 

[SoonToBe]

I would have to agree here. Sue has always kept her rings on. It hasn't made a difference yet - but we're still new at this in terms of numbers of guys, etc.

I like that they are a reminder to both her and her lover that I am waiting at home for her.

But still, I wouldn't be upset if she took them off as that act might help her mentally get into things a bit more.

 

[SWFloridaSlut]

We're fairly new at the cuckold lifestyle, but not as new at the swinging lifestyle.

So far, I like to wear my ring...especially when I'm out without my fiance'...its like when I'm getting fucked from behind or sucking cock (like last night) and suddenly get a glimpse of my ring, it reminds me that I'll be going home to him and the hotness of the night will continue as I give him all the dirty details while he licks me clean.

Besides, I think guys get off on banging another man's woman.
Heck, the ring is like a cock magnet.

 

[Lisa.Dom]

The holiday is over. Please give us an update.

I prefer to keep my rings on. They show that there is a man permanemtly serving me. I also think that when men see the rings and approach anyway, they are more likely to give me the caressing and then the good hard fucking I desire.

 

[FredandAnn]

Wedding Ring On? YES!

Ann always wears her wedding ring when she's out 'hunting' or when she's out with her fuck buddy du jour. We believe, as others here have said, that it's a sign for guys who want to play, that this is a woman who is on the make and who isn't trying to connect for a lifetime commitment. For those guys who prefer not to play with a married woman, well, Ann wearing her wedding ring pretty much weeds those guys out so she doesn't spend time with a guy who isn't going to work out.

Besides, I absolutely love the idea that my HotWife is out shopping for another bed partner while displaying to him, and to the world, that she's married to me...only thing better may be if she was wearing a locket with my photo inside!

 

[hotwifeclw]

Keep Them on

I agree with most because almost all I used to sleep with before I was married was married women for the reasons most here stated. Make sure you let us know how it went.

 

[hotwifeapril]

I alway wear my wedding ring out. There is no reason to take it off. If I am out looking for a guy I find that they don't really care or they like the fact they are fucking someone else wife behind her back so they think.

So tell us how your trip went.......

 

[ggfcpa]

Report On The Trip...

Sorry this took so long, but we had a family emergency this week, so I'm just getting to this now. I could probably write pages about how it went down, what I felt, etc., but I'll try to give you the Reader's Digest condensed version.

Made it to the casino, as promised, and "what was supposed to happen" was all that I was thinking about on our way down there. I saw this as a trip to "make this happen", she saw it as a trip to the casino, with a little "fantasy indulging for the husband" thrown in. I guess that's the difference between us...

Bar scene went well, in my opinion. We decided to leave the wedding rings ON, and I'm glad we did, because it worked for me, and it didn't seem to discourage any guys. She told me later that she initially felt very silly sitting there, knowing I was around, but tried to ignore me and relax. Guys definitely approached her, talked to her, bought her drinks, and danced with her, which is good, because she's a dancer and I'm not. One of the many things that another man could offer her that I cannot.

She explained that her husband was out on the casino floor gambling, and that she stopped in the bar to take a break. She said that a couple of guys wanted to know where she'd be later, was she staying in the hotel, etc. so they could reconnect with her. One guy said he was staying over, and he was making it clear that she could come back to his room with him right then, and he'd have her back before anyone even noticed she was gone. She politely declined his invitation. After about an hour and a half, she had enough, and casually walked out of the bar, and I followed a few minutes later. We went back to our room for a "de-briefing", literally and figuratively, and she gave me the details of what I could only see, but not hear.

She didn't rule out doing it again, but she didn't seem overly turned on by it either. As someone mentioned, it will give her fuel for her imagination for months to come, and I'm hoping that her minds leads her down some paths that I'd eventually love to see her go down. She also wonders if this is some elaborate scheme for me to justify seeing other women, which it's not, and I've explained that to her. And finally, as was also mentioned before, she does have trouble getting past her wedding vows, and she feels that even though I've given her permission to set them aside, she's not totally comfortable with that.

In the end, I'd call it a success, and a step in the right direction. I'll let her simmer with thoughts of "what could have been" in her imagination for a month or two, and then see if she's interested in doing it again. I thanked her for trying this for me, and I told her that I love her and how proud of her I was.

Thanks to all in this forum for their insight!

 

[youzemywife]

Ring on. When I was involved in the cuck lifestyle, it was an added turn-on for me that my wife was being fucked in front of me by a much-larger guy (in every sense of the word) who couldn't care less that he was banging a married woman, and sometimes at my request he would even cum all over the ring on her little finger. For me, it was just an added humiliation that really got me off.

 

[desert]

When my wife goes out she always leaves her ring on. From what she says and from her experience other men could care less.