Watching / Not Watching

[HeatherRedheadCuckoldress]

I'm curious for all the guys out there your opinion on watching or not watching your wife with another man.

I personally rarely have my husband watching when I am with my boyfriend. I feel like it's less about my husband and more about me and my bull when it is just the two of us. I am not overly dominant or cruel but I don't fuck another man because of my husband, I do it for myself.

I did start with my husband in the room the first few times. After a few conversations with him he accepted that he wouldn't really be allowed to watch or participate in any way.

Is this how it is for you guys? Can you handle being at home while your wife is out with another man? Or do you need to be there watching, making sure she doesn't take it too far?

 

[jayem]

I love watching. I don't get to watch every time, not even close to that. And it took a while before she and her lover would let me watch. But that was my fantasy, to watch a younger man pleasure her, hear her coming for him, lick her clean when he'd finished inside her, then watch him slide in again. When he's done with her to be able to use her fucked pussy myself, I love the way it feels after another man has been in her. Knowing my cum is mixing with his.

But that's maybe one in 20 of the occasions she is with her lover, or indeed other men. The other times I take care of the kids and imagine what she's doing. I can handle that, but I do want to be able to watch our join in sometimes.

 

[robandkate]

I started out wanting to watch every time with every guy. With my encouragement, my wife started out seducing and fucking friends of mine in front of me. Sometimes I just watched and sometimes I joined in, depending on the other guy.

As my wife got more comfortable fucking other men and I got comfortable with her ability to separate sex and love, she started having sex with other guys alone. I was surprised how turned on I got knowing that my wife was in bed with another guy while I was home looking at porn and jerking off waiting for her to come home.

Kate says that me watching is hot for her, but she admits that the sex with the other guy is better when they are alone.

 

[ffred]

I fully agree with Heather. It should be the decision of the Lady if watching is appropriate. We are in this lifestyle for a long time but never watched directly, meaning present in the same room. We had long discussion about it but Nadine (my wife) explained that she feels much more comfortable to be alone with her lovers and boyfriends in the same room.

All the other things, mentioned by jayem we do in between. For example my wife coming in my room and I feel and cuddle her used body. In the meantime I like it very much this way even if I wanted to watch in the beginning. It is also worth to mention that Nadine tells me every detail of her adventure if I am not present which also happens more than being present.

Ciao
fred

 

[Gliderider]

My wife wants me there every time either watching for awhile before joining in or just watching. That's up to the wife and her partner. I have told her that I want to be there if I'm in town but I'm fine when she plays without me. She has played without me there and I've encouraged to continue. I enjoy watching and I enjoy listening to her descriptions if I'm not there.

 

[robandkate]

Like Gliderider and Lovestruckcuck, I encourage my wife to fuck other guys whether I am around or not. I love knowing that someone is enjoying that pussy of hers, even if I don;t know who is fucking her. I always enjoy the sloppy seconds later. I encourage my wife to at least consider fucking every guy she meets (lol).

 

[okdeacon]

I'm curious for all the guys out there your opinion on watching or not watching your wife with another man.

I personally rarely have my husband watching when I am with my boyfriend. I feel like it's less about my husband and more about me and my bull when it is just the two of us. I am not overly dominant or cruel but I don't fuck another man because of my husband, I do it for myself.

I did start with my husband in the room the first few times. After a few conversations with him he accepted that he wouldn't really be allowed to watch or participate in any way.

Is this how it is for you guys? Can you handle being at home while your wife is out with another man? Or do you need to be there watching, making sure she doesn't take it too far?

Redhead. Hell lady I LIKE your STYLE. This is the way it should be when you get a big dick. For it is all about YOU. To answer your question, it's cool to watch your lady get bred but not a requirement. I have always felt that any wife in the world should have the right to sample any dick she wants to and any time she wishes. For us men have been doing just that from the beginning of time. I find it awesome and sexy when my lady surprises me with a fresh creamed pussy and she knows it. But don't misunderstand I feel it must be an honest relationship open and upfront at all times. You are a beautiful woman and your husband is a very lucky man, just as I am. Are you willing to share any of your adventures with us? Some men wish to be humiliated and that is fine for them. I for one would not stand for it for a East St. Louis second. But I am also smart enough to know that there are different strokes for different folks. That makes all this make sense. In your case you are EXACTLY RIGHT. Thanks for Sharing. okdeacon ps. By the way just because I am not watching ever time, doesn't mean I am at home watching porn and playing with my dick. I am sure you understand this. deacon

 

[Robert peters]

I'm curious for all the guys out there your opinion on watching or not watching your wife with another man.

I personally rarely have my husband watching when I am with my boyfriend. I feel like it's less about my husband and more about me and my bull when it is just the two of us. I am not overly dominant or cruel but I don't fuck another man because of my husband, I do it for myself.

I did start with my husband in the room the first few times. After a few conversations with him he accepted that he wouldn't really be allowed to watch or participate in any way.

Is this how it is for you guys? Can you handle being at home while your wife is out with another man? Or do you need to be there watching, making sure she doesn't take it too far?

 

[Robert peters]

I like to watch. And my wife likes me there. I love cleaning them up

 

[Nazareth]

It (always) comes down to different strokes for different folks.
Some couples may use the denial of watching as a form of punishment/humiliation.
Others may feel the need to 'share the experience' and wants the husband present.
Others get off on the pure sexual excitement of watching their wife perform sex with another man.
I'm sure there are too many cases where the husband is too insecure to let his wife have private sex, so his presence is mandatory.
And everything in between, I'd imagine. So what works for one couple may not for the next; it's just a matter of finding what works best for any particular couple.

My wife has always had complete sexual freedom, so it has always been her choice on the who, where, when. If any of these times happened to coincide with me, she can make the decisions about observation and/or participation then.
I've always encouraged her to take a lover when she felt the need, and have told her many, many times of my desire to watch, but it hasn't happened yet. All of her extra-marital sex has occurred when one of us were out of town, or during separate vacations.
I want to observe the eroticism and responses of both her and her lover as opposed to just watching somebody fucking her. The things she can't control; how wet her pussy gets, how she responds to his touch, the ways she uses her body as she becomes over-stimulated....these are what I want to see.
If I can't, I damn sure want to hear about them! Every little detail...

 

[Hotcouple2233]

Of course each couple is different but for me I place a huge value on ALWAYS being accomodative & reasonable

....but(!!!).....

I'm not going to let anyone walk all over me nor would I cede an inch on what I ultimately want from this arrangement w/ my Wife.

Negotiations are always open and there is virtually always a Zone of Potential Agreement between her needs/wants & mine.

But if I say I want to watch. That's it. Full stop. We can wheel & deal on the details but I will be watching. Same if I want to be involved in MFM or whatever.

Because, imho, that's what they call that thing called "marriage". If I ever I felt like my needs are not a priority for my Wife I'd be gone.

I've said to other couples that if one partner wants to do whatever they want and not meet her husband's needs they can but that's called being "Single" not "Married".

And, ultimately, call me crazy but I hold myself & my Wife to the apparently uncommon standard of being and acting like an Adult and having an adult relationship.

 

[zippless]

I like to watch. And my wife likes me there. I love cleaning them up

Same for us. The furthest away I will be is in the adjoining room next door. We both feel safer. Never know what nut-job you can run into these days. Cleanup duty is not my favourite but sloppy seconds.... wooh I'm there. I always hope he is a heavy comer.

 

[2wheel]

It's a team sport and whatever rules the team agrees upon, each team is different.

 

[cheshireset]

On casual meetings he is always present. If those casual meetings grow into genuine friendships and regular meetings then I am confident in meeting guys alone.

 

[cheshireset]

Of course each couple is different but for me I place a huge value on ALWAYS being accomodative & reasonable

....but(!!!).....

I'm not going to let anyone walk all over me nor would I cede an inch on what I ultimately want from this arrangement w/ my Wife.

Negotiations are always open and there is virtually always a Zone of Potential Agreement between her needs/wants & mine.

But if I say I want to watch. That's it. Full stop. We can wheel & deal on the details but I will be watching. Same if I want to be involved in MFM or whatever.

Because, imho, that's what they call that thing called "marriage". If I ever I felt like my needs are not a priority for my Wife I'd be gone.

I've said to other couples that if one partner wants to do whatever they want and not meet her husband's needs they can but that's called being "Single" not "Married".

And, ultimately, call me crazy but I hold myself & my Wife to the apparently uncommon standard of being and acting like an Adult and having an adult relationship.

I'm sorry if you dislike how our marriage works, but luckily I'm not married to you.

 

[zippless]

I'm sorry if you dislike how our marriage works, but luckily I'm not married to you.

I would like to say I love how your marriage works. It would be an honour to be married to you. You have one of the hottest bodies on the planet especially your pussy. Your husband is a very lucky man.

 

[cheshireset]

I would like to say I love how your marriage works. It would be an honour to be married to you. You have one of the hottest bodies on the planet especially your pussy. Your husband is a very lucky man.

Oh bless you. Not sure about the hottest on the planet but I’m flattered. As for Bryan being a lucky man, I tell him so every day

 

[Hotcouple2233]

I'm sorry if you dislike how our marriage works, but luckily I'm not married to you.

I posted before you & you take my comments as a personal offense? LOL!

As though I was thinking specifically of YOU and YOUR marriage when I wrote my comment, before you were even on the thread!? LOL!

That's Brilliant.

 

[cheshireset]

I posted before you & you take my comments as a personal offense? LOL!

As though I was thinking specifically of YOU and YOUR marriage when I wrote my comment, before you were even on the thread!? LOL!

That's Brilliant.

I was commenting on the fact you disliked my post.

Don’t worry about it though because I won’t be.

 

[Hotcouple2233]

I

I was commenting on the fact you disliked my post.

Don’t worry about it though because I won’t be.

I didn't dislike your thread, or if I did, it was a "fat finger error."