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Wanting to cheat...
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You have the right attitude and are on the right track.
Hi Ms. Yngbbwcumslut,
Regarding your situation and your question:
If your man is your boyfriend, not your husband, I would imagine you have not "promised to be faithful" to each other in the style of wedding vows. Also, if he has not asked you to marry him (and/or you have not accepted), or alternatively, you have not asked him to marry you (and/or he has not accepted), that implies you have no long-term commitments to each other.
Thus, if your sex drive is higher than his and you do not find your man sexually satisfying, it is certainly reasonable and appropriate for you to date and fuck other men. You should, I suggest, consider this among your privileges and prerogatives as his woman friend.
A desirable goal for you would be to guide your boyfriend to the point of accepting and agreeing that it is your right and privilege to date and fuck other men, as you please, while he maintains his position as your (so to speak) "cuckold" boyfriend. It sounds like you would certainly want his agreement to such an arrangement before agreeing to marry him. That is, it sounds like you would do best in a "hot wife / cuckold husband" form of marriage. Securing his agreement to such an arrangement, however, is a more subtle problem, and your post does not include enough information to make a judgement as to whether it would be feasible.
—Custer
Hi Ms. Yngbbwcumslut,
Regarding your situation and your question:
yngbbwcumslut said:
If your man is your boyfriend, not your husband, I would imagine you have not "promised to be faithful" to each other in the style of wedding vows. Also, if he has not asked you to marry him (and/or you have not accepted), or alternatively, you have not asked him to marry you (and/or he has not accepted), that implies you have no long-term commitments to each other.
Thus, if your sex drive is higher than his and you do not find your man sexually satisfying, it is certainly reasonable and appropriate for you to date and fuck other men. You should, I suggest, consider this among your privileges and prerogatives as his woman friend.
A desirable goal for you would be to guide your boyfriend to the point of accepting and agreeing that it is your right and privilege to date and fuck other men, as you please, while he maintains his position as your (so to speak) "cuckold" boyfriend. It sounds like you would certainly want his agreement to such an arrangement before agreeing to marry him. That is, it sounds like you would do best in a "hot wife / cuckold husband" form of marriage. Securing his agreement to such an arrangement, however, is a more subtle problem, and your post does not include enough information to make a judgement as to whether it would be feasible.
—Custer
How would you feel if the roles were reversed and you found out he cheated or wanted another sex partner? Think about it....Then maybe sit down with and come clean if you are planning a long trem relationship with him as honesty and communication is what will keep your relationship alive. Good luck...
yngbbwcumslut said:
The amount of sex a man can have is determined by his age and ability to re-load his prostrate gland with replacement sperm. Many older men can take up to a week to re-charge. A man has peak testosterone when he is 18, and then it drops off slowly all his life until it reaches 25% at age 65.
So if you have a high sex drive, any guy you marry is likely to fail to match your primal sexual desires after a few years of marriage. A woman peaks her sex drive at 35 and it falls off slower than a man.
If you marry, ensure your husband accepts that you intend to take lovers as you please, because this is the only way you will adequate sex during your life.
Your wedding vows should be, "to have and to hold to the INCLUSION of others" rather than, "to...............EXCLUSION. This means you have permission to fuck other men or even women if you are bi.
You should also come to a solid agreement about whether your husband will be monogamous or you will select females for him from time-to-time, and put it in writing signed by a couple of witnesses.
It is usually best that man be 100% faithful to his wife, and wear a cage over his penis if there is any risk he won't be faithful. You could hold the key to the padlock on his cage, or if you are on good terms with your mother or mother-in-law, either of them could hold the key so as to keep your cuckold husband in line.
Caging is an excellent way to keep a sufficent volume and sperm numbers available for your pleasure when you decide to release it.
So if you have a high sex drive, any guy you marry is likely to fail to match your primal sexual desires after a few years of marriage. A woman peaks her sex drive at 35 and it falls off slower than a man.
If you marry, ensure your husband accepts that you intend to take lovers as you please, because this is the only way you will adequate sex during your life.
Your wedding vows should be, "to have and to hold to the INCLUSION of others" rather than, "to...............EXCLUSION. This means you have permission to fuck other men or even women if you are bi.
You should also come to a solid agreement about whether your husband will be monogamous or you will select females for him from time-to-time, and put it in writing signed by a couple of witnesses.
It is usually best that man be 100% faithful to his wife, and wear a cage over his penis if there is any risk he won't be faithful. You could hold the key to the padlock on his cage, or if you are on good terms with your mother or mother-in-law, either of them could hold the key so as to keep your cuckold husband in line.
Caging is an excellent way to keep a sufficent volume and sperm numbers available for your pleasure when you decide to release it.
