Waiting or watching?

[missmissy]

VERY interesting night and change of events. Yes, they did play some at the bar. Yes they did go back to his place. Yes they did have sex for another 2 1/2 hours. I got about 40 pics out of it.

When she came home, we talked, as we always do afterwards (and before). As swingers, we had always had the rule of "no kissing" as many swingers do. About 10 years ago, we dropped that rule for her. Even though we dropped it, she still never kissed guys, just girls, as she felt kissing was still much more emotional. She told me, that they made out very passionately the whole time.


So, we pick him up in a few hours, to head to a nightclub, where she is proud to be my wife and his girlfriend. Her and I talked a bit ago, and she feels so relaxed about it (other than being giddy). Looks like we are entering a poly type relationship, at least with him, as long as it works.

Funny how life throws curve balls at you sometimes.

How was this recent night? Anything other than social?

 

[BHCCuck]

How was this recent night? Anything other than social?

Horribly bad. He had never swung before and really had issues keeping it up. She would blow him, get hard, start fucking her, go soft. Over and over. We tried everything, even including them going back to his room with him alone (in case I was spooking him).

It happens in this lifestyle, we told him that, he threw a tantrum over it, and also gave us his life drama stories/excuses. Fortunately, while we were out clubbing, we ran into old swinger friends that were in town doing a porn shoot. About the time he was being a bitch, we got a text saying "hey, we finished up, come on back to the club". So we bolted and made the best of the night/morning.

Worst part is, my wife loved they way he ate her and came many times, and had he just done that again, one last time, slapped her on the ass and said "maybe next time", all would have been fine. Instead, throw a tantrum, and spend the next week, ignoring us both and crying about how his life sucks seemed to be his choice

At least we got some good pics out of it, and salvaged the evening.

Life throws curveballs, just learn to deal with them the right way.

 

[vladdy]

I think most bulls would prefer the cuckold husband to stay at home, or else where. I know if I were to go cuck some dude, I wouldn't want him around all the time, it would be a great power play if when I came to his house to take his wife in his bed, he exited to the movies or something.

But I'm more on the cuck side, if I was comfortable with the guy as a person, I would expect they would want some alone time and should have it. Although at times you should be able to watch, clean her up after orally or get sloppy seconds if your really lucky.

 

[Son of John]

I have never been the "Bull" in the way that most guys think of it. But, I did fuck a friend's wife while he watched. There was no humiliation for him, and it was all a very happy situation for all of us.

And, I have more often been the husband in a situation where a friend fucked my wife while I watched. This is my favorite scenario.

And once, only, we met with another couple and we fucked each others' wives in front of each other, and on the same bed at the same time.

There have also been times when another man fucked my wife while I was not present. The most often was her first husband, who called me and told me all about it later.

I guess my favorite would be to watch another guy fuck my wife when we were all enjoying it.

 

[srx]

I have not yet been able to talk my wife into fucking other guys but if (and when) it happens I would much prefer being a watcher. I'm not sure I have the patience to wait at home wondering what she is doing, if she is with more than one guy,(would love to see her being gang banged) or maybe an ffm. I will say that I would much prefer her going out on her on than the situation now of her not fucking other guys.

Would you like to help,maybe guide a big cock into her.

 

[hubbyofasianslut]

My wife has told me that she would really love to cuckold me but I wouldn't be allowed to watch. She wants me to help her get ready for her dates and then leave me at home waiting. She would maybe call me from her Bull's place and make me talk to him, or send me the occasional photo such as her dress on the floor or his cock dripping of cum but no photos of them actually having sex so that I can only imagine what they are doing. So my question to you all is: What makes cucks more anxious watching or waiting? What do Bulls prefer?

The first time I shared her the new guy fucked her with me, watching and joining in. The deal with him was he could take her back to his hotel and keep her overnight with me there. The hotel was in the same complex as my condo so he had me walk out with them and say goodbye at his hotel. I walked alone back to my condo to the amazement of the security staff who knew she was (at the time) my steady girl friend. Longest, sleepless night I have spent in my life.

Now I'm always there and we tend to find guys who enjoy being watched while they use my wife.