Unhappy Husband

[badHubbi]

Just a typical guy. 50 years old (I dont feel it) and married. My wife and I have been together for almost 8 years now and married for almost 4. Life was a ton of fun and adventurous (in and out of the bedroom) for the first few years. Now...all she wants to do it work, play on her phone and stare at TV. The spark is long gone it seems.
I like watching sports, having a cold beverage, ;listening to music, traveling and good food. I love cooking! I am here to find some sort of connection to escape the failed relationship I am in. Not my first marriage and I am too old to start over, so this is life now.

 

[Jaandaj]

Just a typical guy. 50 years old (I dont feel it) and married. My wife and I have been together for almost 8 years now and married for almost 4. Life was a ton of fun and adventurous (in and out of the bedroom) for the first few years. Now...all she wants to do it work, play on her phone and stare at TV. The spark is long gone it seems.
I like watching sports, having a cold beverage, ;listening to music, traveling and good food. I love cooking! I am here to find some sort of connection to escape the failed relationship I am in. Not my first marriage and I am too old to start over, so this is life now.

Why not try and bring spice back in ur relationship with her?

 

[badHubbi]

Why not try and bring spice back in ur relationship with her?

I have. I really have. I try date night because she complains that all I want to do is go to my favorite sports bar. All she wants to do is sit at home. I try flirting, send her flowers, do EVERYTHING around the house.. She just seems to be 70 years old!

 

[Jaandaj]

I have. I really have. I try date night because she complains that all I want to do is go to my favorite sports bar. All she wants to do is sit at home. I try flirting, send her flowers, do EVERYTHING around the house.. She just seems to be 70 years old!

Couples get in ruts. I don't know either of u but sometimes I have to shake it up.
Take her on a date where u both leave ur phone in the car. Take her for a hike by a lake. Stop by an adult bookstore and look at toys. Ur imagination is all u need.
Talk about fantasy and ask what she wants to come true

 

[badHubbi]

Couples get in ruts. I don't know either of u but sometimes I have to shake it up.
Take her on a date where u both leave ur phone in the car. Take her for a hike by a lake. Stop by an adult bookstore and look at toys. Ur imagination is all u need.
Talk about fantasy and ask what she wants to come true

I have tried every one of those ideas. We used to go to the adult stores A LOT. We have a ton of fun items.. when i bring them out, she says she is not in the right mood. When i plan a date, she usually backs out, complains, or suggests something else (usually something like staying home).

 

[Jaandaj]

I have tried every one of those ideas. We used to go to the adult stores A LOT. We have a ton of fun items.. when i bring them out, she says she is not in the right mood. When i plan a date, she usually backs out, complains, or suggests something else (usually something like staying home).

There can be numerous things. Only she can tell u what they are.

Lots of times they need to have the spark relit from someone else. But like I say. I don't know u two.

When my wife is sleeping with another man she becomes more sexual and more outgoing in regular life. It's the knowing someone besides me finds her attractive and wants to have sex with her. I am sure she gets board with just me. And as much as a couple can say I love you, sometimes people just go through the motions.

 

[Bluemeanie]

Just a typical guy. 50 years old (I dont feel it) and married. My wife and I have been together for almost 8 years now and married for almost 4. Life was a ton of fun and adventurous (in and out of the bedroom) for the first few years. Now...all she wants to do it work, play on her phone and stare at TV. The spark is long gone it seems.
I like watching sports, having a cold beverage, ;listening to music, traveling and good food. I love cooking! I am here to find some sort of connection to escape the failed relationship I am in. Not my first marriage and I am too old to start over, so this is life now.

Let me contact her, I'm guaranteed to awaken her sexuality

 

[MNAZ]

Just a typical guy. 50 years old (I dont feel it) and married. My wife and I have been together for almost 8 years now and married for almost 4. Life was a ton of fun and adventurous (in and out of the bedroom) for the first few years. Now...all she wants to do it work, play on her phone and stare at TV. The spark is long gone it seems.
I like watching sports, having a cold beverage, ;listening to music, traveling and good food. I love cooking! I am here to find some sort of connection to escape the failed relationship I am in. Not my first marriage and I am too old to start over, so this is life now.

Do you have pictures of her to share ? How old is she ? If she's around your age she should be at her sexual peak. Tell her you'd like to awaken her sexuality and will do anything to help. See what she says. Maybe she would like to be with a woman or another man. Who knows until you ask. Maybe she's looking at naked men or women on her phone.