Ok, to answer Rhino's question, I do not call myself a slut becasue I do not think of myself as one. What do I mean by a slut... I guess it is a woman who is driven by the need to be with a man (men) and do not care how they treat her . She derives her pleasure and perhaps her sense of self worth by being with them. There are lots of good church going woman who never had any man but their husband who meet that description. Some of them may be sluts too but I it is their sexuality that makes a sluts. If they are controlled by the need to please and not to enjoy, then I think that they can be sluts.