We tried a bull/cuckold lifestyle a few years ago. previously we only shared, 3sums mainly and 1 or 2 swaps. But after a long break from sharing, due to growing family, and after our children moved out on their own we went through a high libido period. We were on our own again and acting like teenagers.lol.
It wasn't long before we started discussing adding a 3rd again. So after browsing some sites we learned of bull/cuckold relationships and it looked interesting. We found someone form a site and decided to give it ago. The relationship lasted about 6 months before we decided it wasn't really for us.
He usually came to our house on a friday night, spend the night and leave in the morning. A couple of times he spent 2 nights. Once he bought a friend with him and stayed the whole weekend. That one did turn me on, but that is another story.
Anyway, when he was with us my wife belonged to him. We would have diner and then watch tv or something. He sitting with my wife and me sitting by myself. Id watch them make out. But at bedtime he would take my wife to our room and I was relegated to the spare room.
Now watching them make out was a turn on but I didn't like not being able to join in. Same goes for the bed allocation. It was a sort of a turn on to think about what they might be doing but I didn't like not being there. I enjoy sharing my wife but I prefer to also participate and Im not really into the humiliation thing.
What I did enjoy tho was having breakfast and a civil conversation with a man who had just spent the night with my wife in our bed. I found this to be very erotic. Id say something like "did you have a good night?" and he would reply with "yes, very, your wife took good care of me." Confirming that they had fucked without coming right out and saying it, tho a couple of time he did just that. My wife would join us after her shower and she was my wife again. Id ask her the same question and she would answer with "mmmmmmmmm" and a smile.
My wife enjoyed it for a while but she want a 3sum again and to have me participate. She said it felt more like cheating so we ended it.
I've also spoken to the man who popped her cherry and he gave me details, that was pretty erotic, Learning about her 1st time.
I've spoken with a few after a 3sum and it turned my wife on as well as me to hear me ask if they had enjoyed the experience, what they enjoyed about it and would they like to do it again.
So yeah, I find talking to men who have fucked my wife to be a turn on.
