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Stealing MY woman back from her husband and marriage / Husband does not know

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masterlover

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My story is interesting and unusual. Some details have been left vague intentionally to protect the innocent...and guilty.

I'm in my late 30's and when I was 15 years old I encountered my first love. I had already had sex with two girls, but neither of them were girls I was hot for, you know, the kind you really really want to fuck. Well, my first two lays were more to get the whole thing done and get experience but this girl was different, she was the hottest girl I had ever seen. I was in my first year of high school, and her, her second year of Junior High, being just 13 years old.
Not only myself, but my closest friends as well, thought her to be the cutest girl around. We all lived by the Junior High and each day we would see this group of party girls walking by and talking to ourselves. Well, very soon after we saw each other, friends talking, who knows and who can really remember, but we hooked up and we were both really happy to be together. We fucked only a few times and it was very young love, but the disappointing thing was, love hadn't had it's chance to blossom yet, and there was mostly animal lust between us, and after only a few times spending time together, she had to go to another school, and I lived too far from her to visit her home, not yet having a car even. So, We never really saw each other for a while.
Then one day, a few years later, when I was about 18 or 19, we saw each other again, but both of us were in relationships and we could not pursue anything together, although I admit I would have tried if given the chance. I have never been one to regard the boyfriend as much interference if the girlfriend is willing. But in this case, I had too much respect and care to even try and so I went my way and she went hers.
Now, it is 20 something years later and I got a e-mail only 2 months ago. It turned out to be my first love. Her name, for the story purposes, is Lady.
It turns out that Lady had found someone shortly after we got together, and he helped or rather "rescued" her from a delicate life situation and they eventually married and had children together. Mostly, it appears, this was more out of obligation that serious love or devotion. They are currently still married. In the twenty something years they have been together now, she has never cheated on him, and I believe her. She has always been a very good hearted person, and from what I can see she has done a great job raising her children. In my eyes, I see her as a true Goddess. She is the embodiment of perfection and a beauty to behold as well.
In the course of next few weeks, e-mails and pics were exchanged, and things progressed. It appears she contacted me because she missed me all these years and wanted to see me again. Well, the strange coincidence is, I have thought about her all these years as well, and always wondered what happened to her and if her life was going well. Now it seems that her has not been going as well as I would have wished for her. As far as myself, I have been single for a little while now, generally do not have a problem finding woman and have many female friends and I am pretty happy, but I have been missing that special person in my own life who completely fulfills me in the most important ways. So, when her e-mails became more and more enticing, I did what comes naturally and charmed her with my natural skills.
We live a ways away from each other but not too far, however we cannot see each other as often as we would like. Our first encounter went well. I traveled to a location closer to her and we saw a show together and went to a motel for the evening. We stayed by the beach and it was really nice. The whole evening went well, and we were both just as attracted to each other as we were when we were younger. At the show, we kissed passionately, touched each other lots, danced together, held each other, and enjoying the music. Then, afterwards, at the motel, I basically ripped her clothes off, or never really gave her time to remove them before I started stripping them off her body. What a beautiful body, I have to stress. She still looks absolutely gorgeous. Despite both of our initial self-consciousness was passed over, teenagers look perfect, but we aren't teenagers anymore, although I would say, we rate pretty high, overall. Some day maybe, I can post something here where others could be the judge of that.
I spent a while licking her pussy and playing with her clit, and she sucked my cock for a while. i could go into details but that is not what i'm doing here. I don't have that much time. I will say, I enjoyed it immensely, and from the look on her face, she did also. The soft moans were another clear indication. How I love giving pleasure to a beautiful woman. Lady got a chance to do what she has missed for years. Look at, touch, feel, handle, and enjoy my huge cock, which stays hard for extended periods of time, and gets hard again after cumming in a very short period of time. This cock of mine, is and has been the dream of many women, and in the years since we have been together, I have really learned how to use it, studying Tantra, learning extended chastity, being involved in Goddess worship and being blessed with having had a couple of very loving and meaningful relationships in my past. I was more than happy to give her this gift and she received it deep and hard for a long time, over and over into the night and early morning. We didn't get much sleep that night. Unfortunately, I had to leave and so did she, so it was short lived. However, it was amazing.
So a few weeks went by and we saw each other again, this time for several days and she stayed with me. I learned that she had never given her husband head and swallowed his cum. She had never tasted cum until she had mine that first night together. I found that to be very exciting. I learned through our e-mails previously that her husband and her have not been together since their last child and that was over 8 years ago. She has not kissed him, and he has not even seen her naked. They even sleep separately. She is such a good Princess and and angel and a dream girl who could make any man happy, and I feel so blessed to have her give herself to me like this. ;)
We spent another weekend together with another, different excuse for the husband, but now it's changing. He's getting suspicious, and asking questions. She feels no guilt because he has done nothing to maintain his end of the relationship, has given her no love and has not tried at all to be a man and love her at all. he does not take her out, buy her gifts, and she has been left to deal with important family and health related issues on her own. All of it due to a big ego, macho attitude or just plain lack of concern other than self-concern, who knows....Either way, she believes what she is doing is following her heart and I agree with her. This time, I tied her up, spanked her, came in her mouth again, and we fucked for hours and hours and spend every possible minute in each other's arms.
Now, we are talking about how to deal with it all. Maybe i'll post a poll. She wants to leave him and come and be with me, and I want the same and now we have to make it happen.
This is not a normal case of cuckolding, but she is submissive completely to me, and she is very dominant with him, and I am naturally dominant with a switchable submissive side, and a crossdresser at heart. I have also been cuckolded in the past, although I must say, I prefer the dominant or equal role. I am training her in BDSM and helping her to learn about herself and everything involved. She is very open to it all, and in deeply in love with me and I am deeply in love with her.
I plan to keep the site and story updated if there is interest. Ask any questions you like. I will answer if possible, and eventually I will tell her about this, show it to her, show her all the comments people have been making, and maybe she will like to post her thoughts as well.
 
BDSM aside, she is a lonely woman who needs a man to treat her as a woman and give her love that she has not felt in many years. It would seem to me that both of you have a longing for each other, an unrequieted love. If she would leave her husband for you, make sure the longing is real and forever. Sex is wonderful, but a committment is more than sex and kink. If she is willing to support you and your desires to crossdress and pursue a D/s relationship with her, by all means go for it. Otherwise, enjoy your renewed reunion while it lasts and be prepared for it to end sooner rather than later.
 
Jannis,
Thanks for your concern and positive response.
Yes, I care for her and love her more than any woman I have in the past. She is the kindest hearted, sweetest, beautiful woman, with real intelligence, a great sense of humor, compassion, a real down to earth quality of character, a beautiful mature soul and lots of love to give the right man. I would not have her leave her husband only to mess with her or her life. That would be horrible to do to someone. Fortunately sex is not so important to me that I would do that to anyone. My feelings for her are sincere and I do want to spend my time with her. The times we have shared so far have been some of the best for both of us. Otherwise, I would not be stealing her back and allowing this to happen. We have a very special love between us that burns with heat and fire. She deserves better than she has had, and I am what she wants the most in the world. We both need each other and the quality of love we have to offer each other. I could never find a better woman, and she feels the same about me. :cool:

Sometimes I think it's easier to get into fantasies and stories that are not real. but this is the way life is.

I will warn all the men out there, if you think you are in a marriage and everything is fine....ask yourself if your wife is happy, and if you are doing things to keep her or lose her, because whether consciously or unconsciously, we do things that send signals and those signals lead to eventual changes, and sometimes those changes are permanent.

If you were a cuck and your fantasy is to have your wife enjoy a man more than yourself, and you keep trying to find her someone instead of improving yourself, then you may get what you ask for in the long run. And you may not be so happy.
When your woman "falls" for someone else, that may be the beginning of the end of your relationship. If you neglect the one you love, then someone will come along and give her what she needs.
 
She sounds like a doll - and I look forward to hearing more about her. There are serious decisions to make, but you all sound mature enough to sort out what will be best for everyone. [Making it happen can be a different matter]

masterlover said:
This is not a normal case of cuckolding, but she is submissive completely to me, and she is very dominant with him

In my email correspondence I find this power set-up surprisingly common. I'm in touch with a number of couples where the wife dominates the husband, but finds her submissive side in interacting with me. Unfortunately it is all 'virtual' rather than real-life, but I like to think I can judge the people I chat with over extended periods.

Which aspects of BDSM is she leaning towards? Obedience/service? Bondage? Punishment? How far have you taken her in your meetings?
 
greymaster said:
She sounds like a doll - and I look forward to hearing more about her. There are serious decisions to make, but you all sound mature enough to sort out what will be best for everyone. [Making it happen can be a different matter]

[Hi Greymaster, We are in the process of making it happen now. She is going to figure out a way to tell her HB. She has not been happy with him in a long time now, but they stay together for common good. Now she feels like being free to be with me, and there is a divorce in the near future.]

In my email correspondence I find this power set-up surprisingly common. I'm in touch with a number of couples where the wife dominates the husband, but finds her submissive side in interacting with me. Unfortunately it is all 'virtual' rather than real-life, but I like to think I can judge the people I chat with over extended periods.

[This is interesting to me, even. She has never swallow cum until the night we were first together, unless maybe she forgot what I had her do when we were younger, lol. Apparently, she and her husband did very little while they were together. She had never had anal sex before. She has not had sex in almost 10 years until we got together. In many cases we are living out fantasies and doing it "virtually" since we really "know better" in our heads, but this is 100% real, which makes it really really HOT to me, in some ways, and also to her, too, I would imagine. Somewhere I read that the #1 female fantasy was having an affair. Well in that same article, I read, that men's #1 fantasy was female domination.]

Which aspects of BDSM is she leaning towards? Obedience/service? Bondage? Punishment? How far have you taken her in your meetings?

[She has zero experience with this as well. She takes an extremely submissive role to me, especially since she is really giving up her marriage for me and everything they have together, which emotionally is not much, but still, a marriage is a big deal.
She is very dominant in some ways. She is timid and leans towards submission, however, she is very firm minded in her ideas about having me all to herself, and even "owning" me. She is almost obsessed with me, but in the very very best way. She is very kind-hearted and does not do wrong as I see it. So, a woman who wants to hold a man real tight, who is sane, and balanced, and smart, and responsible, is sexy as well, especially to me. She does not get controlling, but I can tell that there are certain things she wants and my inclination is to give them to her, happily. She has shared a couple fantasies with me about taking her husband out and meeting me at a club, then kissing on me and having me hold her in front of her husband, then leaving and going home with me, instead, leaving her husband bewildered, and most likely very hurt. That is pretty dominant if you ask me. That could just be from the spite she holds towards him for not being a man and never approaching her sexually to try to "get his".
I have tied her up, bound her in fur lined cuffs, both hands and feet, used a wheel on her, a dildo, soft touches, licking, and just a basic general introduction to bondage. I did spank her very hard a few times, so much so that when she went home, she was clearly bruised bottomed. I had to wrestle her the first night, as she became extremely bratty before sex. She started in on all this stuff about what I said to her via e-mail about my past flings and so on. I had to discipline her a bit and forcefully take her and pin her and overcome her, which was necessary AND MOST FUN, of course. The great thing in some ways is our closeness. Were both height and weight equal, being both middle sized people. Neither of us are overweight or heavy, but we are not tall or short, we are both medium build, almost petite in our sizes. I am not that much stronger than her although I have that male strength edge. I have to struggle a little to subdue her. In the same way, I cannot escape her strength very easily, so we can wrestle very well together.
She is much more submissive than dominant but she has a dominant streak in her and I am embracing both sides of her and trying to coax and bring out both, leaning on her submissive side, since that is where she likes to me most of the time. But there are times she gets bossy with me, and I can tell that she would like to be in control, if she knew how to and not feel embarrassed or self-conscious.
I loaned her my "Different Loving" and she is reading it now. ]

Thanks for the feedback.
 
MacNfries said:
Yeah, I think this happens all the time, I'm sure. Certainly happened to me, except my wife asked me if it was OK. I've fucked a couple of my old girlfriends that are now married. I don't think the purpose of most of these reunions are to create new flame, but to reminisce a bit, particularly when the initial relationship broke off under friendly terms. My wife occasionally fucks her old BF (my roommate in college for a year). I started dating her after he left her for another girl. He obviously fucked her well enough that she was willing to let him do it again ... and again ... lol!

That's why I like to always recommend to those that are ending a relationship, to do it under the friendliest of terms ... you never know when you might like to cross that bridge again.
:D

Well, fortunately for both of us, she will not want to cross that bridge again with him, because there was nothing left to the bridge when she left.

It will be interesting though, since one of my greatest thrills is the challenge. I love chivalry and I love dominating and being dominated. Although she will not be interested in getting back with her Ex anytime in the future, I have already made it clear to her that I enjoy seeing the woman I love being fucked well by other men. I think we will be doing a bit of sharing together.
She has no experience with woman....yet, and I say "yet" because I intend to push this on her because I like to see this and experience it for myself. She will do that for me. I can only imagine what it will be like when she does her part in taking pleasures.
Maybe we'll save pics to send back to her husband, to show him what other men are doing with his Ex-Wife. Then again, that's just the fantasy part. I don't think we will ever do that.
 
Well, a couple days ago, my new girlfriend from years back, my lovely wife to be, who's husband knows nothing yet, told her soon to be ex-husband that
A.) There will not be any future for them in any intimate way.
b.) She is not interested in him, and intends to "do her own thing".
c.) He should move on and find someone for himself, since there is no future between them.

HB asked if she was serious, and she told him she was. Asked if she was seeing anyone and she told him, "No". There are reasons for this. Soon, we will be together completely, but she has a family and has to move slowly in these matters. One step at a time. That was one big step for us.

Now he knows she will be coming and going as she pleases and we have another date for this weekend.

Here is a nice pic of my girl, from behind. Just one of the many ways I like to take her. What do you people think of this ass and pussy? It's certainly nice to behold, to touch, to smell, to lick and taste and to fuck the hell out of. Both holes are open to me any time I want them. I wish I could post her most beautiful features, her face and eyes, but I cannot do that here. I hope you all enjoy!
 

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A nice introductory photo of her - hopefully we see more as time goes on.

I fully understand about the 'face' images --- safety first. We'll have to make do with the rest of that body you've described so well :)

Good to hear that things are working out for you both.
 
use he big head - its much safer

The road to hell is paved with good intentions and brother your on that road. She doesn't sound as though she is coming from a hotwife/cuck relationship and its not a good idea to get the two confused. This may very well have unintended conseguences that your blinders prevent you from acknowledging. Tread carefully cause an irate husband can be dangerous when his mate and mother of his child is at stake. You turn a man's world upside down, brother, he's comming to see you and you'll never see it coming!!! Well, play with fire....
 
DFWmilkman said:
The road to hell is paved with good intentions and brother your on that road. She doesn't sound as though she is coming from a hotwife/cuck relationship and its not a good idea to get the two confused. This may very well have unintended conseguences that your blinders prevent you from acknowledging. Tread carefully cause an irate husband can be dangerous when his mate and mother of his child is at stake. You turn a man's world upside down, brother, he's comming to see you and you'll never see it coming!!! Well, play with fire....

But you would fuck with the will of the Goddess?
That to me, is more dangerous than any man's wrath.
She has chosen me, not the other way around. Who am I to argue with that?:cool:

That is life my friend. Some win, some lose, and things change. Maybe you are not cut out to be a force of nature, but I am.
 
masterlover said:
But you would fuck with the will of the Goddess?
That to me, is more dangerous than any man's wrath.
She has chosen me, not the other way around. Who am I to argue with that?:cool:

That is life my friend. Some win, some lose, and things change. Maybe you are not cut out to be a force of nature, but I am.

Buddy, all I can say is go for it cause its that kind of thinking and acting that keeps paying my bills. The knife and gun club is always open. Good luck
 
Update

Hello everyone,
Just thought I would post an update to our situation.

Lady has taken all the appropriate steps to move in the direction that will bring us both together. She has informed her husband they are no longer going to have sex together. Shortly after that, he pushed and inquired more then she told him that she wanted a divorce. He suspects her infidelity but as far as he knows, it could be a woman, not a man.
She told him she will be moving out as well. Hopefully by New Years we will be together all the time.

So, he is not too uppity about all of it. So far so good. He claims he wants her to be happy, and he has not been threatening or abusive or mean. It's something I'm happy about because I truly love her and I want all of this to be easy for her, not difficult. So far, it seems like the universe has opened up doors for us, and every time we need another one opened for us, it happens. Just like clockwork.

Details still have to be worked out at home, for the children's sake and well being. But, in the last two months we have made years worth of progress together in our union.

A couple weeks ago, we went to a Halloween party. Both of us dressed as pretty girls. It was quite a thrill for both of us. She actually bought me a wig, some high heel boots that are sexy as anything I have ever seen, and she helped apply some of my makeup. I was in heaven. The whole night was very arousing for both of us. We were called "twins" by one girl. We danced together during some music that was playing, and we had a great time together. Our kissing got the most attention of all I think.

We are a match made in heaven, and we are perfect for each other. We're both very happily in love and very attracted and into each other. This woman is the girl of my dreams and she is everything I could ever wish for. Lady is gorgeous, sexy and sweethearted, loyal, smart and funny, has wit, and creativity and adventurousness, and I've never had more fun with anyone in my life. She inspires me, brings me joy and happiness, supports me, accepts me understands me, and appreciates me. She has the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen, her heart of made of gold, her breasts are awesome and well formed, her pussy tastes delicious and her scent is like a fine perfume, her ass is heavenly and her legs and feet, pretty and captivating. I'm truly a blessed man. :D

I know we are going to have lots of good times together. New Years is our next fun adventure together.
 
masterlover said:
Hello everyone,
Just thought I would post an update to our situation.

Lady has taken all the appropriate steps to move in the direction that will bring us both together. She has informed her husband they are no longer going to have sex together. Shortly after that, he pushed and inquired more then she told him that she wanted a divorce. He suspects her infidelity but as far as he knows, it could be a woman, not a man.
She told him she will be moving out as well. Hopefully by New Years we will be together all the time.

So, he is not too uppity about all of it. So far so good. He claims he wants her to be happy, and he has not been threatening or abusive or mean. It's something I'm happy about because I truly love her and I want all of this to be easy for her, not difficult. So far, it seems like the universe has opened up doors for us, and every time we need another one opened for us, it happens. Just like clockwork.

Details still have to be worked out at home, for the children's sake and well being. But, in the last two months we have made years worth of progress together in our union.

A couple weeks ago, we went to a Halloween party. Both of us dressed as pretty girls. It was quite a thrill for both of us. She actually bought me a wig, some high heel boots that are sexy as anything I have ever seen, and she helped apply some of my makeup. I was in heaven. The whole night was very arousing for both of us. We were called "twins" by one girl. We danced together during some music that was playing, and we had a great time together. Our kissing got the most attention of all I think.

We are a match made in heaven, and we are perfect for each other. We're both very happily in love and very attracted and into each other. This woman is the girl of my dreams and she is everything I could ever wish for. Lady is gorgeous, sexy and sweethearted, loyal, smart and funny, has wit, and creativity and adventurousness, and I've never had more fun with anyone in my life. She inspires me, brings me joy and happiness, supports me, accepts me understands me, and appreciates me. She has the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen, her heart of made of gold, her breasts are awesome and well formed, her pussy tastes delicious and her scent is like a fine perfume, her ass is heavenly and her legs and feet, pretty and captivating. I'm truly a blessed man. :D

I know we are going to have lots of good times together. New Years is our next fun adventure together.
she told her husband they are no longer going to have sex? But you said earlier she told you they hadnt had sex for 8 years. So wouldnt it be self evident?
 
That was confusing I guess.

They have not had sex in about 10 years now. But lately, he has been trying to get her in bed, since he knows she is slipping away. That is what prompted her to tell him that. I mentioned it because it just happened, where she told him this, after one of his advances.
 
I've been begging my wife to meet up with ex boyfriends for years now. This husband should consider himself lucky.
 
little_shaun,
actually, he is not very aware of much, yet alone his own sexual desires.

I posted recently about our progress, in another thread.

Basically, to sum it up.....

Her and I are getting ready to live together. Her husband is an "ex" now, and has no idea about anything, really.

She has lost all interest in him, fortunately. He did not treat her well.

Her and I have played with all kinds of thoughts and scenarios. For the most part, she is now my controlling Mistress and GODDESS. I could not control her, for she is a force of nature, herself, and I bow down to her and her will.

I'm locked in a Loris device currently. I wear soft silky lingerie, she has bought for me, to bed every night.

She is a much happier women nowadays, and has told me repeatedly, that as long as I belong to her and I am her's completely, she will be the happiest.

So, I'm working on that...giving her complete control over me. I live to please her, and so i'm learning how to.

One of the most amazing revelations she has shared with me recently, is that she enjoys fucking me, more than she enjoys my fucking her.

I'm very flattered by that. She really appreciates my feminine body, and I find her to be the sexiest woman I know. So, we could be looking a at situation here, where she is my real life dom.

We talk about me getting tattooed for her, and pierced, in all of the feminine places. I told her I would do anything for her, including making my body, a piece of art for her appreciation.

Life is so nice, for those willing to give to their GODDESS. Who truly deserve.
I feel very fortunate and loved. I adore HER.
 

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