I may have a different take on this.At age 12 ,my son started to wear his sister’s panties.We took him to all sort of Doctors but it was for nothing. My mom told us to let him be himself.I was afraid for him and of ppl finding out.The society here is not much better when it comes to homosexuals. It seem thou that he had made his own friends and the parents came home to us asking if their own sissy sons can play with him as girls. It turn out that mom had set things up in an effort to help.One boy had a two-piece swim suit, a bikini.They all went crazy, wanting one too.It was the start of his cross dressing at home. I love my son gay or not.I did not think that I was going to be in a similar condition three years later.My mother invited my wife and I to an interracial swing.At 1st it did not "sink in" of it being sex with black men.I went looking for pussy. It was my mother’s sight of fucking a black man that turn me on so much.I knew in my heart that I wanted to feel like my mom.With-in a week I had my mom set me up with my 1st black man. My wife and my mom saw him fuck me in my mom’s bed.It took some months but I did tell my 15yrs old gay son and his 14yrs old sister that their father liked black men.I spoke to both of them at the same time knowing that if I said something to one the other will know.They asked questions that I thought was very adult but I was truthful.They were concern about my wife and I and our relationship. I had to say that its different but we do love one another. There were other personal things like sex.I knew that they knew a lot about sex but they were still not active. I told them that I felt feminine with a black man and took the female role.