It had to be hot for you to know that both your husband's dad and his grandfather were both into blacks with white women.
Yes, it was
Did you ever have any reason to suspect that either of them did more than just fantasize about it?
Grandfather once worked on a horse ranch where people would come from the city to ride the horses. He had a a very secret affair with one of the wives who would come to the ranch almost one day every week. He was in his early 20s at the time and she was 7 years older and before he got married. My husbands dad was what some people would call a real "player" type of guy and also an athlete that made him popular with the girls, especially white girls whom he fulfilled many white girls black fantasies. Although that all ended when he married my husband Mom, he could never "shake off" the hot times he had with with the few white girls he was with, most of them more than once.. So for both grandfather and dad, the collection of interracial paperbacks, magazines and some videos, kept their memories alive..
Did you ever wonder if your mother-in-law or grandmother-in-law ever had some interracial fun at their husband's request?
No, neither of them ever got involved. Although my husbands Mom knew he was a "player type" he swears he's remained faithful to her ..and grandmother was told about his affair, long after they were married..
Did you ever wonder if either of them suspected that you were into black men?
I don't understand what you are asking