I don't think I have a big dick, or even above average dick. I have seen a lot of bigger dicks in the shower room in high school than mine.
Most of the women I have been with say mine is above average. I never could believe that, just figured they said it to make me happy.
Every one of my first wife's boy toys had a bigger dick than me.
When I married my second wife, most of her boy toys had smaller dicks than me, except for 2 white men and all 4 of the black guys she has fucked.
I don't know how my first wife found hung white guys. That was way before the internet came around. But she knew how to find hung aggressive men.
I find my current wife's "dates". She does not want anything to do with the search, just wants the end results.
So, that being said, I guess I am average.