Revenge
1. How well do you know your husband? Is he prone to violence? If you have the slightest indication that this is so, make sure to take precautions before moving along with revenge-fucking plans. It may take more time, but revenge is best served cold anyway.
2. Can divorce proceedings be reopened in the US? That is, if you 'take him for every dime', and afterwards a video of you getting your freak on with a black guy appears, can he use it to get his money back?
3. In any case, a couple of suggestions for the revenge fuck:
a) Choose your partner(s) carefully. Beside the obvious (his tests for disease so that you can go bareback); if your hubby has some particular insecurities/deficiencies, find partners who has got in spades what your hubby has little or less of.
Cock size is the obvious first choice (if you can handle big cock or at least fake enjoyment well), but by no means the only one - the more insecurities kicked the better. Athletic build, handsome face, money...some people actually handle the latter least well, and by the sound of your hubby, he might qualify: "blames black people for everything bad that happens to him". If you can't find BBC who also has got money and is willing to spend a little on what is, after all,
your revenge fantasy, you can always consider spending a little of the divorce money on a staged show (hiring a limo, fancy hotel room, etc...more on that later).
More importantly than all the above, however, is to find a guy with the right attitude (more on that later as well).
b) In order to be a really good revenge, there needs to be a video tape that can eventually get into your hubby's hands, to boil him good. This assumes that you've considered and are ready to accept the possible reputation fallout for yourself in this matter (if you're not, all of this post will be pointless for you, only good for wives who aim to really satisfy the anger coursing through their veins - 'Hell hath no fury...' and all that).
Now, one thing many women do wrong when it comes to revenge, is their need to let hubby know that
they are exacting revenge on him, i.e. "You fucked my best friend, now I'm getting back at you, bastard!" Perhaps understandable, but it may serve to take off some of the edge for him - "She's just doing it because she's mad at me." Consider letting the black guy(s) be the narrative for the video, and letting them be the ones to send the video off! If your hubby will be angry for you exacting revenge on him, he'll be having an apoplexy over some black guys taunting him (more on that later). Here it would help to have found a guy with the right attitude, as mentioned earlier, someone on the dominant side, who really enjoys the idea of taking someones wife against their will.
Moreover, if you can manage it so that the timing of the event is ambiguous (it may have occurred before you got wind of his adultery), then all for the better. Nothing that proves one way or the other, just...ambiguity. (this holds extra if divorce proceedings can be reopened, see above)
c) You may consider sending the video to someone close to him, instead of directly to him. If you send it directly only to him, he may choose to turn it off in anger after a few seconds, leaving the rest of the steaming 4-hour sex session lamentably unwatched. If you send it to friends and/or co-workers of his (particularly some rival of his would be good) he would have to watch it all just to confirm whether every twisted rumor about it is true!
d) Keep it cool during divorce proceedings. Don't let your anger show, just tell him coolly that he broke your trust, and because of this you can't stay married to him. If your attitude (after his seeing the revenge fucking) seems hypocritical to him, then all for the better - this will serve to make him angrier still.
f) Suggestion for a possible revenge-fuck scenario:
You've quietly allied yourself with two BBC carriers who are totally into your idea. You've test run them for both sex and filming (and sex and filming together) so that you know things will go smoothly for the grand finale.
You've invested in hiring a fancy limo, a fancy hotel suite, the best camera you can lay your hands on (NB: no date information on the film), and other necessary props (suits, uniforms etc).
For yourself, hair-do, choice of clothing, etc. could be slightly on the conservative side but sexy, but above all
in keeping with how you looked while you were married to him! See above regarding ambiguity. If you've got sexy CFM boots, consider wearing them (this has got nothing to do with anything, that's just my particular fetish creeping in - but boots
are sexy!)
First scene: Uniformed black driver and "rich" black playboy driving in a limo (camera in hands of playboy), talking about this cute, white girl playboy's got a date with, and that they're about to pick up. Details should be sparse in order to preserve ambiguity, but if you can slip in some public place near where you live or have recently been, where playboy and you supposedly met, it would be a nice touch.
Limo stops to pick you up. Camera swoops over your body and playboy gives you a compliment, which you smilingly receive and thank him for. He prods you to tell a little about yourself, and you offer some sparse details. He asks you if you've ever been with a black guy before, and after a little hesitation (smile shyly, bite your lip, or whatever) you confess that you do, back in 200...5(?). He asks if it was nice, and you nod. You tell him that you're not with him anymore, however. "Settled for a white boy, eh?" he asks, to which you shrug uncomfortably.
Limo stops shortly afterwards, camera handed over to limo driver, before you and playboy step out of the car. Limo driver fixes camera on your receding backs, as you go hand in hand towards restaurant, zoom in on your ass with approving comments on how that ass is going to be majorly tapped tonight etc. Camera off!
Camera on, step into limo, drive off to hotel room while playboy films. You're obviously having a good time, but not *****. At the hotel, you two go up for a 'night cap', and invite limo driver with you. Into hotel room, you put up some token resistance because you're a 'good girl', but in the end you of course break down. Playboy takes his time with you, as limo driver films (again, my personal preferrence would be you in CFM boots but otherwise naked by now). Faking or real, orgasms should be coming hard and fast. If faking, try to sound different than with your hubby (making him doubt his own prowess).
Throw in a few "You're so much better than him!", "Make me pregnant!", and the like, and you've got it made. Limo driver is invited in while playboy takes a rest, together you spend hours fucking.
Last scene: You're apparently asleep on the bed, exhausted. Limo driver films as playboy ruffles through your purse, where he finally finds an old, crumpled picture of you and hubby in happier days. Much laughing and taunting of the 'asshole' hubby ensues. Video ends.
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Now, of course, there is something to be said for simplicity. You might also make him so angry that he'll come after you for some violent payback, so perhaps it would be best to not go there. But I might at least have given you some good revenge fantasy to which you can wank out some frustration, I dunno. Take it for what it's worth.