I'll try and brief. I'd like advice opnions on a subject partiualrly from the women members.
As a result of my sexual probs, and my fantasies, my wife started an affair with her black boss
(from her previous job) about five years ago, that lasted for more than three yrs. During a difficult period in our relationship my wife confided in my mother about her affair who in turn told my older sister. They were both understanding of my wifes situation as they were aware of my sexual problems. That affair my wife was enjoying has subsequantly finished but she does have a casual relationship with another black guy she met on a night out who she spends ever other week end with and about one night in the week. I am unsure if my mother and sister are aware of the current situation regarding this latest lover but I suspect they do know . In short they are aware that my wifes sexual needs are met by others and that she and I now longer have sex.
My problem is that whenever theres a present buying occasion for my wife ie Christmas birthdays ect they always seem to buy her exotic lingerie, nightwear ect. I don't mind but it seems a bit cruel when thay know these items will never be worn for my pleasure but for her lover.
The closest I will ever get to them is when I do the laundry or when my wife is preparing for a date with her b/f. they seem to revel in the humilliation or am I being to sensative?
Thoughts?
As a result of my sexual probs, and my fantasies, my wife started an affair with her black boss
(from her previous job) about five years ago, that lasted for more than three yrs. During a difficult period in our relationship my wife confided in my mother about her affair who in turn told my older sister. They were both understanding of my wifes situation as they were aware of my sexual problems. That affair my wife was enjoying has subsequantly finished but she does have a casual relationship with another black guy she met on a night out who she spends ever other week end with and about one night in the week. I am unsure if my mother and sister are aware of the current situation regarding this latest lover but I suspect they do know . In short they are aware that my wifes sexual needs are met by others and that she and I now longer have sex.
My problem is that whenever theres a present buying occasion for my wife ie Christmas birthdays ect they always seem to buy her exotic lingerie, nightwear ect. I don't mind but it seems a bit cruel when thay know these items will never be worn for my pleasure but for her lover.
The closest I will ever get to them is when I do the laundry or when my wife is preparing for a date with her b/f. they seem to revel in the humilliation or am I being to sensative?
Thoughts?