babyruthiezhubby said:
Then I got the bright idea of having her pose with another guy in the park. We had a friend that was a city worker that she would flash all the time when she saw him out in his city truck. She always thought he was hot So we ask him if he would do it just for fun. Of course he agreed. It was just going to be soft core posing pictures. She told me " no way I'm going any further than just posing" I said ok that's fine lets just do some fun pics, knowing in the back of my mind that she would get turned on to a point that she would not be able to control herself.
I was right. After they started touching she lost all control and ended up climbing on top of him all the time saying " I shouldn't be doing this" as she climbed on and guided his cock into her and rode him.
After that we started checking out swingers sites and hooking up with guys there. The rest is history. I created a monster who wanted sex all the time with as many different guys as possible just by having fun with her.I never pushed her into anything.
The key is to have fun with your wife in any way you can think of that turns you both on and stop being so obsessed with having her fuck someone else all the time. If your having sexy naughty fun as a couple everything else will come naturally.
These pics are the first time she ever had sex with someone else while we were married. All it took was this first time to get her going. after she saw that our marriage wasn't falling apart and I still loved her she went cock wild.
STOP BEING SO SERIOUS AND HAVE FUN WITH YOUR WIFE!! If your doing that it will happen at some point.
I'm sure this all sounds like bullshit but this is the way it actually happened. I wish I could get Ruthie on here to tell you what she was thinking during all this. I'll try to get her on. She's been working a lot of hrs for the last couple of weeks.
This is exactly how we got started as well! I would never of thought in a million years that I would be the cum loving slut that I am today! We went through all the same experiences Jim and Ruthie did.
We would go to the park for some fun... take some pics and have a great time. Up to this point I never dressed sexy at all... when I got home from work it was sweats and a t-shirt for me. I started dressing a little more sexy/naughty and the BF would take more pics. We started posting pics on amateur sites where I got a lot of feedback and compliments (which women love)!
I really loved going out dressed sexy and teasing/flashing guys but that's as far as it went. We never really seriously talked about having sex with other people, but the BF mentioned a few times that it would be cool to take some naughty pics of me flashing/fucking strangers in public.... then it happened.
Fast forward a year. It was the BF birthday and I had made dinner plans with a surprise afterwards. Dressed in something sexy/slutty we went to dinner, then told him to start driving and I would tell him where to go. Much to his delight we ended up at a Adult Bookstore with video arcades in the back. For his present I was going to get naked and pose with a couple of strangers in the back so he could take some pictures. While we were looking around for a movie to watch, a rather handsome black guy approached us and asked if we were swingers. We said no but filled him in on the plan.
We found a movie and off to the back the three of us went. We found a big booth, locked the door and both got naked while the BF started taking pics. My intent was to still pose naked with this guy and maybe masturbate a little for them. Well, when this guy dropped his drawers I was awestruck! I couldn't help but reach down and stroke his hard cock. Mind you, up to this point in my life I'd only had sex with a hand full of average hung white guys including the BF and this was the first really big cock I'd ever seen. I couldn't help myself... I had to suck it! I got down on my knees and took my first ever Big Black Cock in my mouth... the BF's taking pics like crazy and calling me a nasty slut, which was really turning me on. To make a long story short, I got my brains fucked out and cum covered by this guy while the BF captured every moment with his camera.
When we got home that night he asked if I really enjoyed fucking this guy and all I could say was his cock hit me in places I didn't even knew existed! I also found out the BF came 3 time while we were fucking... a new record for him...LOL.
From that day forward we started looking into ways we could meet other like minded singles and couples for fun. We joined a few swinger sites and did the parties only to find out that we really didn't like the swing scene. What we come to realize is I really enjoyed fucking the guys and the BF really enjoyed watching and taking pics.
So, what's the moral to my little novel?... exactly what Jim and Ruthie said! Guys, if you're interested in getting your wife/GF into the swing/cuck scene, take it SLOOOOW! It's taken us seven years to get to where we are. Tell her how sexy she is... buy her some erotic clothes, shoes, stockings and take some erotic pictures of her (not hardcore). Show her some erotic pics from the web similar to what you're taking and show her all the positive feedback these women are getting. Start taking her out on "Date Night" dressed sexy so she can see how other men react... this will build her confident. Build her love and trust in you and the relationship & make sure she understands that this is for both of you to enjoy. Most importantly, DON'T RUSH HER!!!!!! This lifestyle is not for the faint of heart. You have too have love and trust in one and other and great communications for this to work.
Relax, take your time and enjoy the ride and you'll be rewarded... You know what they say, "Remember what you ask for... you may get it!" The only thing we regret is we didn't start sooner!
Kisses

Miss Z