Sex and age

[cambsguy]

I can see why some guys become gay; I can't see them turning down a wet slutty blow job. But like I said, my wife gets wet a has squirting orgasms when I talk her into letting me eat her pussy. So, what is it, she doesn't like the feeling when she orgasms? Maybe she feels like she is losing control at the moment and doesn't like that? I don't know, I'd guess only a doctor would know why some women don't like to be eating to orgasm.

I just get off more and more thinking of being a cleanup cuckold, my wife thinks it's sick and nasty. She knows about my cleanup cuckold fantasies.

How old is your wife may I ask, my wife fucked like a bunny trying for kids but then became complacent avoiding it and now I have trouble getting hard thiink about her but that could be the joys of being 55

 

[cuck72]

How old is your wife may I ask, my wife fucked like a bunny trying for kids but then became complacent avoiding it and now I have trouble getting hard thiink about her but that could be the joys of being 55

We are an older couple late 60's, but my wife and I used to really enjoy sex for years. I'd say it was probably around your wife's age early to mid 50's when she started slowing down. It was a combination of her getting that vaginal dryness, and me starting to go soft on her, so we stopped having intercourse. I can still get very hard and cum with my wife but at times I start going soft, I tell my wife talk to talk dirty. If she would mention another guy or play along with my fantasies about another guy fucking her, I'd be so rock-hard. I can only get off thinking of other guys I know fucking her, and my wife being a total cheating slut.

We even had a few really hot 3sums years ago with this co-worker friend of mine, but it was back in 82 so we were late 20's at the time. My wife has known for YEARSSSSSS! that I get excited thinking of other men we know fucking her, she used to like some of those guys I mentioned back in the day but never really got into it like me.

Sadly, most women are not like us men when it comes to loving sex, being perverted, and at least with me, addicted to that great feeling of cumming. I have gotten to the point where I even get off imagining being a submissive cock sucker. I NEVER! thought of being gay or bi years ago in my teens, 20's 30's those fantasies started in my late 40's, Just so curious about the thought of sucking a guy and enjoying it just like our women enjoy it.

Do you and your wife have any kind of sexual moments together, or nothing? We still fool around a little, like once every couple weeks. My wife will still blow me and I get to eat her, but I mostly get to jack off looking down at her nice well cared for hairy pussy. After we make out and I feel her up, she either blows me, I eat her, or I kneel between her legs and jack off looking at her nice pussy and sexy granny body.

 

[cambsguy]

We are an older couple late 60's, but my wife and I used to really enjoy sex for years. I'd say it was probably around your wife's age early to mid 50's when she started slowing down. It was a combination of her getting that vaginal dryness, and me starting to go soft on her, so we stopped having intercourse. I can still get very hard and cum with my wife but at times I start going soft, I tell my wife talk to talk dirty. If she would mention another guy or play along with my fantasies about another guy fucking her, I'd be so rock-hard. I can only get off thinking of other guys I know fucking her, and my wife being a total cheating slut.

We even had a few really hot 3sums years ago with this co-worker friend of mine, but it was back in 82 so we were late 20's at the time. My wife has known for YEARSSSSSS! that I get excited thinking of other men we know fucking her, she used to like some of those guys I mentioned back in the day but never really got into it like me.

Sadly, most women are not like us men when it comes to loving sex, being perverted, and at least with me, addicted to that great feeling of cumming. I have gotten to the point where I even get off imagining being a submissive cock sucker. I NEVER! thought of being gay or bi years ago in my teens, 20's 30's those fantasies started in my late 40's, Just so curious about the thought of sucking a guy and enjoying it just like our women enjoy it.

Do you and your wife have any kind of sexual moments together, or nothing? We still fool around a little, like once every couple weeks. My wife will still blow me and I get to eat her, but I mostly get to jack off looking down at her nice well cared for hairy pussy. After we make out and I feel her up, she either blows me, I eat her, or I kneel between her legs and jack off looking at her nice pussy and sexy granny body.

very similar to you but wh have evn got out of the act at all. She has back issues and uses a pillow which fomrs a barrier between us. Also i need 30 minutes to take a little blue pill but ti is funny i can wank to porn but not her and i really want to have sex with her but she has been so non-commital for years i guess i have given up

 

[oldgermancuck]

A first wife was a little ******. Lovely and horny. I was looking for a similar emotional woman long after the marriage ended and never found her. So today I have an asexual woman, but at least she challenges me intellectually. But I have my internet with my experiences!

 

[cuck72]

A first wife was a little ******. Lovely and horny. I was looking for a similar emotional woman long after the marriage ended and never found her. So today I have an asexual woman, but at least she challenges me intellectually. But I have my internet with my experiences!

You ever have any gay faggot fantasies? I've been loving thinking of other men fucking my wife and her being a real cum dump ever since we married almost 50 years now. But over the last like 10 years, I've started having faggot cock sucking fantasies too. There are a few guys that I know and used to just think of them fucking my wife like an old *****. But now I can get off thinking of being those guys submissive bitch on my knees sucking their cocks. I even get into the interracial gay porn, OH YES! thinking of being a black man's sissy white bitch boi.

My wife knows I have fantasies about licking up another guys cum from her pussy, I tell her that every time I get to eat her pussy. She says that so sick. But she doesn't know I jack off thinking of being on my knees sucking some of the guys I know. My wife would really be disgusted if she ever knew I jack off watching a couple black thugs fucking a white guys ass and mouth, and think of me being the white guy. I'm not at all a submissive faggot looking guy on the outside, but in private I really get off with being a submissive cuckold or faggot. I think MAN! if the guys and girls I use to work with ever knew about my sub cleanup cuckold cock sucking thoughts.

If you don't get into gay stuff that's ok, I'm just telling you all about my perverted fantasies, and where I'm at sexually.

 

[cambsguy]

You ever have any gay faggot fantasies? I've been loving thinking of other men fucking my wife and her being a real cum dump ever since we married almost 50 years now. But over the last like 10 years, I've started having faggot cock sucking fantasies too. There are a few guys that I know and used to just think of them fucking my wife like an old *****. But now I can get off thinking of being those guys submissive bitch on my knees sucking their cocks. I even get into the interracial gay porn, OH YES! thinking of being a black man's sissy white bitch boi.

My wife knows I have fantasies about licking up another guys cum from her pussy, I tell her that every time I get to eat her pussy. She says that so sick. But she doesn't know I jack off thinking of being on my knees sucking some of the guys I know. My wife would really be disgusted if she ever knew I jack off watching a couple black thugs fucking a white guys ass and mouth, and think of me being the white guy. I'm not at all a submissive faggot looking guy on the outside, but in private I really get off with being a submissive cuckold or faggot. I think MAN! if the guys and girls I use to work with ever knew about my sub cleanup cuckold cock sucking thoughts.

If you don't get into gay stuff that's ok, I'm just telling you all about my perverted fantasies, and where I'm at sexually.

hey everything goes providing its consenual. if people object they need to just free their inherbition

 

[oldgermancuck]

You ever have any gay faggot fantasies? I've been loving thinking of other men fucking my wife and her being a real cum dump ever since we married almost 50 years now. But over the last like 10 years, I've started having faggot cock sucking fantasies too. There are a few guys that I know and used to just think of them fucking my wife like an old *****. But now I can get off thinking of being those guys submissive bitch on my knees sucking their cocks. I even get into the interracial gay porn, OH YES! thinking of being a black man's sissy white bitch boi.

My wife knows I have fantasies about licking up another guys cum from her pussy, I tell her that every time I get to eat her pussy. She says that so sick. But she doesn't know I jack off thinking of being on my knees sucking some of the guys I know. My wife would really be disgusted if she ever knew I jack off watching a couple black thugs fucking a white guys ass and mouth, and think of me being the white guy. I'm not at all a submissive faggot looking guy on the outside, but in private I really get off with being a submissive cuckold or faggot. I think MAN! if the guys and girls I use to work with ever knew about my sub cleanup cuckold cock sucking thoughts.

If you don't get into gay stuff that's ok, I'm just telling you all about my perverted fantasies, and where I'm at sexually.

I would like to say, as an old man, I also have cock sucking fantasies. Nothing would be more exciting to feel "his" semen in my mouth. I dare not say that to my wife. She, who tried after initial marital freedom with 2 friends, but who is now like a nun, would never understand.

 

[oldgermancuck]

It's good to read and corresponds to my experience that millions of men feel the same way: the desire is more than the reality. I should explain a bit more why cuckold is ideal for me (especially in my physical condition): I am married for the second time and my first wife was a well-behaved wife at first. Then we started to make our marriage more attractive. We bought relevant newspapers, there were men looking for women. My wife had become curious and after I brought a friend home several times in the evening, they started to approach when I was on the toilet. But I had mirrors set so that I could see what was going on in the living room through the slight opening of the door. And my friend touched the breasts of MY wife! And she let it happen ! Jesus, porn cinema at our house.
I told my friend that I had seen it. I also told him that he could do anything. And he did. My wife was happy, looking to her face, - very often! And then she started having sex with other friends too, with me, without me. That was a horny time!

And now to what I learned from it: Who once experienced such scenes for real, will never forget them in his whole life and will always look for them again. That is what unites us here.

 

[cuck72]

At least we have our memories and can get excited though our cuckold fantasies. Like those very hot 3sums I mentioned with a co-worker friend of mine, that I will ALWAYS! remember. We hooked up with my friend Ed 5 or 6 times over a few months. I remember this time I left them alone to fuck, I always let my friend Ed have some alone time with my wife feeling it would really excite them with me not being there. This one time I snuck up to the open bedroom door and watch them fucking through a streetlight shining in the window. I'll NEVER! forget my wife moaning and the loud slapping sounds of my friend fucking my wife hard. This friend Ed had these big low hanging balls where mine are smaller and stay tight and don't hang. My wife said, " I love the feel of your big balls slapping against my butt." That was WOW! so exciting to hear her say. I was just very lucky to be there to hear her say that. So, I walked away and let Ed finish up cumming in my wife. Then I joined in and OMG! the feeling of getting his very warm slimy sloppy seconds was something else. He was a lot bigger than me too, so I still remember how loose my wife's pussy felt after he fucked her. I can just imagine how different it felt for my wife too, getting stretched by his bigger cock, it had to feel so different and good for her with her pussy feeling so tight with his bigger fatter cock.

There were other very hot high-light moments that I will never forget from those 3sums. I wished I could have gotten my wife to have more 3sums with other guys I knew and thought about, but she didn't want to do it again, at least not with me around. I wish I had cock sucking thoughts way back then; I would have LOVED! sucking my co-worker Ed's big fat uncut cock.

Are you still able to masturbate to porn and fantasies about cuckolding? You said something about your physical condition. Like I've said before I always jack off thinking of being a cleanup cock sucking faggot cuckold for guys I know. Some are guys I worked with before I retired, some are my sons' friends all mid late 30's, my one neighbors son Mike who's 46. WOW! I'd suck every one of them and love getting off thinking of them fucking my wife's hairy old 67yo granny pussy.

Did you have a hot 3sum then with that friend after you came out of the bathroom?

 

[oldgermancuck]

Hey cuck72; your question: "Are you still able to masturbate to porn and fantasies about cuckolding?"

In the early 70s I was in the situation that is now called cuckolding. I was watching my first wife and witnessed my college boyfriend fondling her tits, kissing her. I could see it through a crack in the door and a mirror. Always I let them enjoy quite a few minutes. These and other images are still in me. And when I read here, when I watch movies, I can enjoy very much, still. I no longer have cream, but highlights still.

 

[Lovasianladies]

Unfortunately, a frequent byproduct of aging is a reduction in sexual availability, drive, desire, prospects, cooperation, etc. Take your pick. In a partnership, it may be you, or your partner. Or both.

I'm not young. My wife is older than me. She has little interest, and what rare sex we have is for my benefit. There comes a point of discomfort and other interests. I've found a reduction in my ability to perform, produce, and to maintain. But it doesn't mean my interest is gone.

Over time, especially as I've grown older, the prospect of sex has diminished, and I've found myself drawn to elements of sexuality that support where I am. If I can't have sex much, chastity seems a good fit. If I can't have sex much, fantasy is what remains, and though neither my wife nor I would stray from our bonds, the thoughts entice. My wife has no interest in female domination, though we've played around the edges a bit. It becomes fantasy.

There is no possibility that my wife will have an affair, nor would she entertain the idea of a sexual encounter or relationship with another man. It's an easy fantasy, safe, as it will never see the light of day. My wife will never have me clean her up after a tryst, as she won't have one, but she's happy to have me do it in the rare occasions we have sex, and those infrequent moments of subservience remain cherished fuel for fantasy.

I wish that I'd discovered the element of sexuality that encompasses FLR, femdom, and who knows, maybe cuckolding too, when I was younger. Would I have accepted it? I don't know. Presently, if I'm not having sex, it's a substitute to pretend that I'm not allowed to have sex, that I'm kept in chastity, and occasionally, she will insist on it, though it doesn't hold her interest much. I "discovered" the elements of sex that touched on female domination, FLR, and hotwifing, cuckolding, etc, not that many years ago, while researching a writing project. It struck a chord, and the more I looked into it, and the more I read, it resonated. At first exciting, even forbidden, it's become the core of my fantasy world, my turn-ons, and the imaginary life I'd lead. But, that's all it is.

I am on the road most of the time, mostly out of the country. At the moment, I'm tied into some events near the Black Sea. My wife is home alone, and I don't mind fantasizing that she's cheating. I like to imagine that her sex drive is strong, that I'm not there to fill her needs, and being a loving and supporting husband, I'm understanding when she strays. I like to imagine that she doesn't care if I'm understanding, that she's strong and independent and while she loves me, she's not going to go without. My fantasy is self-serving; it's a narrative I create to solve my own problems, not hers. She isn't getting sex at home. She isn't interested. I'm not getting sex in the field. When I do get home, it's brief, and sex is rare. My self-serving narrative grants her a libido, and I can pretend that she'd be interested in me, too...even if it were to make a point of cheating, or or insist on chastity, or to punish...the fantasy is that she'd be interested at all, when I know she really isn't. The fantasy is selfish: it's not about her; she doesn't care. It's about me, that she'd actually have an interest enough to care if I were denied, or cuckolded, or bound by a promise or contract. It's about me, really. In my fantasy I matter, I'm important to her. She cares. It's only a fantasy, but at this stage, it's all I've got.

I'll take it.

You have explained my situation perfectly except for the part that you still have sex with your wife. I have not had any sexual relationship with my wife for many years. My fault not hers. I find fantasy is my sexual partner now.

 

[HusbandX]

In the past year, my wife had I don't really have sex. Perhaps once, but Its been long enough that perhaps I just imagined it. The last time we did anything sexual, I had to beg to masturbate and she watched, but only for a while. I couldn't finish and she told me to go away. Once last year, she bent over the bed and had me masturbate on her, then kneel and clean up after myself. That's it. She has no interest in me, or in sex. She's run out of patience in catering to my interest, and while the spirit is willing, as they say, the flesh is apparently weaker than I thought.

I had a medical appointment a few months ago in which the doctor noted that my inability to become erect any more may be associated with a heart condition. He said it's well established that erectile problems tend to foreshadow heart attacks. Perhaps he's right.

The evidence seems clear that whatever the case, I am in decline. Perhaps that's the domain of cuckold thoughts; what might have been an unbearable idea once takes on a new life in fantasy: it's a kind of self-serving justification that says not even my own condition will support a fantasy, so by incorporating my own flailing self as powerless and unable, I imagine that she is powerful and able, and I surrender to my own humiliation in a way that teases and entices, rather than engenders self-pity. If I can't be her stud, maybe I'll be her cuckold. That sort of thing.

Of course, the reality is that at this stage in the game, neither are happening. Not today, not ever.

Fodder for fantasy, and little else. But I have to ask myself, if given the chance, would I?

 

[toolman]

In the past year, my wife had I don't really have sex. Perhaps once, but Its been long enough that perhaps I just imagined it. The last time we did anything sexual, I had to beg to masturbate and she watched, but only for a while. I couldn't finish and she told me to go away. Once last year, she bent over the bed and had me masturbate on her, then kneel and clean up after myself. That's it. She has no interest in me, or in sex. She's run out of patience in catering to my interest, and while the spirit is willing, as they say, the flesh is apparently weaker than I thought.

I had a medical appointment a few months ago in which the doctor noted that my inability to become erect any more may be associated with a heart condition. He said it's well established that erectile problems tend to foreshadow heart attacks. Perhaps he's right.

The evidence seems clear that whatever the case, I am in decline. Perhaps that's the domain of cuckold thoughts; what might have been an unbearable idea once takes on a new life in fantasy: it's a kind of self-serving justification that says not even my own condition will support a fantasy, so by incorporating my own flailing self as powerless and unable, I imagine that she is powerful and able, and I surrender to my own humiliation in a way that teases and entices, rather than engenders self-pity. If I can't be her stud, maybe I'll be her cuckold. That sort of thing.

Of course, the reality is that at this stage in the game, neither are happening. Not today, not ever.

Fodder for fantasy, and little else. But I have to ask myself, if given the chance, would I?

how old is ur wife? is she in good health? has she or you hinted getting a able cocked man to fill her needs?? in ur condition u would praise that shes having sex again, and with luck she may ask that u watch , u might get excited seeing how hot she is fucking and get hard again and cum, even if they tease you ud still love it. GOOD LUCK

 

[toolman]

Hey cuck72; your question: "Are you still able to masturbate to porn and fantasies about cuckolding?"

In the early 70s I was in the situation that is now called cuckolding. I was watching my first wife and witnessed my college boyfriend fondling her tits, kissing her. I could see it through a crack in the door and a mirror. Always I let them enjoy quite a few minutes. These and other images are still in me. And when I read here, when I watch movies, I can enjoy very much, still. I no longer have cream, but highlights still.

do u have a wife now that gets eXtra cock because of ur ED? im curious

 

[toolman]

I am sorry to hear about your operation.
My husband and I have been together over twenty years and I was virgin when I met him. He is not Indian and had been with a few women before we met.
At the start sex was about being close and intimate emotionally. As we have grown older that has changed. We are still very close but don’t need sex to make our relationship ok. We still have lot of sex but it’s about fun and feeling good now. We use toys more, watch porn together and take weekend breaks to hotels to make it exciting. We never used to. My fantasy is being a slut but I don’t know if my husband will like it. I want to have sex with many men as my husband watches.

take a big breath, and tell ur hubby All about ur desires, it might surprize you that he would love 2c how hot and hard you would fuck with a much bigger bare naked cock splitting into ur yearning needy longtime married pussy and blasting his seeds deep up inside you, i bet you would be hooked and want 2b his many times,, "what say you"

 

[Lovasianladies]

In the past year, my wife had I don't really have sex. Perhaps once, but Its been long enough that perhaps I just imagined it. The last time we did anything sexual, I had to beg to masturbate and she watched, but only for a while. I couldn't finish and she told me to go away. Once last year, she bent over the bed and had me masturbate on her, then kneel and clean up after myself. That's it. She has no interest in me, or in sex. She's run out of patience in catering to my interest, and while the spirit is willing, as they say, the flesh is apparently weaker than I thought.

I had a medical appointment a few months ago in which the doctor noted that my inability to become erect any more may be associated with a heart condition. He said it's well established that erectile problems tend to foreshadow heart attacks. Perhaps he's right.

The evidence seems clear that whatever the case, I am in decline. Perhaps that's the domain of cuckold thoughts; what might have been an unbearable idea once takes on a new life in fantasy: it's a kind of self-serving justification that says not even my own condition will support a fantasy, so by incorporating my own flailing self as powerless and unable, I imagine that she is powerful and able, and I surrender to my own humiliation in a way that teases and entices, rather than engenders self-pity. If I can't be her stud, maybe I'll be her cuckold. That sort of thing.

Of course, the reality is that at this stage in the game, neither are happening. Not today, not ever.

Fodder for fantasy, and little else. But I have to ask myself, if given the chance, would I?

Finally someone who puts it in words. Exactly what is going on with my wife and I. She is so completely done with the fact that I am useless to her sexually and I can’t get hard. Thank you for your statement sir

 

[HusbandX]

how old is ur wife? is she in good health? has she or you hinted getting a able cocked man to fill her needs?? in ur condition u would praise that shes having sex again, and with luck she may ask that u watch , u might get excited seeing how hot she is fucking and get hard again and cum, even if they tease you ud still love it. GOOD LUCK

My wife is ten years older than I am, and has no interest in sex outside our marriage. Neither of us socialize, or connect with others; we don't have dinner with others. We don't go to parties. I don't do social media (I don't consider anonymous web boards like this to be social media). I work; that' s my only contact with anyone, and when I'm working, I have minimal contact. I have no interest in socializing, and she has no interest whatsoever with other men or with cheating, or anything extramarital.

We have dogs. Old dogs. Old dogs that sleep in our bed.

I'm fairly certain my wife would be quite content to never have sex again, with me, or anyone else.

 

[surrender]

Many here on this website are young, they are in the process of discovering the world for themselves. In the process, they are learning to understand their emotional world in a new way, and they are coming into contact with reports and knowledge from an infinite number of people. They learn that what their parents have told them has many other possibilities; the parents were never properly prepared to explain anything about sex to their children. Sex is something dirty for quite a few institutions. Parents only want the best for their children.

And when the children then develop feelings, have their first sexual experiences with themselves, then an explosion begins, the effects of which are totally open and can go in any direction. It can be the copy of the marriage of the parents, the way the child saw his parents (and that is only one part of the marriage, the public part), it can become any kind of fetish that excites. Once you have taken a direction, you continue to develop that direction - until the hormonal system says: end.

Unfortunately, the hormonal system develops differently in women than in men; so it happens that women suddenly have no more desire in old age. If, in addition, women's understanding of marriage does not include the satisfaction of the husband, then more or less open fights begin.

My wife, 60+, does not talk about sex. My wife looks brilliant and men often look at her horny. She is very very slim and always dressed very attractively - a lady par excellence. She doesn't care about sex and so she doesn't care about part of me. I was professionally a company manager and now in my old age a nothing. Sex has become something virtual. This has been exacerbated by surgery on my prostate. But my brain is still alive and sexually active and says I want to have a marriage that is not just distributed functional roles.

Do you understand that and how would you deal with it?

That is well written and most of the men on SWs are in the same boat. A lot of women lose their drive, and like men, especially with the same partner over and over. Men get hooked on porn and more extreme porn, and lose their sexual desires IRL. These two things are a harmful marriage cocktail and it spirals down from there. Like most of the men on this site, I am living it with my wife to some extent.

You can try swinging like we have but it made things worse as she was jealous and I was not. Cuckolding, no, as I have self esteem and am not into humiliation. Talk about it with her and lower the amount of porn you watch is a first step. It is hard to do, but that is the best solution I think. Try watching porn with her to get you two going.