Serious or Play?

[Mistress Kassandra]

Hello all,

I have seen the gamut over the years of what people want from this lifestyle, so I ask you all in this poll which you find most appealing.

Here are some definitions:

1 - Wife takes a lover: This means that your wife/partner is actually looking for a full-time lover and not just simply a sex-partner. In some ways (and many a lot of ways) this man would replace you.

2 - Wife looks for a replacement: This means that you encourage your wife to find another man that will ultimately replace you as head of the household.

3 - Wife has sex partners alone: Your wife goes out alone on dates and sleeps with other men, but she views them purely as sexual partner and not as "lovers." In other words, they're just pieces of meat and your real-life relationship is to be impacted as little as possible.

4 - Wife has sex partners while you are there: You are there to watch, be humiliated, possibly participate, etc. while your wife gets taken by Bulls. Again, the Bulls are simply sex partners and not lovers, and your relationship is more important than the lifestyle.

5 - Other: You have some other interest (share what it is via the responses)

 

[marys_pet]

My reality, and also my desire, is primarily number 3 (wife has sex partners alone), although I have on rare occasion been allowed to watch.

 

[Susan's Slave]

My desire would be three, then four, then one. With the added possibility that I would serve both as a loved and controlled servant.

 

[wantherused]

My desire has always been #4. However #3 is what I ended up with. I ought to change my user name to bittersweet.

 

[pcolacuck]

Although my wife and I normally share 3somes, she does have several guys she sees alone.

 

[cuckhuby]

serious play

I like #3 and #4 and i like when the guys call me or email me telling me they fucked my wife and tell me some details of what they did and what she said about me being a poor excuse for a man.

 

[vayoungcuck]

Definitely between 2 and 3. I'm really into the idea of feeling worthless at times

 

[Allen34]

1,3 and maybe 4. I'm sometimes at home when he's with her but not allowed to watch. As far as I know he's the only man she's seeing. Sometimes she stays overnight with him at his house but not as much as it was in the beginning.

 

[Nikki Sunshine]

my wife mainly has sexual relations alone, I have never been present when she ventures out or gets a little somethin somethin on the side. I do have the pleasure to properly cleanse her and savor her lover's deposited leftovers. I do know that she has had sex with many of our common friends.

 

[OneForSure]

Most exciting for me is #4