yakman said:
Her repeated use could be considered, mental conditioning or education
Getting a white woman to desire black cock can be tricky sometimes. I've learned some things that might be helpful to people trying to achieve this:
1) Go slow, or "no go": You really have to go at your wife's pace. Few women will jump at the chance to pleasure black man just because it's your fantasy. But, give them time and the right kind of adjustment, MOST wives will eventually let a black man fuck them.
2) Give her breathing room: Don't pressure her to take black cock. Tell her you're embarrassed about your fantasy (for her to fuck black men), but that you trust she will never betray your trust. Tell her it's only a fantasy and you don't really want her to actually fuck black men, but you like the fantasy of it. By setting that boundary that it will forever remain just a fantasy, you allow her to make it okay and for her to feel like she can participate in the fantasy to make you happy. It doesn't matter that you really want real black cocks ejaculating inside her. Keep that to yourself. Trust me on that one.
3) Normalization: If you can get her to fantasize with you, ****** her to fantasies/porn that involve real women. Women she can relate to. Married women and moms like herself that speak normally and don't appear to be porn stars. Enough ******** in her mind that "women like me fuck black men". It will likely take months and months, but eventually her brain will associate sexual pleasure with black men and she will get the social reassurance that other women do it commonly. Women are very social and need to feel like their peers do it and fucking black men is a good thing, a hip thing to do.
4) Relate to someone real: This is where you go from "a black man fucking you" to "Daryl, the manager at the car repair shop fucking you". Find someone she likes or thinks is handsome or fun and make that real black man the focus of your pillow talk with her. Get her to say his name while you're inside her or while you're fingering her. Get her to ask out loud for his black cock and his black cum. The boundary is still there, so she can feel safe hopefully. She will associate intense sexual pleasure with the idea of him fucking her.
5) Be aware of her menstrual cycle. When women are ovulating, they are quite literally in heat. Masturbate when she's not around enough that you're limp when she's in heat. All the while, finger her and have her talk about fucking Daryl. She will be sexually frustrated and feel disappointed that you can't get it up, but by now, really fucking Daryl will be appealing to her.
6) Do what you can to let the real Daryl know she has a crush on him. It's best if you don't make a conspiracy behind her back, because if she catches you at that, big trouble. But, if Daryl can somehow know it's okay to flirt with her and that she does have a crush on him, then all you have to do is get him alone with her while she's in heat and you're limp. By now, she does want his dick, especially while she's ovulating.
7) If you're talking to Daryl, find out what size condom he needs, unless your wife is on the pill. This sex will be unplanned in her mind, but you and Daryl will both know the outcome. Worst case, he can pull out, but stress that you don't really want him making babies inside your wife. However, if you've gotten this far, you're not about to walk away because he hates condoms. Really, your wife's first black dick should be bare anyway.
I'm not saying these exact steps will work exactly as planned here, but for most women a gradual process of conditioning will make them desire black cock. And AFTER that's the case, she will want it to happen almost as much as you (and Daryl) do too.