This is a real life situation. About 5 yrs ago I began an affair with a local professional man. Hes blk and I knew going in that he was seeing others. After about a year, the relationship hadd been transformed into a D/s relationship, at least in private. By then I knew he had similar relationships with two other married wht women. Before year 3, I had decided to make a full committment and become owned. There was a formal ceremony including his two others, his brother and my husband. My husband was allowed to stay married proviced he got a vasectomy. Currently, the three of us are all committed to him and allthree of our husbands have elected to stay married to us. I have since had two of his children and am pregnant with the third. The three of us have 7 and two of us are now pregnamt. Our husbands continue to provide the majority of support. His brother has developed a similar extended family situation. In spite of how this sounds we are all conservative and very discrete. I'm wondering how common or unique this situation is? Kathi