Questions and comments about various factors and elements in "Cuckhold / Hotwife"

[cuckoldinpanties]

According to my wife, a there is two kinds of bisexual women, one likes women, but prefers men, (she is one of these) and the kind that likes men but prefers women...then there are lesbians...she has had relationships with all, but prefers the first kind, like herself.

My wife would STRONGLY dissgree as she is TRULY bi. She likes men and women equally and if I passed it would be a coin toss or just whoever she met first, that would decide who is her next SO.

She might be flirting with more men on here than women, but that's just because the men here seem to be more active on this site. Throw her on a more fem dominated site and it flips.

The ONLY reason her numbers of women shes partied with more than men is she had jealousy issues with me and women so she felt she wasn't "being fair" if she played with men. Now that she no longer has that worry, the numbers stay pretty equal as they rise.

 

[chris]

it was for you but I guess is does not matter - they are 'our' general guidlelines - Take em or leave em.

x cris

 

[JulieIsMe]

it was for you but I guess is does not matter - they are 'our' general guidlelines - Take em or leave em.

x cris

Since I'm not involved in this lifestyle ( which you would have realized if you'd read my thread-starter posting ) I'll "LEAVE 'EM" thanks.

 

[JulieIsMe]

,,,,,,, I'm not here to get-off over communications concerning these.......or to get anyone else off with my responses either.
Smooches atcha all ! <<<<<<< I have to wonder why you ended your post this way combined with your face pic on your profile [/QUOTE]


I ended my post in that way ( and posted a pic of myself in my profile ) because I was trying to show everyone that I wasn't hostile toward them before I started doing a lot of questioning. Why do you ask?

 

[cuckoldinpanties]

,,,,,,, I'm not here to get-off over communications concerning these.......or to get anyone else off with my responses either.
Smooches atcha all ! <<<<<<< I have to wonder why you ended your post this way combined with your face pic on your profile

I ended my post in that way ( and posted a pic of myself in my profile ) because I was trying to show everyone that I wasn't hostile toward them before I started doing a lot of questioning. Why do you ask?[/QUOTE]


Because from your many of your posts really seem kind of "hostile" towards the lifestyle. In fact, after reading a few, my wife IMed me wondering if you were writing a book/paper or if your parents left a bitter taste in your mouth over the lifestyle (like mom left dad). I personally hadn't read your posts, but once I did, I thought "why is she here then?"

You have said several times that you have ZERO interest in being in this lifestyle. So, why are you here? If you want to understand your parents life, ask THEM. I'm not into computer games, so I don't spend time on computer game websites. Makes me question what your TRUE motives are.

 

[JulieIsMe]

Hmmm..the big attraction...she has known him longert than she has been with me, she says she loves him, (would never marry him however) but still is wants to be with him.

Well, that doesn't sound right at all. IF she's really holding that view, then I'd say she's got you on the hook for some reason apart from love ( probably financial ! ) and she still holds a torch for him. Dump her!


..we have talked about his "offer" and while it was sincere, it was only an offer to pay for the divorce should she really want to leave me for him, which she did not. he understands that, and did not attempt to disuade her from choosing to stay with me.

According to my wife, a there is two kinds of bisexual women, one likes women, but prefers men, (she is one of these) and the kind that likes men but prefers women...then there are lesbians...she has had relationships with all, but prefers the first kind, like herself.

Anyone who prefers men, but likes women or vice versa isn't clearly bisexual in my view. If they can really enjoy sex with both genders and could form relationships with either, then they're clearly bisexual. Otherwise they're just experimenting. Lesbians, on the other hand, don't like or want men in any respect and have some very.........hardcore beliefs and personality traits.


The relationship she had with the lesbian was a strange one anyways, with a lot of emotion from the very start. They exchanged "I love you's" after the first couple of nights together. I tried to warn her that that one was getting too close to crossing the line, but she didnt want to hear it, claiming that she could "handle it". It did come down to a choice between three lovers for my wife, althought I think her female lover just wanted to "get her bid in" just in case...
That certainly "adds up" ! I have had bisexual relationships with two bisexual girl friends, but I'd steer completely clear of lesbians - totally clear!

As to who started all this...
She did.
When we met, she was into the swinger scene pretty heavy, having been recently divorced from her first husband (whom she cuckolded).
We dated, and actually attended a few house parties together, until she started to go to them with another guy. I knew that she was doing so, and accepted it as part of the deal. She told me that she never would be a "one man woman" and that was fine with me.
Not that we have no or limited sex life ourselves, we actually do really well. She tells me that I am the one guy she has been with that will always "ring the bell" for her, but she does like her variety.
The one thing her other lovers do for her is give her gifts, take her on trips, and spoil her in material things, which is fine with me, while I am not poor by any means, she does have expensive tastes...the new Cadillac XLR in the driveway was paid for by her lover.
I'd like to see her - and see whom someone was willing to pay for a new luxury automobile for! That, by the way, also smacks of ************. "Gifts" from people who are having sex with her ( because I don't see how "love" has anything at all to do with her activities at all ). That's a ******'s routine.



We have never been "bored" in our relationship, we each have the freedom to follow our passions. SHe has her lovers, I have my golf game and fishing.
STD's have not been a factor as she is "selective" about her partners, and if there is a question, (like her acting as hostess at business meetings) there is always condoms used.
Acting as a hostess at business meetings??!! What sort of "business meetings" involve sexual escapades between those attending?

She and I dont go for the humiliation thing, I don't take part/watch ( I have seen a video taken and listened on the phone) and she has taken a few of her lovers to task for insulting me...I am her husband after all.

Wow, this has got to be the absolute weirdest recounting of a cuckhold/hotwife relationship that I've ever come across.

 

[cuckoldinpanties]

As far as strange, I would like to know how you consider it any more off beat than any of the other ones on here...it works for us, she is happy, I am happy, I have a great sex life, a great family, and a great wife, who just happens to have several lovers besides me...

Grinch, don't sweat someone who isnt even in the life that trolls around on the site. As soon as it gets boring for "her" insulting all of us with the snide little remarks "she" will be off (like panties at a Wayne Newton concert).

 

[JulieIsMe]

Grinch, don't sweat someone who isnt even in the life that trolls around on the site. As soon as it gets boring for "her" insulting all of us with the snide little remarks "she" will be off (like panties at a Wayne Newton concert).

Sorry you feel like that. However, expressing myself honesly is something I like to make a habit of. That is; I feel the people I am communicating with deserve straightness not beating-around-the-bush.
Of course, for those who exist in perpetual fantasy and who may be at this site trying to live that out through postings, I suppose my comments and questions could become very annoying. I've noticed that in several cases now ( just in the very few threads I've been following ) that the content of the comments don't "add up" logically. What I mean its, that contradictory statements are made even in the same post! There could be a good reason for this since we can only say so much and all the details can't be gone into due to the time it would take to mention them. On the other hand, it could also easily indicate that the some of the people here are not really in the relationships they say they're in, and all of their scenarios and the people within them exist nowhere else except inside their imaginations....and so they're relating fantasy elements that only loosely connect rather than real-life elements which would flow together seamlessly.

 

[cuckoldinpanties]

I would agree that many "don't add up" and it makes you wonder if things are true or not. I think that there are MANY wannabees on this and most cuckold sites. Femdom is a big fantasy for many. Speaking of ,,,, on the "Real person" post,,, you tell lost that you wont put up a pic because you are in the public and such and do not want it possably used against you later, even though it does not have to show your face. Yet, on your profile is a rather clear pic of your face that can easilly be saved in a screen shot.,,,,,,,,,,,,,, so, once again,,,,,,,, I would agree that many "don't add up" and it makes you wonder if things are true or not.


PS Grinch,,,,,,,, I'll give you more greif over being a golfer in the first place, than how you got the clubs

 

[SoonToBe]

Julie - if you check here, I've posted most, if not all, of the events my wife and I have gone through in the past year plus....

It's been quite an adventure for us. Not sure if I can off you any info or advice, but feel free to ask away either here or privately via PM if you'd rather.

I'd add that our experience is a bit different than most of what else you see posted here.

 

[marys_pet]

Sorry you feel like that. However, expressing myself honesly is something I like to make a habit of. That is; I feel the people I am communicating with deserve straightness not beating-around-the-bush.
Of course, for those who exist in perpetual fantasy and who may be at this site trying to live that out through postings, I suppose my comments and questions could become very annoying. I've noticed that in several cases now ( just in the very few threads I've been following ) that the content of the comments don't "add up" logically. What I mean its, that contradictory statements are made even in the same post! There could be a good reason for this since we can only say so much and all the details can't be gone into due to the time it would take to mention them. On the other hand, it could also easily indicate that the some of the people here are not really in the relationships they say they're in, and all of their scenarios and the people within them exist nowhere else except inside their imaginations....and so they're relating fantasy elements that only loosely connect rather than real-life elements which would flow together seamlessly.

I'm inclined to agree with cuckoldinpanties. Your comments and questions seem overly hostile to those involved in this lifestyle, and I have to wonder why you are really here.

It clearly isn't because you have any interest in practicing it yourself, to which I say, your loss.

 

[JulieIsMe]

I'm inclined to agree with cuckoldinpanties. Your comments and questions seem overly hostile to those involved in this lifestyle, and I have to wonder why you are really here.

It clearly isn't because you have any interest in practicing it yourself, to which I say, your loss.

Well, I've stated several times that I had no interest at all in practicing this lifestyle even if I happened to be married. As for my questions and comments "seeming" hostile, I can't help how people read things that I type. I'm not here to fight with anyone or make them feel bad either. But I can see how there might be many fragile egos out there - especially the fantasy-driven ones who dream of this kind of activity as a lifestyle, but who aren't involved in it or even married in reality!

 

[JulieIsMe]

I would agree that many "don't add up" and it makes you wonder if things are true or not. I think that there are MANY wannabees on this and most cuckold sites. Femdom is a big fantasy for many. Speaking of ,,,, on the "Real person" post,,, you tell lost that you wont put up a pic because you are in the public and such and do not want it possably used against you later, even though it does not have to show your face. Yet, on your profile is a rather clear pic of your face that can easilly be saved in a screen shot.,,,,,,,,,,,,,, so, once again,,,,,,,, I would agree that many "don't add up" and it makes you wonder if things are true or not.


PS Grinch,,,,,,,, I'll give you more greif over being a golfer in the first place, than how you got the clubs

I didn't say I wouldn't put up a picture, I said I was reluctant to do so because of just what you say here - that it may find its way elsewhere at some time in the future. And I've been considering holding a sign and allowing my just my eyes and the top of my head to show behind it. As for my profile pic, its just a pic. It doesn't advertise anything or any site or any lifestyle choices, and it can't be mistaken for anything of the sort, so what is your point? You'll notice I'm fully clothed and appear in a less-than-private setting in that shot. So, I'm not hiding anything. Holding up signs is another story. Whether my face or the entire shot on my profile can be "saved" or not, doesn't matter because if a plain old image is pirated somehow, then who cares? I don't. Its not incriminating. So I guess I don't see where you're going, but I do see that you're feathers are ruffled because of my posts. Too bad, so sad. But that's life I guess.

 

[cuckoldinpanties]

Really? This screen shot (I blanked out your face for you) says every bit as much as any other pic.

ANYONE can photoshop you holding a sign just as well. Look around this site, LOTS of pics are shopped, some good, some bad.


I call BS "So I guess I don't see where you're going, but I do see that you're feathers are ruffled because of my posts. Too bad, so sad. But that's life I guess." ...................Nah, I see you as the fake you are. Maybe because a pic not holding anything can be stolen from ANYWHERE and thats why the other part asks for a little more "proof". I can put the pic on your profile on my profile and say that is me,,,, MUCH harder to do with a sign holding pic.

 

[slinky67]

well i agree with JulieIsMe as far as pics go...i have put my girls open pussy shots on some contact sites...and in the private gallery her face pics...the reality is...it is her in the pic with her pussy wide open...but our argument would be that how can you prove its her...even if a friend saw them and placed them on the net...we would argue they just found some porn pics and took her face pics off facebook etc. where as a porn pic with her face showing is much harder to argue about.

 

[cuckoldinpanties]

well i agree with JulieIsMe as far as pics go...i have put my girls open pussy shots on some contact sites...and in the private gallery her face pics...the reality is...it is her in the pic with her pussy wide open...but our argument would be that how can you prove its her...even if a friend saw them and placed them on the net...we would argue they just found some porn pics and took her face pics off facebook etc. where as a porn pic with her face showing is much harder to argue about.

Here is a REAL easy solution to this. IM one of the moderators, ask that instead of the pic saying "cuckolds.com" have it be a pic that says something like "hi, _______". That way, she proved she is claiming to be, it is NOT porn site related, and best of all,,,,,,, drum role please,,,,,,, it tells any doubters (me included) to STFU. Until I see something that the gal in that profile pic is actually the writer (I've just seen too many fakes over the years), I'm writting it off as complete bullshit and someone here for a different reason. Hell, post one that says "stfu Mike",,,,,,, and I will

Even a blind man can figure out that "something isn't right". She's not into the lifestyle,,, never wants to be in the lifestyle,,, thinks most here are fakers and has said so,,,,,, then one might ask,,,,, why does "she" come to this site DAILY to post????????

She gave some bs thing about her parents being n it and wants to understand. First,,,, ask your parents THEIR reasons to find out THEIR reasons. Second, if you were REALLY here to understand, why ask a bunch of people that "SHE" believes are all fakes? Seems you wouldn't get the real answers that way. Then the ones that are not fakes, she insults (called Grinches wife a ******). Open your eyes people.

 

[marys_pet]

Even a blind man can figure out that "something isn't right". She's not into the lifestyle,,, never wants to be in the lifestyle,,, thinks most here are fakers and has said so,,,,,, then one might ask,,,,, why does "she" come to this site DAILY to post????????

She gave some bs thing about her parents being n it and wants to understand. First,,,, ask your parents THEIR reasons to find out THEIR reasons. Second, if you were REALLY here to understand, why ask a bunch of people that "SHE" believes are all fakes? Seems you wouldn't get the real answers that way. Then the ones that are not fakes, she insults (called Grinches wife a ******). Open your eyes people.

Bingo!!