Questions About Interracial Open Marriage

[Gracyd]

we are a white couple, I'm 23 husband is 24. We have been married for three years and together seven years. A year ago we bought a house and when we were moving in we found boxes in the attic that were full of porn, pictures, videos cards, dvds, and everything else you could imagine. Looking at the pictures many were taken in our house. We started watching the videos and realized they were made in our house too. They were all of different women and three different black men. We couldn't stop watching the videos and they became a big part of our sex lives. About a month ago my husband brought up the subject of me seeing black men. At first I thought he was just kidding but after talking about it more I knew he was being serious. I told him I would think about it but inside I was so excited about it. Now it's all he talks about. I work as a waitress at a steak house restaurant on my husbands nights off he comes in and has dinner with me and then hangs out at the bar to watch sports and have some beers. There is a middle age black gentleman named Bill that comes in three or four times a week and sits with my husband when he's there. Two weeks ago my husband told me that Bill was interested in me.

Question
How does this work, and is this something that is more common than I think? We have no clue what we are doing!
Thanks
Gracelyn

 

[Knk069]

Good luck Gracelyn. It sounds like you are headed for bed with Bill. Try a little flirting with him in front of your husband to test whether he is serous about it. I think you can take it from there. Your are beautiful and you will have no problem finding men interested in getting with you.

 

[Gracyd]

Good luck Gracelyn. It sounds like you are headed for bed with Bill. Try a little flirting with him in front of your husband to test whether he is serous about it. I think you can take it from there. Your are beautiful and you will have no problem finding men interested in getting with you.

Thank you so much for the wonderful comments

 

[abvt75]

Grace,

I would say firstly, thank you for seeking an advice before moving ahead with this journey. It is a good sign that you are open to various perspectives. I would recommend caution for you and your husband to move forward with Bill. Take small steps before with Bill to see if it is going to make sense for you... At the end of the day you have to be sexually fulfilled and attracted to Bill who is going to make love to you or fuck you hard.

You can start with a quick coffee meeting or going for lunch or grabbing a movie may be.. see how you feel .... See how you feel talking to him. I would even advice to speak to a variety of Inter racial men to see who you feel more attracted and connected too.

If you want to ask more questions , feel free to message me

Ron

 

[zippless]

Gracelyn

I work as a waitress at a steak house restaurant on my husbands nights off he comes in and has dinner with me and then hangs out at the bar to watch sports and have some beers. There is a middle age black gentleman named Bill that comes in three or four times a week and sits with my husband when he's there. Two weeks ago my husband told me that Bill was interested in me.

Seriously! I think your husband has some explaining to do. He is not telling you the hole story or you left some parts out. I can understand your confusion. If the middle aged black guy knows you are husband and wife, I don't see him saying to your husband " buddy I'd like to fuck your wife" or anything close to that.

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How does this work, and is this something that is more common than we think

What's your gut telling you on this. The answer is no. Cuckolding is not common and especially not interracial.

We have no clue what we are doing!
Thank
Gracelyn

I think you both need to go into this with your eyes wide open. Honesty on both parts is the only policy otherwise you risk jeopardising your marriage. Baby steps. Don't be pushed into anything you may regret.​

 

[2wheel]

This lifestyle is a team sport.

You both need to talk, honestly, open and truthful, and make sure you're on the same page. If you are, then set rules so your both working from the same playbook. The hardest part will be to keep to the rules when things heat up.

 

[Julie0778]

I'm not sure what the problem is here. Obviously, you are dying to sleep with a black man and your husband want that as much or more than you. You have an experienced black man attracted to you, so invite him over and relax with some wine. If this leads you two to the bedroom, then enjoy it. Do discuss the use or non-use of condoms. If your new friend really, really wants to cum inside you, are you going to be okay with that? If YOU really want him to cum inside you, but he prefers otherwise, would you be disappointed?

Nobody wants the potential special evening to be filled with doubts or regrets. You can avoid that by making expectations clear from the start. Discuss the details before the first garment is removed.

The first time you are "blacked" should be a night you will always remember. From what you've said, I think you know him well enough to take his cum (and, if you don't, get to know him better before you sleep with him). I think it's a moment in time you will relive a thousand times going forward, so make an amazing memory for all three of you. And, think about taking video of the special moment, for just you two. I'm sure your husband won't mind that job! Good luck and enjoy!

 

[Hedoesntknow]

we are a white couple, I'm 23 husband is 24. We have been married for three years and together seven years. A year ago we bought a house and when we were moving in we found boxes in the attic that were full of porn, pictures, videos cards, dvds, and everything else you could imagine. Looking at the pictures many were taken in our house. We started watching the videos and realized they were made in our house too. They were all of different women and three different black men. We couldn't stop watching the videos and they became a big part of our sex lives. About a month ago my husband brought up the subject of me seeing black men. At first I thought he was just kidding but after talking about it more I knew he was being serious. I told him I would think about it but inside I was so excited about it. Now it's all he talks about. I work as a waitress at a steak house restaurant on my husbands nights off he comes in and has dinner with me and then hangs out at the bar to watch sports and have some beers. There is a middle age black gentleman named Bill that comes in three or four times a week and sits with my husband when he's there. Two weeks ago my husband told me that Bill was interested in me.

Question
How does this work, and is this something that is more common than I think? We have no clue what we are doing!
Thanks
Gracelyn

So you want o continue the house tradition f going black