Hi Ms. Maria from Croatia,
Thank you for posting your interesting story, and welcome to the forum!
MariaCroatia said:
I discovered that my husband had several girlfriends.
Oh oh...
Your situation seems slightly out of the ordinary. Usually married men post in this forum about their wives having sex with other men (sometimes many other men), and often they like it. Sometimes married women post because they want to have sex with other men and persuade their husband's to accept that, so they seek advice from other men in this forum on how to accomplish that.
MariaCroatia said:
When I told him, he never apologized but said that I deserved it, etc...
That was not gentlemanly of your husband at all. Definitely not good form...
MariaCroatia said:
So I escaped my country (Croatia) for France, and I started to go [out with] with other men.
Congratulations for your successful getaway! And good for you...
MariaCroatia said:
I discovered a site [where they] shoot porn scenes for ladies like me who want to send the link to their husbands / boyfriends. I made a scene with 2 black guys (my secret dream).
Excellent! You're an assertive woman determined to not let your husband take advantage of you (that's good!), and it sounds like you have a strong and healthy sex drive...
MariaCroatia said:
I sent him the link, and also to his friends, his familly, etc. As he is racist, he was twice angry: first from jealousy and also because they were black men.
Well, it sounds like you got even with your husband, all right. It also sounds like you had better not go home again, because that would be very dangerous for you...
MariaCroatia said:
Now, if I can continue to humiliate him publically, I will!
Although you're determined to humiliate your husband more and more, I would say you've already done that.
I too suggest, like Mac, that it's time now to move on and think about how to make a new life for yourself in France, or in some other country where you think you might be able to do that.
MariaCroatia said:
There are few websites about that [i.e., where married women can "get even" with their philandering husbands] in Europe. I'm wondering if there are any in the US? Thank you for your help —Maria.
Hm... well... there are U.S.-based websites for everything, I suppose. One possibility would be this one. You could post written descriptions of your sexual adventures with other men along with photos, and there would be no need to move to the U.S. You could do it from wherever you are — France, for example.
Good luck with your new life and times!
—Custer