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Elysiana said:
Elysiana .. I'm sorry that I'm really not entirely able to follow your expressions here. It would seem you are writing to impress yourself or others. If you'd like to discuss a concept or are having difficulty coming to terms with a lifestyle decision of others, please re-phrase in more common English.
All I really took away was the repeated use of "emasculation" and the repeated use of "addiction".
On those two subjects ..
The physical act of emasculation, and not necessarily the literal definition of removing the testicles and penis but a physical act that alludes to the literal definition, I have found practiced in more cuckold situations than not. In my experiences, this is performed most often during the wife's, or girlfriend's, cycle. Because the female in question can still cause the male "bull" to ejaculate through oral sex during this time period, the desire of the female to please the alpha male is not completely removed from the situation. However, I have found that either the bull or the cuckold expresses a desire to achieve sexual climax through penetration. Therefore, during a female's cycle in a cuckold situation, anal sex between the two males is prevalent. With the cuckold receiving the sperm from the bull's ejaculating penis inside his body cavity, this is as close as I can give you in the term "emasculation" that you speak of.
Also, I have found this act to be the least of the homosexual acts in this lifestyle. Homosexual males in committed relationships very rarely have anal sex. Oral sex is the primary physical act of homosexual love. In that same vein and in second place, the act of swallowing the sperm of the bull retrieved from the vagina of the wife can be construed as having homosexual tendencies. So, herein lies a significant difference in what I read here and what I hear in my practice. Very rarely is anal sex between the two males discussed in these (and other) forums.
*I will note that anal sex between the two males is part of a prescription that I have created for cuckold situations to give them the best chance at success. This is just one act among many. The regimen is meant to induce not only a form of balance among three people but also to maintain intimacy between the husband and wife that has been lost due to the cuckolding.
You use the term "self-emasculation" and I don't quite know what to make of that. The term is a an oxymoron as far as I am concerned. Unless you are talking about some guy taking a pocket knife to himself and taking a whack at cutting his pee-pee off. That would be a new one. Emasculation is performed by another individual. In this case, psychologically, it is the bull who performs this with a supporting actress role being played by the wife. Even when the cuckold requests this, there are still two people who actually have to perform "the emasculation" so I'm missing you entirely on the term "self-emasculation".
Now, for the term "addiction" .. I miss you entirely there, as well.
Cuckolding would seem to be far, far away from "addiction" as the physical act of having sex is not primary to the cuckold's experience. Here in Ohio, Ohio State conducted a recent study and dispelled the myth that males think about sex every seven seconds. In their study, they found the average to be about 19 times a day. I consider these studies to be lunacy .. (how do you honestly track the frequency of one's thoughts? There's so many levels that consciousness exists on. On what level are you tracking this and by expressing that you thought about it .. isn't that two times you thought about it? .. I mean this goes on and on and these kind of studies generally drive me crazy) .. but whatever the number is, we can all agree males incessantly think about sex.
So, for your term "addiction" .. I miss your entire drift there. Physically, the act of being denied his wife's vagina is intrinsic to the cuckold experience. Psychologically, it would be difficult to saturate the male brain with more thoughts about sex than he already has.
Now, if you are talking about "trans-fixation" on the subject matter or the predilection of one particular type of sexual thought, that is something else entirely. It is not "addiction" in the clinical sense.
Doc
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