I am a closeted cocksucker, my wife has no idea. I only play with married men.
My preferred methods of meeting are, in no special order:
- Web sites that are not apps.
Squirt, Sniffies, or Adam4Adam are great for finding partners.
- Hotels - Visiting
I offer "room service" to visitors on business. This was MUCH easier when I lived downtown in a major US city. I come to your room, remove my clothes, suck you, swallow your load, say thank you, dress, and leave.
- Hotels - Hosting
When I travel on business I use Sniffies to "travel" to the city I'm going to and find where guys cluster. Pick a hotel near there. Use A4A, Squirt, or Sniffies to find married guys to come to my room.
I leave the door unlocked with the bolt open when they tell me they're at the hotel. I am nude, on my knees, with just enough light to let him see where he's going. He will either stand while I kneel or he'll sit and I'll get between his legs. He cums, I swallow, say thank you, he leaves.
- XXX stores
With gloryholes or without. Must have booths, or a theater. I'll suck in front of others, so as long as everybody knows what's going down, I'm good.
- His Place
Make sure they don't have Ring or cameras the wife could check, park down the block.
- Parks
Risky as fuck, not a huge fan of this but I ALWAYS score when I go to the local game reserve. I don't do this unless I'm over the top horny.
- Parties
Adam4Adam lists them. Some guy in town throws an orgy once a week. If I can get out of work and I'm not feeling like a terrible person, I go.
- Understall
Harder and harder to find places that work and are safe. Macy's in every city is usually good but security totally understands this. Squirt is great for finding places.