I think my wife's biggest fear would be that she'll become something that she has always seen as being socially and morally unacceptable. It's going to take time to break down the barriers in her mind put up by a prejudiced and conservative world. What I know of her is this - she wont have her mind changed about something so fundamental - she has to discover the truth herself and then accept it as a change in her thinking. She's a leo, what can I say.
She's made major strides in this regard during the course of our marriage though, she used to wear only Salwas covering her whole body now she wears thigh high skirts and dresses, always figure hugging and close fitted clothes along with pretty mid-heeled shoes. She loves attention from guys now and is growing in confidence sexually. She allows her self to fantasies about taboos like cuckolding and shares them with me -It's such a privilege to see a women blossom like that.