Other men who have fucked my wife.

[docil4all]

very interesting subject.

Several cases for my couple:

a) family members. As my wife fucked sevral men in my family (starting with my brother) and as my situation of cuckold is well known within the family sevral family members know that they were among the several lucky ones. One cousin and his father (one uncle of me) have even once spent several days at the country side witgh my brother and all the three fucked my wife whenever they wished;

b) students of the Uni. My wife had fucked several of them when I dated her. She was known as an easy going girl and I was known as having no prblem with sharing her. They simply continue when coming home. We sometime invite several of them.

c) others. This is less obvious, except if some wish to humiliate me really

 

[Son of John]

I am fascinated by the fact that many of the men who answered this question state that they have friends who have fucked their wives, but that they have never discussed it with them. To my way of thinking, it would be very hard to act normal around another guy if I knew he had fucked my wife, but we had never talked about it. It would probably be resounding in my head "He Fucked My wife!" over and over.

I have always believed it could be the basis of a friendship for two men who had fucked the same woman, even if she was the wife of one of them. In my own case, I definitely do feel closer to the men who fucked my wife. We are always glad to stop and chat for a while when we meet-up. To have shared pussy with another guy, no matter what the circumstances, has to be one of the most male-bonding experiences anywhere!

 

[docil4all]

It's because you are a kind man, meeting kind lovers of your wife in a mutual benefit relationship.
Do you really believe it is often the case for husbands (likeme), who are humiliated and stay with their wife in a strange love-hate relation, were the humiliation becomes progressively what is keeping them together ?
In that case, the men that fuck your wife and who are willingly humiliating you aren't really friends anymore. Well, some are (my best friend ever fucks regularly my wife, but he never humiliates me, and when I clean a creampie of his cum, he simply says gently, "take it easy, I see that you enjoy, but there is more to come ..."

 

[Son of John]

docil4all, your point is well made! Yes, there are guys who will fuck your wife and want you to hurt because of it. I learned that during my first marriage, when other guys tried to embarrass me in front of other men by making comments about what a "piece" she was.

But those days are well behind me. Now, all my "fellow fuckers" are guys that I actually like, and with whom I have something in common, even beyond the fact that we have fucked the same woman. Even when we meet-up out in "normal" society, and even if we do not talk about the fact that they have fucked my wife, we still have a sort of rapport that others would not understand.

I do not understand those men who would fuck a married woman, then try to humiliate her husband because of it. In my opinion, fucking should always be a positive experience for everyone involved and no one should be out to hurt anyone else.

 

[jbrowning]

that fits us pretty to a tee most a good friends and are cool with me.an asshole wouldn't last 30 seconds.my boss is fucking my wife a few times a week we joke and talk about it when no one is around telling me what he did to her we trade off tricks we have learned that works with her ect...other guys we let in will not say a word outside of us my wife is a sunday school teacher in a very small town we keep descreet.if she likes you and keep quiet chances are you could fuck her when ever you wanted.

 

[docil4all]

son of john and browning

in what a nice world you live! But in that case, where is the humiliation ? I wouldn't call you cucks, but swingers, even if it is only a partial swing in the sense that you don't really swap the wifes...

You remember of a paradisiac community where all is in common and all tastes accepted. No fristration, no boundaries, but may-be not so much excitation and novelties either ... Some "Sturm und Drang" (or "Rock" depending on the tatses) might be necessary sometimes

 

[jbrowning]

cucking is not about domination.in that descripition in the encyclopedia is a man with a unfaithful wife were prob hat you would called withro or knowing.the sub and dom creampie chasity is all fetishes added on to basic cuck play.we have no desire in any of that.we have fun outside the realm of a normal married coulpe i really love watching her get used and she loves all the attention and extra guys.were more mainline swingers but she plays wayyy more than i do but shes a good little wifey and vids most of it

 

[docil4all]

jbrowning,

it is clear that your situation greatly differs from mine !

 

[Son of John]

Docil, you are right that many of us do not qualify as "Cuckolds". A better term would be "Wife-Sharers". We are not being hurt and our wives are not doing anything behind our backs. We are simply cooperating with her need for other cocks.

We have been in situations with several different men in which we meet, usually at a motel, and my wife undresses and the other man enjoys her naked body, culminating in him fucking her while I watch. There is no humiliation nor any pain for anyone. We are all enjoying a very friendly session in which he fucks my wife while I watch. Everyone gets what they need. My wife gets fucked by another man! The other man gets some married pussy! And I get the extreme excitement of watching another cock slamming into "my" pussy! What could be better?

 

[sptbj2]

Docil, you are right that many of us do not qualify as "Cuckolds". A better term would be "Wife-Sharers". We are not being hurt and our wives are not doing anything behind our backs. We are simply cooperating with her need for other cocks.

We have been in situations with several different men in which we meet, usually at a motel, and my wife undresses and the other man enjoys her naked body, culminating in him fucking her while I watch. There is no humiliation nor any pain for anyone. We are all enjoying a very friendly session in which he fucks my wife while I watch. Everyone gets what they need. My wife gets fucked by another man! The other man gets some married pussy! And I get the extreme excitement of watching another cock slamming into "my" pussy! What could be better?

Wow! Well said Son of John. Sounds like what my wife and I need!

 

[docil4all]

son of John,

"cuck", "wife sharer", "humiliated", "participating", etc.

Let's try my definitions:

- a cuck is a man, whose wife is easy going with other men, without any cheating, but openly; that man accepts that situation; this situation is more or less known by some other persons than the couple (notably the bull).

He is not a wife-sharer, in the sense that he hasn't access to others'wifes in reward of his acceptation of the availability of his wife to others.

- there are different categories of cucks, depending of the behaviour of the wife (has she one single extra-lover over the time, or many; does she still make love to the cuck ? Does she humilates him or not), on his own behaviour (where does he take the pleasure from ? watching ? masturbation ? sloppy seconds ? creampies ? humiliation ? / what is relation with lovers: firendly, submissive, secret, etc.), and on the involvement of third persons (discreet, humiliating, taking advantage of, etc.)

 

[Son of John]

Docil, thanks for the input. To my way of thinking, a "wife-sharer" is a husband who lets other men fuck his wife, but does not fuck the other men's wives. The term for activity in which both husbands fuck the others wife is "Wife-swapping".

I have only been in a wife-swapping situation once, and it was okay, since the other husband was fucking my wife right beside me on the bed while I fucked his. But, I much prefer a situation in which my wife is the only pussy in the room, for however many cocks there may be.

As for how other men may be involved, this is open for argument too. If a guy fucks my wife and I know nothing about it, even if other do, then I am a true cuckold. But if I give permission for him to fuck her, and maybe even participate in making it happen, possibly being there to urge him on as he fucks her, then that makes me a wife-sharer.

There may be guys who would want to embarrass me, or make me unconfortable in some way because they were fucking my wife, but I have not had much experience there.

I have tried to understand the position of the "other" man, but it is hard for me to do. I would never want to fuck a married woman and do harm to the husbands feeling of self-worth. But, I realize there are many, many men out there who want, more than anything, to get some married pussy! There is just something about getting some of another poor bastard's pussy that drives many men. And, yes, there are guys out there who would love to cause us husbands untold suffering and grief because they are fucking our wives. I do not understand them, but I know they are there.

 

[Paulinedonald42]

Men who have fucked my wife

Yes, my wife was married twice before me and I have talked with both of her ex-husbands, the third guy was her high school and college boy friend whom I met at a class reunion. Another was the guy she was dating and fucking while we were courting. I am pretty sure she fucked two of her cousins as a teenager. I am on the lookout for other guys who we may run into who have fucked her. I have a pretty good idea who they are by the descriptions she has given me. Maybe I will get to meet all of them.

 

[rickyny73]

One time when I was cleaning stuff out of the garage I came across an unmarked tape in a box of my wife's old things. I suspected it was a porno so i popped in to take a look and was my jaw dropped when I saw what it was. I was watching a homemade sex video of my wife and her ex-husband on thier honeymoon. She was so embarrassed when she found out I saw it. Turns out she had no idea it was there. She wanted me to destroy it but later decided to keep it after seeing we had much better sex when we saw the video. I talk to her ex- all the time when he comes by to see his daughter. We actually get along very well and have gone golfing a few times. Ever since seeing the video everytime I see him I am always thinking in the back of my head "this dude used to cum on my wife's face." My wife and I talk about her past sex life and I knew what they did before seeing the video, but actually seeing it made me see the reality of it. Everytime I see him I am always picturing that scene from thier honeymoon video of him cumming on my wife's beautiful face.

 

[Son of John]

This story by rickyny73 is a great one, and absolutely believeable. I can easily understand how something like that could happen. He is one lucky bastard to have an actual video of another guy cumming on his wife's face!

I have not had any experience that comes even close. The best I have is that one of the guys who was fucking my wife before we met took some naked photos of her, which he shared with me. And I know that he has shown them to lots of other guys too, maybe even some who know us. I love knowing that there are dozens, maybe even hundreds of guys out there who know what my wife looks like NAKED!