Hi Ms. Hawttonya,
hawttonya82 said:
You're welcome...
hawttonya82 said:
I had attempted this before with someone and was quite disappointed. Not sure if he was nervous or what, but he couldn't get it up although he tried hard.
I read somewhere, long ago, that the largest source of anxiety men feel vis-a-vis relationships with women is the possibility they won't be able to get it up when they need to. It sounds like you encountered a good illustration of that...
But, re. one of your comments in your initial post:
hawttonya82 said:
[My soon-to-be new lover, however,] took his big cock out of his pants and asked me, "Do you want it?"
It seems hard to imagine a more direct and straightforward approach than that. It sounds like he doesn't lack confidence in his sexual abilities...
hawttonya82 said:
So I couldn't tell if the pic of his cock was a real one.
A "real" cock, of course, can always be someone else's cock downloaded from the web...
hawttonya82 said:
After I did web cams with this guy, I knew his "equipment" was as advertised and it did belong to him.
Sounds like good way to satisfy yourself a candidate lover is for real...
hawttonya82 said:
(Realizing sometimes people lie about their size, or post pics not of themselves.)
Always a possibility...
hawttonya82 said:
[This was] the first chance my schedule allowed us to get together. I'm a stay-at-home mom ... my hubby stayed home for me.
That's good. It sounds like your husband has a good appreciation of your sexual needs, and is willing and able to make allowances...
hawttonya82 said:
I made sure I text'd hubby the pic.
No doubt he appreciated that...
hawttonya82 said:
The parking lot was a little bit away from the highway. The car was positioned where we could see what was coming, and adjust accordingly if we needed to.
Thanks for the clarification. Perhaps some of the many people who are too bashful to fuck in parking lots will be emboldened.
Speaking of which, Bonnie Raitt has a blues number in her album "Road Tested" that includes being bent over the hood of her lover's car while he fucks her...
hawttonya82 said:
I look forward to having more adventures to tell.
Good, I'll look forward to reading about your expanding sexual horizons. Do you envision continuing to see your parking-lot lover for many more trysts...? You mentioned you are going to see him again tonight (Fri.), so both of you should soon have a better feeling for your longer-term hot-fucking potential.
I hope it goes well for you...
—Custer