last week i posted an "ad" looking for a black male to play with my wife. i haven't responded to some of the replies (and thanks to all who replied) because i have hit a brick wall.......here's the story:
my wife was raised by a racist father( yes he is a bastard motherfucker). she was brought up around his useless and senseless racial slurs. my wife is not a racist and has never used the "n word" or degraded any race since she and i have been together.
we moved into a new neighborhood last year. our neighbor across the street is a single black male who does very well for a living and has a very hot looking blonde girlfriend. he is friendly to everyone in the neighborhood and is very considerate of his neighbors.
my wife used to flash our neighbors in our old neighborhood. she and i both thought it was very exciting. when we moved to this new neighborhood i thought it would be exciting for her to flash our black neighbor. she agreed and has flashed him quite a bit since i first suggested it (though i dont think he has ever really seen her naked).
when i am playing with her pussy in bed i talk about her flashing him and showing him her big white tits. her pussy gets very wet. i mean soaking wet. i mean grab a fucking mop we've got a helluva mess wet. she willingly flashes him afterward. she said she likes the idea of it being "taboo". she finds that exciting.
so i took it to the next level. i suggested that we invite a black man over for her to strip and masturbate for. she agreed. i also suggested that maybe she could give him a handjob and let him cum on her tits. she agreed but said that's as far as i am willing to go right now. while i am telling her this i am playing with her pussy and i have to say that when i talked about her jacking him off on her tits, she almost came right then.
now to the next level. i came to this site and posted the ad i mentioned earlier. we had several replies and when i told her about the replies she freaked out......in a bad way.
she said there is no way i could do that. she stated that she was afraid of what i might think the next day. of course i reassured her that i would still be ok with it the day after. she still said i dont think i could do that. she said she is afraid of what she would think of herself afterward. i did all kinds of reassuring for the next 2 hours.....but she never agreed to actually do it.
now last nite i suggested taking pics of her naked and putting them in his mailbox.....again she got very wet and agreed to that as along as her face wasnt in the pic........safe way to play i guess.
here's my question:
what the fuck do i do now? i want her to have sex with a black man. i have reassured her so many times but i think she is just nervous.
how do i handle this now? what can i do to really entice her into this and to see how much fun it could be for all involved?
a few things i am thinking might help :
- an interracial movie.
-interracial pics.
-black dildo.
-during sex talk about her fucking a black man and let her see how excited i get from that.
i honestly think she is curious......she is just scared.
any suggestions?
thanks
my wife was raised by a racist father( yes he is a bastard motherfucker). she was brought up around his useless and senseless racial slurs. my wife is not a racist and has never used the "n word" or degraded any race since she and i have been together.
we moved into a new neighborhood last year. our neighbor across the street is a single black male who does very well for a living and has a very hot looking blonde girlfriend. he is friendly to everyone in the neighborhood and is very considerate of his neighbors.
my wife used to flash our neighbors in our old neighborhood. she and i both thought it was very exciting. when we moved to this new neighborhood i thought it would be exciting for her to flash our black neighbor. she agreed and has flashed him quite a bit since i first suggested it (though i dont think he has ever really seen her naked).
when i am playing with her pussy in bed i talk about her flashing him and showing him her big white tits. her pussy gets very wet. i mean soaking wet. i mean grab a fucking mop we've got a helluva mess wet. she willingly flashes him afterward. she said she likes the idea of it being "taboo". she finds that exciting.
so i took it to the next level. i suggested that we invite a black man over for her to strip and masturbate for. she agreed. i also suggested that maybe she could give him a handjob and let him cum on her tits. she agreed but said that's as far as i am willing to go right now. while i am telling her this i am playing with her pussy and i have to say that when i talked about her jacking him off on her tits, she almost came right then.
now to the next level. i came to this site and posted the ad i mentioned earlier. we had several replies and when i told her about the replies she freaked out......in a bad way.
she said there is no way i could do that. she stated that she was afraid of what i might think the next day. of course i reassured her that i would still be ok with it the day after. she still said i dont think i could do that. she said she is afraid of what she would think of herself afterward. i did all kinds of reassuring for the next 2 hours.....but she never agreed to actually do it.
now last nite i suggested taking pics of her naked and putting them in his mailbox.....again she got very wet and agreed to that as along as her face wasnt in the pic........safe way to play i guess.
here's my question:
what the fuck do i do now? i want her to have sex with a black man. i have reassured her so many times but i think she is just nervous.
how do i handle this now? what can i do to really entice her into this and to see how much fun it could be for all involved?
a few things i am thinking might help :
- an interracial movie.
-interracial pics.
-black dildo.
-during sex talk about her fucking a black man and let her see how excited i get from that.
i honestly think she is curious......she is just scared.
any suggestions?
thanks
